I'm the guy your gf told you about...

As a rare poster, but constant lurker, I wanted to interject a few things. First off, I’d been with a lot of women prior to PE’ing, and having always felt a bit small (5.5 NBP at the time) I’d always ask if I was big enough. I’d always get a response of yes. In retrospect, this was due to being a good lay more then size probably. So here’s two instances to share with an even pre-PE obsessed size complexed individual:

1) My girlfriend of a year…I asked if I was big enough. She said, of course you are. I asked her if she had bigger, to which she said no. I believed her then, since I could tell when she was lying (why she’s an ex-gf…again, because I could tell when she was lying!). She said “what are you like 8 inches or something, for god sake, you fill me up, your fine”. Again, this was her honest perception imho…which brings me to a few years later…and…

2) One of my current sport f’s…she asked how big I was since she had seen a measuring tape, and I told her what I had been measuring. So I told her…8.75 (about 1 inch more then I am currently NBP). She said, “are you sure it isnt bigger” to which I replied I wasn’t fully erect.

These two points are just to illustrate that girls have no f’ing clue when it comes to size. When 5.5 becomes 8, and 7.75 becomes 9…we’ve all got a bit of introspection to do when it comes to our complexes. Next time your gf tells you about the guy with the 9 inch schlong, remember this story…

PS Current stats, which I have to update are 7.75x6.125

I agree. My ex somehow thought that I have a 9 1/2 inch dick. That’s what she told her friends and co workers.

Agree.

If most men agree that women don’t have a clue about size then why are you always asking us about it?

Thats a good question DiamondWinds. Also, I know that a woman asking me about breast size is a big turn off. Are guys asking you about their size a big turn off? I bet it is.

I believe we ask about our dicks for the same reason women ask if their ass is too wide or their boobs too small. We just need some positive reinforcement. I think women tend to not give men many compliments, and when you never hear anything good, you start suspecting the worst. I know that’s why I asked my wife The Question. She never ever gave me any compliments, so I starting thinking, “Wow, I must suck big time.”

penismith it is a loaded question is what it is. It is asked to feed a mans ego. Truthfuly women don’t have a clue about size. There is no answer that is going to satisfy men anyway.

You just can’t win.

Excellent points kong1971 and DW. I’ll admidt that while I wondered what every woman I’ve ever been with thought about my size, the only one I’ve ever actually asked was my wife. The reason I finally asked, was just along the lines of what kong1971 said. After being with her so long sans compliments, I had to actually ask.

Are you sure these women weren’t lying to you? Maybe now that you’ve broken up, those 8-9 inches has turned into 2-3 while they bitch about you. Women know the truth…they just decide to deny it while talking. That doesn’t mean they’re dumb or oblivious or whatever. Do not fool yourselves, brothers!

My wife and I have had some very honest discussions about size. She told me she honestly couldn’t say how big her ex’s were exactly, because that’s not what she was worried about. She said she knew who was biggest and who was smallest, but she couldn’t say it was exactly x.5” in length and x.25” in girth. According to her, she was more impressed with a man’s passion and how he made her feel. Size was important, but only up to the point that she was able to get off on it.

I agree. Even men have problems guessing sizes.

This may be due to your girth.

A girl once told me my penis should be about 8 inches long. That is, she added about 1,5 inches to the real length.

A female friend of mine once said she had been with two guys with penis that were “definitely about 11 or 12 inches long”. I explained to her that what she said was perfectly ridiculous and I did a test on her. Conclusion: she always added AT LEAST 2 inches to something longer than 7 inches (the longer, the more she would add).

I believe the vast majority of women realise the differences in smaller, about the same, and bigger, when comparing.
These discussions tend to not stress that point.

I agree that there are plenty of women way off on numbers, but I don’t believe that applies to all women.

One of my friends got head off this girl who told everyone afterwards that he was tiny. Turns out that he was 6” which is anything but tiny! Poor guy.

I think 7”+ and the overestimate and 7”- and they underestimate.

Bitches!

I asked my wife about penis sizes and at first I didn’t believe her but now I’ve changed my mind.

She has been with quite a few men and I asked her about my size and she said average.
Since I am between 7 and a half and 8 inches, I asked her how she could say that.

She said it was because it’s not small and not huge. She has only three categories, can’t feel it, feels good,
and uncomfortable.

I explained to her that average was about 6 inches and I’m closing in on 8. She said “How the hell am I suppose to know the difference between 6 and 8 inches?”

Well, now she says I have a big dick but I know I won’t get her attention until I’m on the verge of uncomfortable.

If you think about it, when was the last time you slept with a women that said she had 34c breasts and
while you were playing with them you thought to yourself, “Wait a minute, these tits are only 33 1/2c.”

If it feels good, it feels good, period!