Increasing sensitivity

Ok, this is opposite most guys threads, but damn, it’s a problem I have.

I can go all night, but sometimes I just want to blow my load and be done with it. Sex is pretty exausting and to do all that work without ejaculating can be tough.

Some girls I have no problems with lower-sensetivity (when I’m really horny and all over them).

Is there some type of mental exercise or physical exercise one can do to increase sensetivity or to command ejaculation?

Hi tug, i used to have the same problem as you,sometimes when i’am not feeling realy horny or abit run down i struggled to shoot my load.I just said on another thread that the brain is the biggest sexual organ and should be used to solve sexual problems.When i’am struggling to shoot my load i will just think of something that really turns me on,like imagine your making love to your favorite super model or a pretty girl you had an encounter with today.

Hey Tug, I have the exact same problem. I was talking about it in the other thread that I posted, called 3 month program. I just wanna nut and get it over with sometimes. Even sometimes I can bang my girl three times before I blow. She orgasms really fast with me, so after that, she really wants me to cum, and I wont. Its cause my PC muscle is so damn strong, i do about 1000 PC squeezes a day.

One thing that has worked for me is Masturbating till the point of cumming, but then, right then, DO NOT CUM, I DONT CARE HOW BAD YOU WANT TO, stop let it subside and do that about 10 times. Trust me the next time you have sex you will have so much cum wanting to come out, It will be a unbelievable load, thats also how I have such a big load every time I come.

Also if your doing a lot of PC work, slow down and relax with tit a bit. If not, when your having sex keep squeezing your PC long and hard before you come, that makes me cum a lot faster. God luck man, we are both in the same canoe.

massive member,

Welcome to the board and thanks for replying to my post! It’s very refreashing to find out I’m not the only one with the affliction that most would call a gift. Much like you all, when I say I can go all night, I literally mean it!

Sometimes I think of something that really turns me on to speed up my ejaculations when masturbating. I don’t know why I didn’t even consider it with sex as well. Sometimes you need someone to say it, so thanks!

dieanotherday,

I think I’m going to start to work the PC muscle. The idea of using the PC muscle to stop ejaculation and produce larger loads is VERY enticing; I want massive loads. Also, I’ve never heard of squeezing the PE prior to ejaculation to produce one. Very interesting information indeed!

Do you do your 1000 kegals all at once, or split them up throughout the day? How long do you hold each one?

To be able to control your ejaculations seems like an incredible skill. You can go all night, or just 5 mins. The information you both posted here is priceless!

I can go a good 30-45 min in the sac with most women unless there is massive foreplay before I am good too go. It is sometimes a problem almost cause I sometuime were them out :) Anyways my teo ways of “geting off” in that situation is usally I will try to have her panties right there and take whiff or two (as long as she is clean) and that gets me excited or I think I of the one time I had a threesome and that works (I am not gay but watching my friends BIG dick screw the hell out of this chubby chick gets me off everytime, hehe if I was gay I would blow him all day)

I can go as long as I want to. I do 5 sets of 200 squeezes. When I squeeze it it makes me come faster, if I dont want to cum, then I squeeze it really hard right at the point of ejaculation.

Tug Monkey,
Do you find it also takes a long time when masturbating to cum? I mean a long time too, like fifteen or more minutes. If it does not take too long when masturbating then the problem may not be a lack of sensitivity .It maybe that your penis is trained only to cum through masturbation. I will am willing to wager that you probally beat off quite a bit.If you quit masturbating after a while it will be much easier to cum with a women as you will have retrained your penis. Hope this helps.

PEace

dieanotherday,

I tried holding back my ejaculation and was successful for about 10 seconds, then I had to let loose. What followed was one of the most INTENSE orgasms I have ever felt. Wow. Also, I tried squeezing the PC and my orgasm came very soon afterwards. My PC is weak, but I’m going to try to make it much stronger with many kegals. Your technique is unreal and I’m interested in exploring it some more.

jman,

I think you’re on to something. I use to masturbate quite a bit and I always wondered if I trained myself to love my hand. At one point in my life, my hand was the only thing that could get me off! I would literally have to pull out then beat off to orgasm with a girl. Forget about BJs, I have never had a BJ induced orgasm.

Recently I haven’t been masturbating as much though I currently don’t have a partner to see if my sensetivity has increased or not.

Usually when I whack off, I use a tight grip. This tightness feels nothing like the inside a vagina. Do you think if I loosened my grip during masturbation it may help retrain me?

Great diagnosis, jman. Thanks for the advice.

Hye tug im glad many, thats awesome. I will tell you this go a few days to a week doing this meathod, but dont come for the whole week, watch what happenes, you have have a Peter North CUm Shower, and you will feel totally exhausred, I love it. Every day do about 10 ejact seeesion , that what i call them. I beat off all the way till comming about 10-12 times, then let my slef suside completely and my erection go away completely, then I do it again. You will not what belive what this feels like, you wil be so wanting to come, but im telling you dont do it. I dont care how bad you want to, you will be thaking me next week if you do it. Good luck

I have this problem too, in fact I’ve never blew a load while getting head and it may be because I’m so used to masturbating.

If I haven’t cummed for days, then it’s easy while banging my wife but if I’m not particularly horny, I look right at her pussy as I slip in and out of it because the visual makes me harder and gets me off. I also think of the last porno that I got off to if I’m not actually watching porno with her which helps too.

Since my wife won’t let me cum in her mouth, that’s out the window.
But I think I could get off orally if I were to “edge” a few times a day, not cum, and then get head the next day when I’m really primed up for it.

Also, try L-Arginine ( base ) 5g twice a day first thing in the morning - at least a half hour before any protein consumed at breakfast - and at bedtime - on an empty stomach. This reloads me twice as fast. I’m more sensitive with a full load plus another day of rest with good sleep.

So L-Arginine makes your cum faster? I have been looking for something that would make me do that. Can you explain further? Do you just have more sensitivity or are you generally more horny or what? Thanks!

bump

I’ve never taken L-Argenine, but I’ve read that it increases your cum. Also it makes your cum much thicker. I wonder if there are natural foods or exercises that have the same effect?

You should try squeezing your PC very hard when you feel it’s time to come. I tried it and surprisingly it worked! I came very soon afterwards. Plus the PC squeeze technique is free!