The orgasms that my ex got from anal were always very powerful, if not more powerful than the ones gotten from vaginal stimulation. The rare times (mayby a dozen in almost 2 and half years ) when I was able to fuck her, without it getting painful for her ( as you RWG, I’m also quite thick, not as thick as you, but the point is that I know how you feel ) before real intercourse, were something to remember.
The weird thing is, that I never enjoyed it physically that much. It felt tight and it was REALLY satisfying mentally, one of my fetishes actually, but only once I came. It really didn’t feel that much at all and pussy was much better for me. I guess the anal walls are just so much smoother than the vaginal walls….
Ofcourse I did my duty and pleased her anally in other ways, as fingering, very often to compensate the amount of such intercourses.
One of the most memorable times was when I teamed up with my 8x5.5 dildo and….. well, that’s another story. ;)
"Be aware that there are several schools of thought here as well. Some seem to go with the hard and heavy approach. The sessions are brutal. You can hear them talking to their dick: You better grow mofo or I will punish you even harder tomorrow! Others seem to favor a more tender approach. Always listening to what their member is saying while massaging it gently and singing to it with a soft voice. If it is moody and not happy with new behavior, they always listen and are very understanding."