Is enough enough?

I’ve been wondering about this growing dick of mine and PE. When is it enough? My goal of 7.5” BPEL does not seem far off anymore as I hit 7” recently. My girth goal is 6.28” and I measured 5.88”. I’m already thinking of new goals. Am I sick? I should be thankfull for what I had. I should be satisfied with all I’ve gained. Is it wrong to want more? If I continue to grow at my current rate I will have met my goals in 2-3 months. I doubt that I would stop PE’ing. Why? My wife is having the best fucks of her life. She doesn’t know about PE or that I’ve grown an inch in length. I know she is enjoying it more but she doesn’t ask. I’ve seen her look at my dick as if it were a first time look and I think she is wondering why it feels so good and looks so big. At least when I tease her with it and ask her if she’s ready for my 6” cock she doesn’t come back with a negative statement like she used to. (You’re dreaming if that’s 6” was one of her old come-backs) So I really want to hear her scream when I fuck her. Is that wrong? Or is that a sick reason to grow my meat?

What do you all think?

That’s why I grow my meat. To hear things like “oh my god it’s so big” and see the intense pleasure on her face. There is nothing better. And you also probably have a little vendetta from previous comments. At least you are using it constructively.

We always want to be better or have more. It’s just the way we are. Except when it come to peace, sadly but that’s another topic. I’m guessing you are thankful, but being thankful for what you have doesn’t mean you don’t want more. More is also relative and means different things to different people. Some people can’t even really define what ‘more’ is because they don’t really know what it is they want in a specific way, so how would they know if they were getting ‘more?’ Progression just seems to be the name of the game for our desires. If someone has a million dollars, they want a million and one… if someone just had the best sex they’ve ever had, they want more of it… if someone is the best at a sport, they wanna be even better… it’s just a drive within us to express ourselves. Now, there is a point when ‘more is less,’ at least in my view. When it comes to things like war, famine, disease, crime or corruption. The reason those are ‘bad’ from a human perspective is because they aren’t an upward progression, they’re downward. They help no one in any real way and cause suffering… but when what you want leads to the opposite of suffering, to peace in some sense of the word, it’s a great thing. In this case, you’re giving your wife sexual pleasure which is fantastic… you’re GIVING in nature, rather than trying to take or get. I could go on about this but I think you get the point.

As a male of the species you are cursed with always wanting more.

If we didn’t want more there would be no industry, technology, art, science, culture, internet and everything else that we have made at our own hands.

Plus we are delusional and neurotic, but that’s another matter!

Regarding goals, I think goals are good, but looking at true motivations is more powerful and a more lasting way of staying motivated to do what we need to get bigger.

I discovered recently that EQ motivates me as much if not more that the desire to be bigger.

I know now that I will see length and girth gains with the program I’m following (hanging and jelqing), but the improved EQ really makes me see how far I can go with the diamond cutter.

Goals are conscious decisions we make for ourselves, yet motivations can be much more psychological and unconscious and sometimes harder to discover for one’s self and far more powerful than an arbitrary goal.

Not that setting a goal post of a certain length or girth isn’t important as part of the structure of PE, it’s just that sometimes reaching a goal can stop you in your tracks.

And I love the cock consciousness aspect, the feeling of certain knowledge throughout the day that a monster emerges, which drives me forward to the next hang or jelq session.

No…. just dick obsessed.

It is a bit primitive but quite common fantasy for men. But don’t feel bad…. there is no such thing as originality on dick pulling forums.

I’ve been off and on for a very long time now. It was always a chore to really get into a consistent routine until I stopped measuring the beginning of this year. It took a lot of these thoughts out of my head. I just listen to my body and pay attention. Obviously, what you’re doing is something you want to do for yourself. I think it’s just the mental aspect of it you are trying to come to terms with.

My measurements are the mental aspects, not the ruler. The confidence I feel knowing my dick is growing. The increased EQ. The obvious growth. I noticed how much easier PE is when you just do it. When you begin adding specific numbers sometimes you sort of lose focus, at least for myself. I may want to grow an inch, but how fast do I want to grow? When I get there, do I want more? If I want more, why? I feel like when you attach numbers and specific goals you can sometimes lose the bigger picture, which is, what am I doing this for? Is it for your happiness? Is it for your wife? Yourself? Without the “goal” I realized how much healthier my mental outlook towards all of this is.

Once I lost the ruler for a while, it became a lot easier to do this for myself. I’m no longer doing it to hit a goal. I’m doing it because I know it works and this is something I really want to do. It’s a lifestyle change I want to be a part of my life for a very long time. Whether my penis grows a half inch, 2 inches, or none at all, I’m fine with it. I’m getting the best erections I’ve ever had. It has already grown. I’ve used it to break through some sex barriers with me and my girlfriend. I’m passed the point of doing this for a specific reason or a specific goal. Because I have more than enough reasons and proof that this lifestyle change has worked for me.

Everyone has a different outlook and approach. Sometimes we get so lost in the routine or the “goal” that we lose focus on what we’re actually doing. You can’t possibly be doing pe so your dick can be 9x6 or whatever. That’s like a body builder saying I’m lifting because I want my arms to be “this many inches.”

I’m sure there’s a moment where most of say “I’m done now, this is where I’m happy”. And it’s all relative; it depends on your cognitive and physiological needs and those of your partner.

Personally, I do it for me. Simple because I get more pleasure out of it and I like the feel of my (bigger) dick resting in my hand.

tootyfisty - yes I agree. It’s awesome sex.

SuperBad Man - I can agree with what you say. I just don’t know if I really want a cock over 7-1/2” BPEL. (then again - at my age why should I worry? 9” wouldn’t kill my sex life if I used it right.) My gains psychologically may be greater than physiological and that makes me wonder if I’ll be able to stop PE. Sex is such a big part of my life blood. ED was starting to ruin that and now it’s gone. My EQ is great and getting better.

a-unit - you are probably right . Again! Goals are important to PE. I will have to ponder this and see if I can draft some new goals for the future. I have yet to hear my wife scream during an orgasm. That is a good goal!

Troubadoue - I guess we all share that dick obsession.

Givemefreedom - Right! I don’t PE just to get a bigger dick. That’s how it all started. There are various reasons for me to PE and keep PE’ing.

DomXZ - You and I buddy! :) I love the feeling of my (bigger) dick resting in my hand. And the man in the mirror is real! I have a bigger dick!

Metamorpho, I think some women are screamers, and others are moaners, and some try their darnedest to make no sounds at all.

My wife is terrified that her children will hear her (which I do understand) yet says nothing when her son lights up the squeaky barbie like a fire truck siren. In fact she will try to stop the bed making sounds and even the sound of the mattress against the boxspring will bring things to a halt until adjustments are made.

The only time my wife can relax is if both her children are out, then she says what she means.

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a-unit - “Her son lights up the squeaky barbie like a fire truck siren.” Yet she insists on a quiet house to make noise in. Hmmm! So my wife would be the same if our son lit a screamer up in our house. However it would have to be stealth sex if either of our children were in the building. It’s funny because when we first started screwing she would sneak into the bedroom I shared with my brother and I’d have to slow her down and get her to be quiet so she wouldn’t wake my brother. She does vocalize a little when we are alone in the building. I do believe the potential scream is there. She gets close some times. We will see if that goal is ever met. :)

iamaru - Good acoustic information!

You may not be sir, but from the posts I’ve read there is a fair bit of neurosis amongst the brotherhood here.

But if we weren’t there would be no Thunder’s.

Hearing the wife vocalize her pleasure during sex is one of life’s finest pleasures. No doubt! Even though I tell myself that I PE for me … In truth a big part of the motivation is hearing my woman get loud during sex.

My big issue is that I have 7 kids running around the house most of the time. The older ones are definitely getting suspicious when I hand them a wad of cash to take their siblings to the movies.

I say “keep doing PE until you are no longer motivated”

Printman - Congratulations on raising 7 children. One thing I would change in my life is to have had more children. I know it’s easy for me to say now having both my boys in their 30’s. They are the continuation of you and as you look at each one of them you see your wife and yourself progressing through the circle of life.

So the children grow up knowing their mom is/was a screamer. It’s healthy to enjoy sex. My grandparents had 17 children. The aunts and uncles say sex instead of cheese when doing family pictures. All in good humor and love of their parents/siblings. I remember as a youngster I’d stay with my grandparents for a week and we’d hear them romping at night. They must have been in their mid 60’s then. So yea. Let her scream. The kids know about sex by 10 years old anyway. I love getting every moan and word I can out of my sex mate. :thumbs:

I dated a little greek girl when I was 19 and she would wake up the entire house with her firetruck siren. I had to put my hand over her mouth to muffle the screams.

I miss that crazy little psycho.