Is enough enough?

a-unit - When I was 21 I was dating a 28 year old redheaded Italian girl. God she was a good interactive fuck! Hot headed and steamy hot sex! Well one night I was pounding away on her and she screamed like a Banshee! It curdled my blood and I had to stop and ask her if she was alright! She just smiled and said “It was soo good. Let’s fuck again.” And another time she suddenly squirted and soaked the bed in our motel room. She just thought she had lost her bladder control. She never squirted again and we were on and off after that as I was the jealous type and she wasn’t honest. She made some lame ass excuse to break up and then I caught her out with another guy the same night so I banged her best friend that night and she really got pissed at me. Gee ain’t that funny how some women behave. I broke away from her and said I didn’t care how good our sex was I wasn’t going through that shit the rest of my life. And I took a motorcycle trip with guys from work and ended up meeting my wife in Minnesota and we literally fell in love the first night. (We didn’t fuck for 6 weeks but I knew not to confuse the two again.) So there is much good because of bad. haha Life is strange. And screamers are fun and hot!

I don’t think you should let the desire for a bigger dick overcome you, but with that being said if you want more and your wife seems to be enjoying that why stop? Just because you worked your ass off and got a great job doesn’t mean you should quit trying go for another promotion!

ex996 - I like the way you think. Another promotion. God I can’t wait to hear my wife scream!

Reach your initial goal, smile, chill, maintain.

I know I will reach my initial goal. Actually I already have. I wanted a bigger cock.

If your wife starts to complain that it hurts or is uncomfortable, then back off on PE.

Your gains to date have been a win-win for you and your wife and you seem to be cognizant of keeping it that way. If she’s happy now, the next 1/4” in length and girth won’t turn pleasure into pain but I think you should really consider just talking to her about PE. I hope to one day get to 7x5.75 and know that I would have to share my secret with my wife if I do.

sta-kool - I hear you man. I stay alert to her pains as she has DDD (Degenerative Disc Disease) and multiple disc injuries with one that is bulged and pushes in against her spinal cord deforming it on MRI about 25%. For a long time after our car accident I had to fuck her with kid gloves. Perhaps that is part of why learning to kegel/edge was easy for me. If she says I’m too big I will definately stop growing my meat. Half the fun is watching her enjoy the pleasure I’m giving her without her knowing how I’m doing it. (I don’t know if this makes sense to you but it does to me.) Thanks for the support guys! :)

jd10021

I will never talk to her about PE. That decision has been made. I may tell her I grew but I don’t think she needs to know how I grew. Hell, she doesn’t visually notice the difference between under 6” and 7” and being fatter? It really doesn’t matter to her. Like you said if “pleasure turns to pain”. Then I stop growing my meat and all will be well. So I have to use some lube. We’re getting old together and can handle that. :) Mentally I don’t need to tell her. There are important things that you tell your wife. This is not one of them. (I don’t do risky things with my dick so I don’t get any injuries that would deprive her) Thanks for the input. I don’t mind thinking things out! :) Good luck in reaching your goals too!

May I ask why so adamant about not sharing your PE with the wifey?

Because it’s mine, mine, mine and I don’t want her to know. It would be meaningless to her and she’d think I’m wasting my time. Perhaps I am wasting my time. It’s my time and I’ll tell her in heaven. OK? Oh that’s right I’ll probably rot in hell for playing with my dick and not telling her. I spent the last 35 years sleeping next to her and jacking off every time she turned me down for sex and she couldn’t believe that I actually jack off! So why should I tell her again? Please tell me. I need a laugh right now.

I alluded to my girlfriend of doing a little stretching, but I think that’s all I’ll say for now. If I get some real results then I’ll let her in on it. Maybe. :)

tnttom32 - Maybe is a great answer. It really has little to do with them unless you hurt them or deprive them of something by doing PE. (A great reason to fear hurting yourself) (the only benefit would be not having to hide what your doing) (unless your wife is willing to do your stretching and jelqing - wow would that be a bumpy trip)

As for wether enough is enough I would have to say it is an elusive statement. We never know until we get there. The finish line is not drawn in the sand because it involves more than size. Of course we all know it ends when we die. And 8” may be the length limit. 7” may be the girth limit. But it’s all relative to where we are today and tomorrow may have some new players in the game. So I’m just another PE junkie and I’ll have to learn to accept it and adjust accordingly when the time comes. If it comes.

Not trying to push you into telling her what so ever, just curious as to others opinions on that. I’m not telling mine either but only because I want any gains to be a suprise and not something for her to grow to expect or lie to give me false confidence.

Ex996, you nailed it on the head there.