Is it worth it?

The bigger I’ve gotten, the less motivation I have to keep working. Now that I’m only about ½ inch away from the “Magic 8,” I wonder if it’s even worth pursuing. I know it doesn’t make any sense – I should be slamming for the “finish line,” but I’m not.

It just seems like 16 months of work was a fucking waste of time. My life doesn’t seem any happier for it.

Anyone else experience this???

I don’t feel that way, but it depends on your attitude toward PE. To me it’s a hobby - a challenging recreation, not an ordeal to be endured until a goal is reached.

Maybe you need some time off. I find it difficult to take a break, but I come back with renewed gusto after one.

Wadzilla,

Your life may be exactly the same as when you started PE, with the exception of one tiny little detail………….you have a bigger dick.

I am not much different than when I started PE but today I don’t feel as though I am “inferior” because of the size of my penis, which I was feeling when I started.

I look at PE as a hobby also, my wife belongs to her forums, and I belong to this one. If I wasn’t PEing I would just be watching TV or something useless.

I don’t remember who it was on here, but someone here wasn’t looking for a certain size, but rather a certain “look” to their penis. If you like the “look” of your member, then why not just do a maintenance routine and go have fun with it.

:)

IW8

Wad,

I actually feel the opposite way. When I started, I was a complete skeptic and thought I would be wasting my time to try this stuff. In addition, I knew that any results (which I didnt even believe possible) would take months or years and I always felt “why waste all this time now.” Once I proved to myself that this shit actually works, I went at it with a vengeance and its made PE all the more easier, the bigger I get. Try looking at it that way. And your life is better in some ways, don’t you remember how much it sucked to be insecure about your dick size? You’ll never have to feel that again, plus you said your wife loves teh sex now more than ever. Thats gotta be a big bonus.

-Gandolf

Let me call Fraiser on this one.

Maybe you are just afraid that after you reach your goal, then what?

You can’t say you are not proud of that big fucking cock. Just look how big it is. You can’t even remember what it used to look like can you?

You have accomplished a great task and worked hard for it. Enjoy the fruits of your labor. You are one of the few, the many, proud to be a PE’er!

I’m gonna cry now.

I only agree with one line in the post.

I still go through periods of obsession for PE, but more and more frequently its been feeling like a hobby.

This is Cya’s girlfriend. Cya has gained roughly half an inch since we started dating…and yes there is a difference. He can reach places that he couldn’t before. Sex has become much more intense and although half an inch may not seem like a lot…I’m here to tell you it makes a BIG difference inside!!

Now that’s an endorsement!

Thanks cya’s girlfriend!!

When I hit 8 I became comfortable with my size and not as driven, but I’m still driven more than most and have my moments when I boarder on insane. I’m 8.5 now and I can see my goal of 9 and it motivates me forward. Plus your all a pack of nuts and help keep me motivated

wadzilla,

i think it strongly depends on how desperate you are to become larger.
In my case i am very desperate and i know that i will be happier when i gain.

You say that you dont feel happier now so another issue in your life would be more important to change for you to feel better.

Maybe:

-being more confident
-losing weight
-being able to develop feelings for another person (woman)

I dont know you.

Hey wadzilla,

Hey buddy your talking to an expert on this subject. I have gone through exactly the same thing more than once. The cure is to take some time off. I have taken more than a year off and the “PE itch” always comes back and I am off an running again.

I’m having a similar problem wad. I’m just short of the 8” mark but I’m too aware that it is only a mark on a piece of wood. I do feel like I have enough length for the wife. So my motivation to be consistent with workouts hasn’t been there. I would like to get to 8.0 nbp. that would mean bout 5/8” length and loosing about 30# (to get to 8.5 bpel). I keep telling myself that I should get this last bit for me, but it just isn’t strong enough motivation for now. Perhaps I’ll end up loosing the 30# and settlling for 7.25” nbp… I guess that would be ok.

Wad

I was reading your post again and it reminds me of a few I have made on the board here and the peforum, I have always battled with if PE is a waste of time or not. When I didn’t know about PE I was very happy being regular I mean don’t get me wrong I would not have turned down a bigger dick but I was regular and ok with that. When I think of the time and effort put into PE by me and the guys on this forum I think we surely must have been able to do something better with our time. We could have spent it with love ones or bettered our self at our job but no we chose to make our dicks bigger. Now let me tell you I really enjoy my big dick and sex is so much better but the rest of my life has sucked the last couple of years I can’t say for sure if PE had anything to do with making it worse, but I do know that PE can’t make you happy it can only be a small part of your life having a big dick is not going to change your life except when it comes to sex and being consumed by PE could make the rest of your life worse

wadzilla,

I don’t believe a bigger dick makes you happier. But how would you feel now if your dick was smaller? For me, happiness doesn’t revolve around my penis, but I can say I have more self confidence with a larger unit! Think of all the insecurities many of us had and how many feel better about themselves now because of PE. I am not always happy when it comes to my emotions, but I am happier that my dick is getting larger.

Ophio

Very true.

I appreciate all the responses here - it has made me think more thoroughly about my situation. Understand, I’m not “blaming” PE for my problems, I guess I’m just a little disappointed that being so much bigger hasn’t made me feel appreciably better. And yes, the sex is much better - but everything else is shit right now. I guess things naturally made me think that if PE hasn’t *improved my life* then I wasted 16 months.

But that’s a false analogy because isn’t directed at your “Life,” just your pisspipe. Maybe when/if things straighten out in my life, I’ll have a better perspective on my gains - pretty good gains, in fact.

Thanks.