It gets bigger during sex?!

Here’s the story: Many times when I make love to my g/f she doesn’t comment on my size (the running line at this forum), but when I first push my 9.25x5.8 into her she winces/takes a deep breath as I begin to fill her up.

Now, as I am riding her (>20 mins into it) I start to lose my initial size and it dissipates into a 8.5x5.7 (not a big problem and not the point of this thread). But I have found that my dick swells when I cum (question #1= does this happen to all men or is this a sick thing my body does), and having just talked to my g/f about it, she says it swells LARGER than my initial erection.

Therefore, I am believing my dick can actually expand past my 9.25x5.8 that I measure during jelqing sessions.

Couple quick things to mention: No, my dick doesn’t swell when I masterbate-only during actual sex, and this “coital swelling” has occured before PE.

Any comments would be great especially to my one question (sorry I thought I was going to have more than one)

BT79

Mine does the same thing though. Girls have told me they can feel it swell up inside of them

If the 9.25x5.8 is measured during jelqing (like you say) its not your “true” size anyway.

But to answer your question, yes, the penis swells up when about to ejaculate.

Doesn’t she complain about your annoying breaks to take measurements while you are having sex? :)

Yes, I think this happens to all men. My wife mentions the same thing when we have sex. The only drawback is, when she’s giving me oral and I’m trying to cum in her mouth by “accident”, she pulls it out as soon as she feels the swelling. DAMN!!

Thanks for the quick response, but question Slack (by the way those are my real stats-I was big to start- around 8.75 BP x5.75-so I’m a hard gainer):

What did you mean by that it must not be my true size if I measure while jelqing/masterbating? When do others measure?

BT79

If you measure during/after jelqing, then you’re taking a “pumped” measurement, which is invariably bigger than your “regular” size.

Have you tried clamping?
When you are clamped really well, your unit is in it`s biggest possible size, I think bigger then when you cum inside your gf.

Try clamping, clamping is the best thing IMO, i love it.

;)

You know what? you JUST got me to realize what the pumpers are on about. If you could always have your “pumped” measurement, it would BE your “regular” size.

Neat thought, I must be slow as bricks!:smack:

BT, I think that is pretty standard. Nothing sick about it, I think it is retty cool! My wife says she loves to feel that rock-hardness swell up like that. Of course, I am not 9.25, either.

Sorry, still a little slow (I guess like bricks)…

How else do I get hard to make a measurement of my cock? If I don’t jerk, I’ll be flaccid and that would be a flaccid measurement, not an erect measurement.

Either way, whether I jelq/jerk to an erection or just wait till I see my naked g/f, my cock is still the same size 9.25x5.8 (of course when I’m about to lay down my meat I’m guesstimating my cock’s size-no gprent I don’t break out the ruler)

BT79

Slack-

I don’t know that I agree, as EL is always open to ‘manipulation’ [sorry]- after all, if you measure post PE, aren’t you simply measuring the true maximum size? It’s kind of like the cold/ pumped argument among bodybuilders- does it really matter if a 20” arm is pumped or not? 20” is 20”.

I think the moment you measure EL it all gets kind of murky- including the whole BP v. NBP debate. The best indicator of growth, as I have noted before, must be BPFSL as it is the only objective one that can’t be scammed/ overridden by external factors. Expansion/ size differentials during arousal illustrates my point.

As to shifting size during arousal, I too have experienced this, though with neither the regularity nor to the degree as BT79.

If you measure during/after jelqing, then you’re taking a “pumped” measurement, which is invariably bigger than your “regular” size. (Slack).

How long after a PE session should we wait before measuring? Also, whats wrong with measuring after each session as I do? It doesn’t put me off not seeing gains each and every day. I’ve never expected that as I know this is a long process.

The other thing is how to you get other peoples quotes in a nice little picture frame thingy?

AndroNYC

I think we were thinking pretty much the same thing at the same time.

Guys-

I measure before I start my jelqing session. I start arousing myself and as soon as I get as hard as possible I measure (I thought this was standard).

I have measured myself in a clamp and it does seem bigger than when I’m in my girl about to cum (but then I can’t/don’t measure myself in my girl when I’m about to cum)

I believe-for those who do clamp- that your clamped sized erection is the same sized erection you get as you “swell” inside your SO. Look at it this way: when you’re clamped, you’re at your most maximal length and girth (I am speaking from the point of view who has only clamped and never pumped) and when you swell up larger than your initial erection just before you cum, you possibly reach this huge erection that is seen during clamping.

And if not, you could always imagine that’s what is tearing up her precious pussy!

BT79