Lowering erection angle (possible success!)
Okay kids, I’m about to outline something that worked *for me*. Should you try it and snap your weiner off, I will feel sad for you. But that’s all. Use at your own risk and all that.
Me: 6’2”, 190lbs, in very good shape (under 10% body fat). Size stats are roughly 7.25 x 6.25, base girth is 6.625. I mention these only because I think both might matter.
I have long had desires to change my erection angle. I’ve got an upward curve in addition to a very high erection, so that when I’m standing up while my member is fully erect the head points pretty darn close to my nose. Now, for some things, this is great. Missionary with a high erection angle and thick base is wonderful for my wife. But for other things…not so much. Rear entry (doggie), for example, has always been a non-starter for us. Also any girl-on-top positions where she’s sitting up fully or leaning slightly back. Thus almost everything we do is of the highly intimate, face to face variety. Even blowjobs have always been in certain positions only.
Several weeks ago, I started tinkering to see what I could do to affect my angle. Bascially everything I’ve done with PE has made my erections stronger, higher, harder. So this is a different thing for me. I started adding more downward stretching while flaccid. That didn’t seem to do much.
My other idea was to start working myself while erect (instead of soft) to see if I could modify it at all. I did something I haven’t tried since I was a kid. When I wake up in the night with wood, I try to very slowly manipulate it downward to point between my knees while lowering my body weight onto it (laying face down). Eventually, the erection will subside just enough to make it possible to lay fully flat - so 80-85% hard instead of 100%. I’m sure somebody already has a name for this, but I don’t know what it is and a search didn’t turn it up right away. It’s probably something like an erect bed fowfer while laying face down. The idea is to stretch the ligaments at the top side that are so high and hard to work against, and that don’t seem to respond to flaccid stretches.
There are several cautions. First, you must be physically fit enough to make the very slow transition required. It should take a minute or more to get things situated right, and may take even longer for guys like me that have very thick base girth. I also have a very strong core. You must not drop your weight onto the erect dick too early or you risk breakage. Seriously. The second is that I can’t do this with a normal erection - my normal erections are too strong and full. It has to be a night woody, which in my case is not quite as thickly engorged and is slightly more easily pliable. I don’t know how to explain the difference well, but there is one.
Typically I’ll maintain that position while sleeping, or until the erection fully subsides. It might take awhile, but usually not longer than a half hour.
The results are as follows: the last three times we’ve had sex, we’ve managed to get into both doggie and cowgirl with some lay back to it. Both have been much more comfortable despite fully engorged erections. Last night we stayed in doggie for about twenty minutes, just enjoying the sensations like we have never been able to. She never once gasped or grimaced in pain like she always has before. It was great, and much more fun than we’ve ever had in that position. I even had room to play with her ass at the same time, something we’ve never really had room to do because of the up-and-over position we’ve always had to use before. Girl-on-top positions have been the same - fully sitting up has caused no pain, and even slightly reclined with her hands on my thighs or just below the knees has been doable. We can both feel that I’m as hard as ever inside her - it just isn’t pulling or poking or hurting either of us. According to her, both positions have been much more pleasurable. She just laid there and sighed last night while in doggie, clearly liking not being poked and pushed in weird ways.
Second, my flaccid hang has been slightly fuller over the last couple of weeks, with a big more rubbery feel to it - not unlike a few hours after a pumping session.
