Para, but “anecdotal” does not mean invalid. It simply means that it has not been empirically verified.
Furthermore, I didn’t specify anywhere in my comments “NBP.” I think this is far more relevant with today’s shocking levels of obesity than it was during Kinsey’s era. A fat pad can easily exceed an inch; with a fat guy - much more common today - it can be more than 2 inches. Does that mean that dicks are smaller than we think or that people are fatter than ever? Of course, the latter proposition has been empirically verified.
Allow me to give one more “anecdote.” Last month, I got laid for the first time in ages. The woman was about my age, and divorced for a long time (she was only married briefly). She seemed open & honest, and did not appear to be the type to play mind games.
Anyway, we had sex and it was good for both of us. Later on, when we were talking, she said, “I was a little worried at first.” When I asked why, she said because of my size, and the size of my hands and feet. But she said I was good and she enjoyed herself.
I was playing dumb and asked what she meant. She said she was worried I might be “huge.” I said, “I have no idea about that stuff. Am I average-sized?” She said, “You seem a little bigger than average (at 8+ BP, with 6 1/4+ midshaft & 6 3/4+ base girth!).” Then she added - with seemingly real emotion - “My last boyfriend used to hurt like hell.”
Then, still acting dumb, I asked, “Oh, do you mean he was big.” She widened her eyes, nodded, and said, “O yeah!”
Now, must everybody conclude that she was “full of shit”? Do her comments seem “statistically improbable”, therefore invalid? Will I receive a litany of “women-don’t-know-shit-about-size” posts?
I could not even begin to count how many similar stories I’ve heard of the past 20+ years. Or, like I said, the profusion of 6”+ flaccid cocks that I’ve seen in locker rooms, etc. And I’ve heard so many other similar stories from guys, gals, etc.
How does one confront such anecdotes? Simply dismiss them?
Furthermore, I’m not convinced that we can determine a true average from such a limited sampling. I know you’ve written about these probabilities, but I’m not convinced. Average heights are gained from doctor’s offices, morgues, the military - from tens of millions of samples. The retail industry tracks shoe sizes, clothing, bras, etc. But penis size surveys have sampled a mere drop in the bucket. Some, such as Kinsey, were exclusively white. Others, such as the Israeli study, focused on one small ethnic group. Even the average heights vary greatly throughout the world - by several inches. There is much variation in the human race, and I’m not sure that some statistical model could adequately express this.
I know what these (limited) studies say, but I also cannot ignore what I’ve heard - and sometimes even saw with my own eyes. And some of these studies sample a mere few hundred people. Hell, I’ve probably heard that many stories over the years.