My theory on Does Size Matter

The truth is yes, it does matter. But not to the extent that everyone makes it. It’s not as if one who has a monster thing is going to get anymore that one who is average or slightly above or below. As long as one doesn’t have a so-called “micro-penis”, a condition when it is so small that the man cannot even stand up to urinate, then it really shouldn’t matter. While a larger thing may be more appealing to the eye, what really does matter is how attracted you are to the person and how much you love the person. If you are attracted to them and love them, then you will enjoy the sex, regardless of what the size of their genitalia is. I once heard somewhere “It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the flow of the ocean”. What are your opinions on the issue of “Does Size Matter?”?

Very well put schivenbeiver, now get jelqing..:D

The phrases “size matters” and “motion of the ocean” are both generalisations. I’m pretty good at the motion thing now I want to enhance that with a bigger boat :)

:D

Just like a tighter pussy feels better to a guy a bigger dick within reason feels better to a chick

For women, most of the action is in the clitoris. A big dick is fun and may provide some special sensations, but it’s essentially dessert. Attention to the clit is the main course.

We all are here because we do not believe in that fallacy about size does not matters.

Tell it to a girl, or is it that females are compulsive liars and enjoy telling me every time I meet new woman , yes, you are small , or, am I imagining every time I am in a locker room, that my penis is the smallest?? At 5.6, my penis is small. I would believe in what you say, if I was 8X6.

I never said size does not matter. I said it was dessert. Dessert matters. It’s just not what a body really needs.

If it is true love you are perfectly right. I have experience of that.

But, I lost a lot a sexual occasion for the embarrassment about my size, particularly flaccid size.
And in the locker room? To the doctor? At the urinals? A lot of very bad situations.

For making love size does not matter, but for sex and above all for self esteem it does.

Only big guys can hit the CDS, remember that.

There is only a limited truth on what schivenbeiver says. It is not about what one enjoys but also but what the other feels. Although love from the gf or wife can compensate for the lack of enjoyment with a smaller size, sooner or later dissatisfaction will begin. Exceptions are rare.

Apart from this as mark001 says flaccid size also matters. See also the link
Don’t Measure it, Weigh it.
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I think also in a similar way and agree with you all Dino9x7, Vikinggg and jelqbeginner.
If not why the hell are we here

Exactly.

Because it matters to us a whole lot more than it does to a woman.

I don’t believe that only big guys can hit the CDS. Well maybe it depends what big means. I am there now with my GF and I’m just at 6” NBPEL. With BP, which is more so what she gets when I have sex with her , she probably gets 6.5” or a bit more but still under 7”.

I think the depth of a girls CDS varies from my experience with this girl and with this girl I am 100% sure I am there as I/we have spent a lot of time trying to assess this.

Also, as a side, I think that in order to get to the CDS a woman has to be able to relax her cervix so you can slide under and past on your way to the CDS. This does not always happen even with a big dick.

Also, the more I study this the more I am convinced that cervix depth varies too and you don’t need a big dick to tap a girls cervix.

According to my GF, and this may be BS, no one even guys bigger than me have given her CDS orgasms. And I know she has had much bigger than me.

Lastly, there is a mental aspect to all of this too. For some and maybe many, many women, an orgasm is as much a mental thing as a physical thing. Therefore, if her head is not in the game and she has not let go having any kind of orgasm will be more difficult even with a big dick. Now that’s not to say that getting laid with a nice dick even still doesn’t feel really good for her.

Just my two cents.

Thanks