No erection

Okay I may have made a terrible mistake but hopefully you guys can sympathize with me.

The other day my of 14 years said that I wasn’t satisfying her anymore. Maybe this was becasue I bought her a dildo that has a five inch girth and I am a mere three inches in girth. So me in dispair clamped for about three hours straight and did some pumping exercises. NOW I can’t get it up. I don’t know if this is psychological or did I do something bad. Really Bad. HELP

If you injured yourself, there is not much to do except nothing and let nature take its course and heal you up.

Going drastically overboard like you did never never never works.

I have never heard of 3 inch girth. Is this the tape measurement around the shaft of your penis or something else you are talking about?

And, if you are in fact that size in girth, why would you buy her a dildo of 5 inches in girth anyways? Slow down dude, it’s better to a have a dick, (o matter what size it is) than to have one that doesn’t work. Take sometime off like gprent said, but think about what you did and what exercises are good for you. I have been PEing for over 2 years, joined this place several months ago and I am still using the the newbie exercise and have seen very good gains. I will do this right. After a 6 month break and loosing some gains, I have told myself that I will do this right and take my time to build the penis that I want and that will stay the length that I choose. Patience my friend.

Now then, She told you that you weren’t satisfying her anymore. Shoot man, I don’t know what to tell you about that.

Im about 4 inches in girth. But at the head of my penis it only three inches. The head of my penis is small or smaller than I wish.

Why did you write in the PE data base that you started at 6.5x4.75?

Assuming you took breaks while clamping and pumping, you should not have suffered any permanent damage. On the other hand, I think the psychological issue is more a problem for you, especially with your wife’s comment. You need to talk this out with her. There are all kinds of fantastic ways to satisfy her with or without a bigger dick.

6.5x4.75 thats my erect length

which one is it? 6.5 or 4.75. Am I missing something? I am assuming that 4.75 was the the girth, but it’s not, 4 inches is.

First you say 3 inches girth, then bump it to 4 inches girth, then confirm your starting measurement is almost 5 inches of girth?

My advice is to write a couple more messages in this thread! Then you will be at 8 inches girth in no time!

Sorry I can’t be more helpfull — if your story is true, I do feel bad for you — but some people make it hard for you to help them. :confused:

4.75 was my girth when I first checked it some months ago. But heck when I last checked it about 2 weeks ago it was four. Maybe I made a mistake some where. Sorry.

iwillbbigger, take full advantage of this site. There is a lot of good advice from a lot good people that have experienced the good and the bad. We have a lot of Guinea pigs here that pass on information unselfishly. There is also a lot of people that do there research on history posts. Be wise my friend and be truthful, because someone here will bust you and can possibility affect your credibility here, at least for some time.

Did peforeal hit the hammer on the head? Is it more of a psychological issue? And if it is, we will listen. We will post to help. This is what we do here. Someone here is going through the same thing you or I and whoever else is going through or have experienced. The beauty of this forum.

Yeah it must have been psychological since I resumed erections but not as intense as they once where. Thanks guys for your help and hey Im trying.