one year pe anniversary

It’s been one year since I stumbled onto this site and started on my pe adventure. What has the past year brought to me? I started at 6.25 bp and 4.75 girth. Today I’m 7.5 bp and about 5 girth. Girth is been such an up hill battle for me. My ultimate goal is 8 bp by 5.5 or 5.75 girth. I really think girth is where it’s at and am focusing more time on it.

I started pe because after 2 kids, my wife was a bit looser and I yearned for that nice snug feeling again. I kept pe a secret up until 3 months ago. While having sex, I blurted out “does my cock feel bigger?” Afterwards I told her I was doing some special stretches. She said she thought something was up because she noticed it seemed bigger. I go so deep into her now that it hurts her now so I have to be careful. Recently she has even refused me doggy style because she said it hurts. I have to relearn my sexual habits. I’m so used to being able to pound her and she loved it, but now with the extra inch I have to be careful. She’s one of those women who I truly think doesn’t believe in the bigger is better concept. So I’ve decided that 8 bp is really a goal for my personal satisfaction, but if I don’t get it then fine. I do want more girth though.

Another benefit of pe has been a dramatic straightening of my penis. I used to have a pretty drastic down curve. It’s still curved a bit, but is much straighter than before. I’d love to have one of those up curves, but I don’t think it’s possible. One down side is that my dick is considerably darker than before. It’s two-toned now. I attribute this to using a tourniquet on my shaft to create a uli type effect. I stopped doing this and if I could start over again I would never do it again. I don’t like the color of shaft at all.

Otherwise, pe has given me a whole new outlook and greater self esteem. I was a bit of skeptic when I started. I even doubted my first 1/2 inch gain for the longest time. I kept wondering if I measured wrong or something. I am now a true believer.

:) Congratulations in hanging in there and progressing. What you have said has to be great motivation for others. Good job.

Nice.

I’m still suffering from that “Have I actually gained?”-syndrom too :) .

Way to go jaji. Keep up the good work!!

Congrats jaji for staying the course.

Takes a lot of dedication to hang in there for a year. There’s a lesson here for guys just starting out: it might take a bit of time, but with perseverance and dedication, PE works.

I think your observation I really think girth is where it's at is very solid. I remember someone posted quite a while ago that, for his situation, length meant nothing, that girth was the real issue.

I’m in the same boat as you, after 2 kids, things felt different and I wanted to change that. I’ve also encountered the same issues now to doggie style, really hit the back wall when I’m in there now, gotta watch it. Was kinda the litmus test for me, like gee, it really is bigger, I’m running out of room in there…

Is good you finally told the wife. I just did this also, time for PE was becoming an issue and I really saw no alternative. Has been positive all the way around, and has provided some humorous moments along the way. Told her I was doing some special exercises for my dick, and she says “Like what, you have little barbells for him to use?”

pe has given me a whole new outlook and greater self esteem. I was a bit of skeptic when I started. I even doubted my first 1/2 inch gain for the longest time. I kept wondering if I measured wrong or something. I am now a true believer.
Couldn’t have said it better bro, glad to have found Thunder’s. I rarely measure anymore. I know my dick is getting bigger, I just keep going and going.

Congrats again, well done.

We have a hard time believing the ruler because oftentimes our dicks don’t look bigger to our eyes. It’s a common occurrence. Congrats, tho, jaji. I’ve been at it I guess about as long as you, BTW. Doesn’t seem like a whole year has passed…

Good post jaji, and congrats on the progress! :)

Congratulations jaji on your success! :up:

Your perserverance is rewarded!

Awesome story. Don’t stop until your reach your goals.

Jaji, awesome post. Congratulations.

I had about the same starting size and about the same goal as you, just (sub) 8 by 6. I think 7.5 by 5.5 or 5.75 would be fine.

I am on target for length goal in about the same amount of time as you but I also am having slow girth gains.

What do you plan to change in your routine to maximize on girth?

Good luck and thanks for the post, always motivating to hear from gainers.