PE'ing With Someone Else Over Webcam

By the way zane, if that is your face on your avatar, I think you are beautiful.

Thank you! That is me.

*thwacking down voyeuristic tendencies*

I was kinda at a loss when I first started PE. I read the directions and all but wasn’t sure if I was doing things right. So I downloaded 8-ball/Gandalf’s vids and I was like, “So that’s how you do that! So I make a backward ‘O’ like that. OK, not too hard. That’s what they mean by a semi. Hmmmmm. Hmmmmm??? Hmmmm!! Mmmmmm….. Mmmmmmm! Ohhhhhhhh! :eek: :eek: But MMMM!!!!

Uh oh.

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I can’t believe Mr. Happy is telling everyone about the mod’s group PE classes. And posting the pics too! :o

Sorry Happy; Marco did show up, but I turned him away because he’s not a mod. I didn’t know he had your cockring! (:

Let someone else work the door next time; I need those classes! :D

That said, it took me a while to realize I was bi and that it was a legitimate thing. Being gay is easier. It really is because there’s little confusion over what you find attractive. Like anyone else, there are hot women I lust for; but there are also hot guys I lust for. If a member of either sex isn’t attractive to me then I just don’t care. In boarding school and college and at one gym I went to we had gang showers and there were only a handful of guys who I was attracted to enough for it to spark a sexual urge. If I’m not attracted to you then you may as well be anyone else. You’ve got a body and if you’re male, you’ve got a penis. Great. Whoopie! Good for you. Doesn’t do a thing for me and I’ve seen more cock than Jenna Jameson.

That is how I view 99% of the guys I see on here. It just doesn’t ‘click’ in the brain. When I view the photos I look immediately for any sign of cheating with rulers or angles or Photochopping. After that I try to see how much pubic fat they have and then I look for before/after shots. I look for discoloration, spotting, and any other damage. Yeah, some guys have handsome penises. I’m happy for them. I admit that there are dicks I look at and think, “I wish mine looked like that.” But I also do that with other features I admire in various people.

It’s not a big deal. The guys who get all silly when they see another guy’s dick are nervous. They’re making comparisons, worrying that just seeing another penis is gay, and they don’t know how to deal with it so they express that nervousness with humor. It’s annoying and immature, but it happens.

I can look at a penis, mine or someone else’s and it’s not a big deal. I’ve seen plenty bigger, thicker, and slimmer than mine. None smaller, but hey, I’m the biggest grower I’ve ever seen and I’m not cruising the local gym anyway. I wasn’t teased in any school about my size though my closest friends knew about my anxiety.

It’s just a penis. If you want to look at the pics then look, if you don’t want to then don’t. It’s not a big deal……. well maybe it IS, but… you know what I mean.

And jelqing on a webcam with another guy? Yeah. That is gay. So what? If you’re aroused watching another guy stroking his dick then you are. Doesn’t mean you want to do anything more. We’re not programmed to be 100% straight nor 100% gay. Some people, like me, are closer to the middle. Most are closer to the ends but few are totally one or the other. That’s biology.

You know what? Enjoy it. Get over all the tittering and goofiness and if you get turned-on then you do. If you don’t, you don’t. Humans have an innate need to label and catagorize things. Most of us also live in a culture that encourages broad divisions between the ends of the human sexuality spectrum. It’s ridiculous, but the way things are.

Stop worrying about the labels and go with what you feel. If other people have problems with it then that’s their narrow-minded prurience being imposed on you. Tell them you have enough neuroses of your own.

Indeed. It’s just an anatomical part, same as a bicep. It’s only different if you read more into it; i.e. fancy the ‘owner’, have insecurities etc.

Some guys have insecurities about their bicep size, or are turned on by a shapely arm. So no difference. Women are usually more turned on by a guy being in shape than having a big dick. :)

Anyone who giggles and says it’s gay to look at another guys dick is just showing that they need to develop some maturity.

Never mind looking at dicks, just look at Jason’s post up there, I counted no less than 17 smilies in there and I would like to know how that happened :mad: , you would nearly think there was some back-scratching, or something going on :uhuh:

I must check my web cam to see if it’s still working and give it a bit of a polish :gulp:

Lol whens the last time you banged a hit chick with your bicep, or maybe a hot guy with your bicep. That would be interesting to see like some kind of new fetish film or something bicep on anal sex. Now I’m not gay or anything but id watch that shit lol.

Funniest reply ever.

This is a fascinating thread.

It is clear that the word Gay is being used in ways that have only tangential association with homo eroticism. If you take the original proposal at face value then its does not have anything to do with homo eroticism. Why cant PE be like body building a competitive sport with both cut throat competition and friends encouraging each other to reach shared goals by providing companionship during the work out?

The answer seems to be because it involves nudity and the sexual organs it is taboo. In other words in order to do it you have to accept the label gay and all its baggage. Or perhaps its not social blackmail. Perhaps because it involves nudity and the sexual organs its simply outside of human ability for it not to be inherently sexual and there fore gay. I am not sure which the various posters mean I suspect a mix of both. I know they have not analyze their own logic or lack there of.

Me I am driven by curiosity. More than the fact that I have a clear heterosexual preference and the desire for a bigger dick, I am curious. Curiosity is primarily what brings me here. I have seen several clips of men masturbating and even found one of my friend (he had intended for his net girl friend) while looking through his computer for interesting videos. I find them fascinating. I find the differences and similarities methods, aids, postures and expressions informative and generative of ideas. Not all of these ideas are really sexual I seek to understand people in general and their sexual sides relate back and forth to their other sides. This goes for general porn too to some degree but the naked chick tends to turn the brain off and my penis on.

Not that sexual arousal does not happen with the images of penises. Concerning:

There are at least two possibilities when you get turned on looking at a man. One is that you find him sexually attractive and the other is that you identify with him, just as you feel as if you were all your favorite Movie character. How to tell the difference is to analyze your desires. Do you want to have sex with the guy or do you want to see the guy have sex so you can imagine it was you? In short erect penises turn me on when they remind me actively what they are for.

I have viewed and enjoyed various kinds of porn, particularly gay porn when I was not “in the mood.” Which covers almost all the porn I have seen because porn doesn’t do it well for me. It is quite possible to enjoy it on other levels most the stuff I have seen is quite funny really.

In short I tend to satisfy my cat, you can call him gay, I just keep him happy because curiosity feels like it could kill him.

I also can understand the reason for the post to begin with. PE is extremely dull, takes a long time and ties up your hands. And sense it does involve nudity and the sexual organs must be done in private. Its why I hardly ever do it. I see the appeal of hanging out and enjoying some friendly conversation while PEing.

It doesn’t seem homo-erotic to me at all for one to look at another guy’s penis and wish one could have one like it. Or, borrow his for a week, say; find out how that unit works? :) Get the wife’s/partner’s reaction to it? Fantacize about building one of your own bigger or a little smaller than that?

I agree we should not confuse socially-taught prohibitions with personal impulses that may seem variant. Nor should we put down guys who have gay orientations because of the wiring they got plugged with when they came down the assembly line.

And don’t, any of you, even think about jumping on the Gay Gene bandwagon here, because this thread is not about that.

We are, all of us, what we are. And it is very sweet to me, personally, that we all get along real well here that way, almost all of the time.

Is having a male workout partner for lifting weights “gay”? Whatever the case, it is accepted.

Perhaps WBH is viewing PE the same.

However, if PE-camming were to become common, you can bet some voyeurs who aren’t the least bit interested in PE would sign up just to see a show.

And some voyeuses too.

Let’s revisit the old TV work out show, only we’ll call it the jelque la thunder (Jack LaLane) program. Personally I wouldn’t object to a close friend/partner to work with, kinda brings out the competitveness in us, who can out do whom. My 2¢

The smilies are a narrative of my reactions to discovering that the videos made me sexually aroused.