There is a lot of debate on this thread about the “number of big dicks” out there. Here’s my anecdotal 2 cents. I’m 32, black, attractive enough, good career etc and live in NYC. I do decently with women. As of last week, I have had sex with 33 so far.
I am approximately 7.75 BPEL x 5.7 EG, which is definitely above avg, but the real question I think many wonder about is - how big does a penis have to be before women generally agree that it’s BIG.
While I do get penis envy at times (damm you, porn), I know to keep my mouth shut and play it cool because confidence is what attracts women (and keeps you in control of yourself). Thus, I never ask women “is the size OK” or “do you think my dick is big” or “how big was your ex”. In fact, I don’t make any penis related comments at all to women, that is until I hear their opinion first, which usually comes out the first time we have sex.
And you know what? I’m almost shocked if they don’t make a comment about how big it is, sometimes even commenting that it’s too big. And I date white, black, asian and latina women. And, being black, many of the women that I date are ‘into’ black guys, so they have seen a number of black penises (take that to mean what you will about the stereotype).
Are there bigger men out there? Sure. Are there bigger men in here, of course. But, I’m telling you honestly, about 90% of the women that I have slept with make unsolicited, very positive comments about a 7.75 BPEL. So, whatever size the average is, I can tell you that from my experience, many women seem to think that a 7.75” is quite big. So far this year it’s been called “huge”, “too long”, “intimidating”, “never seen anything like that” and my personal favorite “that thing is dangerous”.
And these are the same typical NYC women that don’t hesitate to demean my choice of restaurant or insult my apartment. So I’m taking their compliments as honesty, not flattery. And some of them definitely, absolutely get around, so they’ve seen their share of penis.
This would lead me to believe that there aren’t too many 8 and 9” cocks lumbering around out there if most of the women I’ve been with are telling me how impressed they are with a 7.75”, with no prompting on my end. Does that mean I am the biggest they have had? No. But it means that by their standard, 7.75” is apparently rather rare.