crash,
To be cut or not to be cut - that is a personal question. I’ve read about it in the past (I know you’re looking for up to date info), but the stuff I’ve read was not encouraging.
When they snip your ligs, your unit becomes very unstable. You’re also forced to hang weights afterwards (I believe for up to 8-12 months, last I heard).
And I would seriously look deeper into that fat reabsorption thing. I’ve heard opposite numbers - that up to 90% of the fat (girth) can be lost within the first year, not 10%. Also, fat reabsorption is not an “even” process - you could be left with a lumpy, disfigured cock as portions of fat (girth) disappear.
I know that the medical establishment is against phalloplasty - despite all of the paranoid rants regarding their opposition to PE because they instead want to make money from phalloplasty. That’s simply not true. I also know that leading urologists bash the procedure(s) also.
Before I would ever consider phalloplasty, I would’ve exhausted all of my options: manual PE, hanging, traction devices, ADS, pumping, etc., etc.