Reality Check about BIG penis

Having a big one is always nice but it is not a pathway to happiness. I see people here raving about how a big hero is everything. Take for instance a post from a recent thread (this is just an example):

This is nice to hear from a PE’r but it’s flawed. A big hero won’t get you a new house, secure job, permanent happiness, nor is it the secret to why your special one is around.

For example, I always had a big hero (8x6) but never thought I was bigger than average until my ex would tell me how huge it is. This got me thinking like I’m the man. I used to fuck this girl up-some days I’d put it on her to to point where she was so sore she wouldn’t want to get down for days. This got me thinking like I’m the man. Turns out that I was the man along with a couple of other guys.

Moral of the story: Your pathway to happiness possibly might be a big hero, but not hers.

No offense soon10x7 but it’s pretty funny because the same saying that some women and men use to tell people what is best size for sex “It’s the motion in the ocean not the size that matters” I can still completely agree with when it applies to someone like you or bigger with a known big dick size.

I’m a little above average but that same saying I believe stilll applies (if not more) to people who were naturally or through PE training gained a big dick. I think sometimes when we get these huge dicks we forget that thier is another person on the other side taking this thing. Sure it’s more pleasurable for us to have a big one but at the same time I believe it CAN be more pleasurable for the women or guy for that matter depending on what type of person you are that you’re with.

If you can talk with your lover and communicate to each other about what feels good and what feels bad while having sex then I believe sex can be great for both people. It’s about compromises I guess, kinda like how they say when you get married. Both lovers need to give in a little for each other to make it a enjoyable expierence for the both of them. The problem with this is it takes time to do and most men (I don’t know about women) I would think perfer to just bang away talk later while having sex.

What I completely agree with you on is having a big dick is not at all the most important thing for sex. I think being comfortable with yourself (confident) and your lover and a whole slew of other things are just as equally as important as a big dick. But the big dick is a major plus if you know how to use it correctly IMO. :)

So that’s my feelings on this subject…

Big dick combined with some brains can make you a more successful man due to increased confidence and doing right things at the right time.

Sorry to hear about your ex. It’s a bitch. Some girls are this way and it is likely neither your nor your dick’s fault.

LoveMachine I gotta tell you somthing—me and this broad were in true love (3+ years); when it came to sex I was above unusually sensual with her; she herself told me that I put it down like no other. I guess what I was trying to say is that even if my P-unit was 10” this girl would still run around. But the question for experienced guys is, why keep telling me that I’m the one when it wasn’t the case.

It helps to keep in mind that most here found this place because of a personal “issue”. It is this issue that has driven me, it’s not a sport and I have no hobbies any longer.

IMHO, if the issue is deep enough and strong, a larger dick will for sure equal power. I haven’t spent a great deal of time searching for material shit that some equate with power.

It is impossible to bunch us in a box and diagnose why we are here, but speaking for myself, mine is more a mental issue.

In my opinion and why am here is this. Having a big dick won’t get you all the things that your talking about but it will make your life better in a host of ways. Confidence is something that can’t be measured but when you are confident it shows, not in a cocky way. I think for me confidence wouldn’t be always thinking “I got a big dick oh yeah, watch out” it would be more like now I don’t have to worry about or be insecure about NOT having a big dick. It would free your mind to think about other things and just not have that issue on your mind anymore..

Does that make sense?

Well, I am the guy who wrote the post. I guess I did not express my views clearly. Sorry about that.

I was trying to relate how PE has given my confidence back and has given me a positive outlook in all aspects of life, just not in the bedroom. I fell better at work, I slapped on a few more plates on the bar when I squat or bench, I lost some weight, I running a few more times around the track, I even completed a couple of odd jobs around the house I started years ago and did care to finish. I am dressing up and taking my wife out on dates, spicing up the romance part of your lives. I am much happier. I glowing in confidence (sorry, that sounded gay). Not cockier, but happier. I am proud to be me. I am a new man.

Whats the flaw with this?

Also, I have the new house, the secured job, and a very beautiful wife that loves me for who I am, even with all my stupid “I have a small dick” issues, and a 87 Buick Grand National (I bought it new in 87) which consistently runs in the high 10’s in the 1/4 mile and is my daily driver. Love that car.

I hope this clears up any confusion.

I made many girls sore when I was 6x5.

I want your car :-)

I’m right with you north pole. So did I. But for some reason… hell I don’t even know why I do this anymore. It’s more of a hobby/addiction now rather than Oh no I have a small penis I’m insecure. Wait, is that bad?

That was mostly because I was drunk, and had problems to shoot the load :)

Yeah well I was sober, most of the time. Conclusion = you’re not too small she’s too lose. Ditch your whore and date a virgin.

Well if a girl is ugly, has pimples on her but or a smelly pussy, you might have problems in shooting the load sober :) Or a cow pussy as you said…

Normally I last for about 5-15 minutes now if I am totally sober, depends on how recently Ive got some before.

Soon 10x7 I had a similar experience with an ex. She always said that I was the “one” and that the sex was better than shed ever had it. She told me she wanted to get married countless times. And then she moved away for grad school. 6 days later she was thinking about dumping me. Turns out she found another guy. What i realized is that some girls (and guys) can be intensely insecure and constantly need to be with someone because with out it they feel how truly empty they are inside. This is the type that gets into intensely co dependent relationships. Also the type that flirts with everyone (which she did, but lied about it) and ends up cheating, because the attention makes them feel good and wanted.

Turns out that these girls aren’t worth your time. And if your consistently attracted to them there’s something that u need to change about yourself. I could go on for volumes about this…

This brawd was just like your ex. No I don’t look for girl like that. When I met her I was just planning on beating that ass just like with any other girl. Stuff happens and next thing you know we’re together for 3 years. And you can’t tell from the start what any girl is like, only after a few months or years do you realise who you’re dealing with.