Shot Down by a king kong size queen!- HELP!

Ho-ly Crap! I am at a loss for words after tonight. Here’s what happened: In the past two weeks I’ve met and developed strong feelings for a girl. Now my PE routine has basically gone down the drain and my gains really haven’t been much since last year. However, I figured since I’ve gained a decent amount- I’m fine. WRONG!

Tonight she and I were having just random conversations while watching TV when the conversation got onto a hot subject (her body, specifically her pussy- we were just talking dirty, etc). To get to the point- she said to me (in reference to her pussy) “Oh believe me it can take a lot”. I said “What?”… she said “Well let’s just say my past experience(s) were with very well endowed…” (something along that line… my brain is a mess right now).

I should have known something was up when she had no reaction to seeing my dick. I felt that PE has placed me at a level where I would have no problems what so ever. WRONG! Obviously my stats are mediocre to her. *Keep in mind this was after every girl since I’ve gained telling me how it won’t fit inside of them judging by the looks* I am so mad right now!

I don’t want to act differently with her (seeing as how my dick’s size is a subject I take very seriously to heart), but KNOWING that she’s had bigger pushes my confidence away.
I MUST gain! It looks like I am going to be back to late nights where I fall asleep halfway through a jelq session and then wake up and finish it.

I need help/input/advice badly. I want to try hanging but I’ve failed at my attempts- so the hanger just sits there. I’m so frustrated right now- help!!!!

I think you’re taking this too seriously. So what if she’s had bigger? Doesn’t mean you can’t pleasure her.

Of course this is coming from a guy who had to PE just to become average.

BTW, what is your current size?

Well, I probably should have mentioned that the reason I started PE back early last year was because of a girl who pretty much said the same thing to me- so to only improve my self esteem only to get shot down again totally threw me through a loop tonight.

I took some pics tonight of my measurements and my erect length bone pressed has decreased (great, if things can’t get any worse tonight…)

Flaccid bone pressed stretch I *used* to be able to hit the 9” mark. Unfortunately I’ve lost that due to my lack of PE these past months- so the FSBPL is now only 8.5”-8.75”. The pics I took were mixed in results since I did not warm up/stretch. Usually they are of the same measurement after I have done a stretching routine (such as 50 A-stretches for 5 seconds each)

My erect bone pressed has also declined. I’ve almost lost half of what I have gained! I have a bone pressed pic of me at 8” which strikes me down since I used to be able to hit 8.33-8.5” EBPL.

If anyone’s interested, I can post them in the pics section.

With a dick that long, she was either bullshitting you or referring to your girth (which is…?). Or it’s possible that all the previous guys she’s been with have been superhung — rather unlikely.

EDIT: hmmm… what did my 8th grade English teacher say about misplaced modifiers…

Girth is- er I should say ‘was’ roughly 5.5” midshaft tapering to a lesser amount going towards the glans, but becoming larger going towards the base… yes there was a time where I had hit 6” base girth- but now I am most likely in the 5’s for everything as far as girth is concerned. So I do feel that my girth needs a bit more to it- however my priority will be length. After I have hit a level of content- I will work on the girth (supposedly larger girth gained doing PE could possibly slow down length gains I’ve read, so I don’t want to take any chances).

That’s plenty of girth. If your girl has seen a good number of dicks, then she know that yours is big. It’s possible she detected your self-satisfaction with your (new) big dick, and she was using this implied criticism to try to deflate your ego. She’s gotta keep you in line, you know :) .

Note that even if you never expressed any “satisfaction” with your penis size, this still could have been a pre-emptive strike. I think girls tend to get concerned that big-dicked guys know what they’re packing and like to show it off around town.

lol You got no reason to be worried. Be glad she didnt run away, she can handle it she says. Now she has to prove it, get testing :chuckle:

Would you prefer her to be intimidated or comfortable ?

Just tell her: Go get another horsehung mtherfckr you fckng whr.

Be a man ;)

Don’t think about it anymore, be on the look out for something new. And btw I think up in here most people don’t like the way arab people are living but girls are treated like girls, those girls will never see a bunch of big dicks in real life.

Wt282,

Not big enough with an 8x5 ??? You must be kidding…

Some of us would kill for your stats… In any way, it is way more than 90% of the rest of guys.

There must be something else related with your girlfriend, if that is not enough…

matti

So, you’ve had two GF’s who’ve made ego deflating dick size comments to you. Perhaps, you need to choose a different type of GF.

Peforeal

The way I’ve seen it, this is very true. One of the most clearest cases was when this chick saw me naked first time. Then we were actually just laying there together and out of nowhere she starts a subject of penis size, how it never can be too big and it’s always the bigger the better. Now that I think back, it sounded like she was trying to sure herself “I can take it, I can take it!”. :D

Wt282: Take it as a compliment. This is a typical shit test. Show no insecurity. :up:

wt282

You are 8”bpel and she is telling you this shit?

Trust me, you are fine. She is trying to fuck with your head to keep you in an insecure place in the relationship. I have seen this hundreds of times on this forum. She knows you got a biggie but doesn’t want you superconfident and trying your tackle out in uncharted waters. Know that she is bullshitting you, smile at her condescendingly when she mentions shit like that and say nothing or maybe just something like “sure”. I wouldn’t call her a liar outright, she’ll just get defensive. Let your demeanor show that you know that she is full of shit and its not affecting you.

Dude, you have to move on she is manipulating you. You are setting yourself for a miserable relationship. Unless you like being controlled and put down.

BTW, get back into a routine even if its only for maintenance.

wt282,

You are being way too hard on yourself. You already have a big dick. She may or may not have had bigger guys even if she said it. She is cutting you down so that you arent wandering around if she decides to give up her ass to you.

I dont ususally say this kind of stuff but - “fuck her and forget her”

789

I wouldnt let someone take my legs out from under me when I know I have a BIG dick.