So I guess kegels work ;)

So there’s a chick I’ve hooked up with many times (we never fucked, only bj’s and other things). Nearly every time she blew me I would bust in under 5 minutes. She gives pretty hardcore bj’s so it was hard to hold my load. The last time she had blown me before tonight was around 2 months ago (right near the beginning of my PEing). Tonight we hooked up again and she was giving me an HJ and I was just chillin’ and relaxing and keeping my composure and after about 10 minutes she started giving me head. I kept calm and after that she like switched around and started sucking it 69 style (but she was clothed).

I guess these kegels work! With this bj/hj thing on and off it took me around 45min-an hour (in which I eventually mentally started to TRY to ejaculate) to finally bust. I, btw, filled her mouth pretty good hehe ;) .

So before PE’ing I would bust in under 5 minutes. Now after PE’ing for 2.5 months she had to use the hand action a lot and suck it different ways and eventually I busted after an hour.

Now I just gotta fuck her and see how she likes that! :) .

Cheers,
Johnnno

PS - She didn’t mention my 5/8 inch increase in EL or my 1/4 inch girth gain, but what girl would notice (who you’ve never fucked) that gain when she’s only given you head and the last time was 2 months ago? ;)

These stories always prove to motivate us all to strive for something, to experience a reward such as you have described here.

I’ve been experimenting with kegels after jelqing sessions in the shower and i’ve found something that seems to hold me from going over the edge. You might want to give it a try yourself.

When I feel it’s almost “time” i’ll reverse kegel, all the while stimulating, and once I feel the edge approaching and i’m almost at the point of no return i’ll throw it into a regular kegel. Not only have I had success in abstaining from ejaculation and orgasm but it makes my cock rock hard. Harder than i’ve ever been able to achieve. I may just be crazy, but give it a try.

Sounds interesting. The thing I’ve found while I’m about to cum with a chick is, kegeling for me usually leads me to orgasm when I’m near it. The thing that keeps me from cumming with a chick, I think, is just relaxing my bc as much as possible and just breathing and I’ll usually be able to hold back.

That’s exactly it Johnnno.

Then you’re a better man than me cause I’ve tried everything to keep from cumming early and I just can’t do it.

Formula1, have you been kegeling and if so thoroughly?

I’ve been trying to but I don’t think I’m doing it quite right. I feel more of a pull in my thigh muscles than anywhere else and I don’t think I should be.

I actaully lean to the right (I sit on my bed sorta) while I do them so that I don’t feel uncomftorable tensing it. Also I’ll place my hand right on my gooch to feel the contractions to make sure I’m doing it.

Ive also been doing them for almost 3 months straight not missing any workout days. Resting too though.

Yeh, you’ll find that if every muscle in your body is relaxed apart from the BC the pleasure starts becoming intense.