Some important perspective

I think I should share this story with the forum. I still do PE, but after this story, you’ll see why I’m a bit less motivated to continue. I’m 6” BPEL x 5” girth for reference. ~5.3” NBPEL

I met an incredible woman three months ago. I’m a tall guy (6’3” or so), and believe it or not, she’s a bit taller than me. Of course, being a penis-size-anxiety kind of guy, I was worried that my unit wouldn’t be big enough for her, especially given her rare height. I liked her so much I was basically trying to delay having sex with her until I knew she really liked me (thus reducing the chances that a not-so-big penis would be a deal-breaker with her). But once we got in bed together, she was pretty agressive and I ended up having sex. To my surprise she came hard and rather quickly. I’m positive she wasn’t faking it.

We’ve been dating exclusively for a couple months now and have had a lot of great sex. I recently brought up the subject of penis size and she admitted to having been “hung up” (no pun intended) on penis size before she met me. But she honestly says that she’s never had better sex than with me. I’ve given her the best orgasms she’s ever had. She said, “I’ve never knew I could feel so good.” She’s definitely had guys much larger than me before (although as a side note she said a guy who was taller than me had a smaller dick, so she has no faith in the correlation between height and penis size). She thinks penis size is something almost all girls consider to some extent, and obviously some value it more than others, but it’s not that important.

The real deal here is that I’m the first guy to successfully find and leverage the G-spot. I warm her up with my finger(s) and then my penis just happens to bend slightly upward and the length is perfect for repeatedly pounding her G-spot. Plus, being that I’m not a complete idiot, I’ve tended to learn by reading and listening and know how to position myself perfectly to hit the G-spot really well. It’s not exactly rocket science, so it kinda baffles me. So in summary I’m guessing that reasons I’m the first are:

1. the natural upward curve of my penis
2. the length being just right to not go “past” it
3. the hardness of my erections
4. paying attention to her and other girls, as well as the plethora of information out there

Basically other guys must have straight or slightly downward-pointing penises, and if pornos have any truth, they’re probably not exactly rock hard all the time. That and the natural arrogance that would come with a large penis would tend to make a guy think that size is all he needs.

Oh yeah, and did I mention she’s a model and used to do runway for Calvin Klein? So it’s not like I’m talking about a big insecure beastly woman here.

Moral of the story: There’s a lot more to it than size, guys.

(that being said, I just finished a hanging session :) ).

Glad to hear a success story Rocky5. I myself too think that it isn’t all in the size of the penis. It’s all about the right chemistry between the two and you sure got it with this girl. I also talked to some of my female friends and asked them about the penis size issue and they both said that really big penis can hurt during the intercourse and one of them actually said thet she had the feeling that it would stuck out of her mouth. They both didn’t liked them too big. By the way which are the best positions to hit the G-spot?

Matt

Thanks a lot for sharing the story! I am even a big longer than you and so much woried about my size all the time. So it is nice to hear your experiences.

And hell yeah, tell us the perfect position for to hit that dam g-spot!

Truly size is not the issue when something as small as your tongue can do the job!!!

Sounds like you guys fit well together. Keep it going!

hmmm… maybe I’ll just keep it my little secret….

ok, just kidding.

It’s hard to describe I guess, but basically her on her back, me kneeling, her legs up and knees usually bent (although I doubt that matters). Sometimes I damn near fold her in half.. her knees are up by her shoulders. In fact, once she was coming pretty hard and didn’t want to wake her roommate, so she bit her own knee. She had teeth marks on her knee the next day :)

The idea is to find it with your fingers first and just think “how could I hit that with my penis?”

It also might help if you put a pillow under her ass. Search around on the net a bit, I’ve seen diagrams, etc. that show this.

I to share the anxiety of bedding the large atractive women with my 6.25 unit.

And The Rock5 is doin’ a 6’3”+ model, with his 6”er while she bits her knee in ecstasy!

Godspeed, my hero, Godspeed

Amen Rocky!!! “You tell it like it is” (an old Howard Cosell quote)… I’ve found out exactly the same thing the hard way when this guy with an approx 5.5 x 4.5 was outlandishly better in bed then me with a natural 8” NBP x 6.5” dick! Size is ok but it stands in 2nd place to knowing what to do to a woman and when!

Regularwhiteguy

One girl said to me that upward curve feels better than straight, well I guess she is not totally alone.

@regularwhiteguy
Huh, that’s an impressing comparison, since your dick must be more than the double of the other guy’s penis in terms of volume. But HOW can you tell he was better? How did you find out?

@rocky
You’re perfomance to such a “great” lady is really impressing, I’d be very anxious too making love to a “big” woman. Would you say her pussy was wider, looser, as one would expect, or was it tight? It’d be interesting to know if there is a correlation between women heigt and pussy tightness/depth.

Your story demonstrates that communication between both partners and also know-how is the key. Many girls don’t cum because they’re not able to communicate their desires, what EXACTLY feels good to them and what not, and lack a feeling for their body to express what puts them on the path to orgasm.

Rocky5,

AMAZING story. You’re living my dream: sexing models. :) I’ve never been happy with my performance in the bedroom, which is the reason (and I know it) that I’ve never had a successful long-term relationship. I’d love to improve my ‘performance’ to the point of being incredibly good, because I do enjoy sex and the company of women. I could be bitter about my situation, but what’s the point? That’d be giving up because it simply was the easier thing to do.

That brings me to my question:

There is so much trash on the internet, so I was wondering if you could give me some links to some ‘golden’ sites that have helped you out; sexually that is. I think that would provide excellent footing for my sexual education.

Big dick and good sex seem to be a tough combination to top.

Tyler22,

The cell phone used at this time I was paying for, thus a quick call to the phone company yeilded the ‘secret code’, also I was able to figure out the password for the email account used… I heard and read enough to understand more then I wish I did… Size isn’t everything for sure…

Regularwhiteguy

I wouldn’t know about the depth :)

Hmmm, I don’t really remember where I learned various things. I’d look at AskMen - Become a Better Man .. it seems like I might have picked up some things there, although I have to say it’s probably not a "great" site in general.

Here’s a decent site and an exerpt from it below..

QUESTIIONS

1. WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?
The Grafenberg spot is an area on the anterior or front wall of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix, which is often found to be extremely sensitive to stimulation. It is hypothesized that the G-spot is either 1) a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or 2) a gland or series of glands that produces lubrication. It is thought to be perhaps analagous to the prostate gland in men.
2. WHAT IS FEMALE EJACULATION?
Female ejaculation is the expelling of fluid from or around the urethra. This fluid is not urine, and is often accompanied by a powerful orgasm. Stimulation of the G-Spot is thought to potentially cause this.
3. HOW DO I FIND THE G-SPOT?
Insert one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone. Gently bend your fingers ‘forward’ so that they stroke the anterior wall of the vagina. You may feel a raised spot or series of ridges, or you may feel nothing in particular. The woman may find this extremely pleasurable, or have an urge to urinate, or both. Stroking this spot with varying degrees of pressure will tell you if you’ve got it or not.
4. DOES EVERYONE HAVE A G-SPOT?
No. Your mileage may vary. Just as some woman find clitoral stimulation more or less pleasurable than others, G-spot response varies from woman to woman, and some may find it unpleasant or simply not special.
5. HOW DOES ONE STIMULATE THE G-SPOT?
Silly, that’s a technique question. The factual stuff is above; anything else goes to Kama Sutra

Wow! Thanks so much Rocky5! You can’t possibly understand how much this means to me. It’s like telling someone about Thunder’s for the first time. It’s life changing, man…..

My future is simple:

Step 1: Grow dick
Step 2: Improve sexual performance
Step 3: Find Adriana Lima’s phone number ;)