The Dangers of too much girth...

Guys, you just have to get your women to give you sideways BJs, like eating an ear of corn.

Rambone,

I naturally evolved into the tree-trunk shape through PE’ing. That’s just the way my dick is built, i.e about 5.5 ” girth below the glans and expanding to over 7” at the base. Other guys have baseball bat shapes or more evenly cylindrical shapes. Because of this shape and my PE gains, my wife has more ample overall volume to my dick to stimulate and enjoy, which she does. Plus she can get a good length of my dick down her throat before it gets too difficult. I sometimes feel more occasional teeth than I used to, but it’s all good. A good BJ is also about the kind of tongue action that occurs too. Good technique and a partner who truly enjoys pleasing their partner with oral sex are everything. Nothing worse than being with someone who thinks that oral sex is just doing you a big favor. I think if a guy doesn’t particularly like or need BJ’s, then he probably hasn’t had a really good one yet with the right partner.

Peforeal

PEFOREAL,

I have a feeling I’m going to be getting a baseball bat if I keep jelqing.

I think my wife deepthroated me twice in our years together but she denies it. I want to ask you if you can confimr with me if it happened? When she pushed it all the way in, I felt my penis pass by this kind of hard ring inside there. I was only about 5.75 inches at the time back then, but I felt her lips go all the way down to the balls. Man, I really, really, really, really want that again. I’m praying and pleading with God to make her want to try doing it again, but I don’t know how she can anymore. I think she tries but she gags. The two times she did it, she was going crazy during 69 and having an orgasm. Now she doesn’t really want to have oral orgasms anymore.

Maybe I’m obsessed, but I can’t imagine life without bjs. You guys who don’t want it so much are just as lucky as the guys who get it from their women all the time. I get it everytime for foreplay, but I don’t get to have orgasms from bj, unless she’s in a very generous mood-and then, I don’t get to cum in her mouth either.

I should count my blessings, but I have to admit, I want so much more!!!

My wife hasn’t been that impressed with my gains from 6.25 to 6.95, probably because these are regains from my pumping days (I never cemented my pumping gains which got me close to 7). So I’m hoping that when I break 8 BPEL she will be feeling different about my cock. God, how I pray that she will look at it and suddenly have the desire to suck it really good.

I’ll agree with the “nothing worse” part. But then there is in fact nothing worse than a partner who will think anything other than mutual masturbation or straightfoward intercourse is a favor! In my case I take a loooong time to cum with mutual, soeventhatends up being a huge favor! :(

I also half agree with the second part of what you said. I don’t particularly want bjs anymore, although I have had a really good one, but only once. Most of the time I don’t get much sensation out of them to begin with, and I put this down to my gfs technique. Although its not that good, (she never remembers what she did 1st time which was great, because she does it so infrequently) I was always willing to wait it out as I knew it would get better as she continued, but she just never went at it for long enough. She’d notice I wasn’t giving any response when she’d first start, and I’m not one for faking things, so she’d just get upset thinking she’s crap at it (which in all fairness she is since she kept doing that EVERY time). She also tends to think of it as a favor, which I hate. So in the end I just decided I wouldn’t give her any, to be fair, since she feels obligated to do it back to me when I do it to her. And no matter how much she says she doesn’t hate it, I can tell she does really, which is a shame because I read so much on the web about so many girls loving giving it; I even imagine I’d love giving it if I were that way inclined (and I don’t mind trying on myself! :p ) Anyway, now I’ve changed my mind again and decided to give it to her (as I love giving it so much 7:^) )and just refuse to let her do it back, since I’m now used to it not doing anything for me anyway.

Anyway, I guess where I’m going with this is that I, like secjay, feel bjs don’t do anything for me, so I don’t mind getting mega-girth. That is if I can ever gain girth -no matter how much I work it, its just not increasing any more! :( Although my glans is already large enough to also be a problem on the bj front, which, along with my gfs small mouth, probably caused the whole problem in the first place. But bjs aren’t terribly missed by me, especially after all the misery they’ve caused, so there’s not much danger for me in gaining girth.

It isn’t just oral sex that can be affected. I’ve been warned once already about gaining too much girth and I’m just a little above average in that department, so I’ve been concentrating on length for now, hoping that Mrs RBM will adapt as I gain girth from here on. (In the meantime, it’s a matter of taking it slow, making sure there’s plenty of lube, and having sex often!) I’m not too worried about gains slowing because it’ll take her time to adapt anyway. It sure will be nice with I hit the 7x5.5 milestone, hopefully soon.

Andrew, I’ve had maybe a dozen attempts but only one time was any good. Still I was a long way off cumming, just felt nice…..
She literally sucked and licked me for an hour and still not closing in.

My girl’s mouth is small (she is vey petite) and I am already at a size where she can barely take in the head, and her jaw gets sore from having to be held all the way open.

I guess my girth is almost, if not prohibitive of anal as well, even now. I could always convince her to try again before I get back into the PE and end up as thick as my wrist instead of her’s :) :D

Secjay,

Most women can work up to almost any reasonable girth for anal sex by using butt plugs of graduated size. She should start small and work her way up. She has to really be into it, because it takes time—maybe 2 or 3 weeks, for her to comfortably accommodate a plug your size. Once she does, you should be able to have your way with her with no pain.

If you haven’t seen it already, check out Tristan Toarmino’s website. There’s lots of information there about anal sex for women.

LOL!

The first thing that my wife said to me when she found out I was doing PE (second actually, the first was “don’t hurt yourself”) was that if I got too big, I could forget about anal ,which I was just getting her to warm up to.

Modesto, I am currently reading that site. puckerup I believe?

Shitloads of information, damn! Thanks ;)

Secjay,

That’s the place. Sorry I had forgotten the name of the site before. In Tristan’s first movie, she has an absolutely huge guy doing anal with his real life girlfriend (don’t ask me for names). The girlfriend says that when they started dating, she told him “no way” would they ever do anal. He was just too damn big. Watch the movie and you’ll see how well she’s adjusted. It’s called “The Complete Guide to Anal Sex for Women.” There. I remembered something.

Cool ;)