The harmful effect of Porn movies

I think that back in 1950 there was much less ED than now , the reason is psychological.No porn to watch,just the real life. If you watch porn for 2-3-4 years before you begin your sex life , your mind is likely to get twisted and not to be happy of what sex really is. I for one can get very easy erection while watching porn , and on the other side not have one even if a woman gets naked in front of me(of course most of the time I have , but only because I think of how I’m gonna fuck her porn like). When I did have sex I was 16 and expected the real sex to be something out of this world , sure it was cool , but my expectations were way higher. I also have friends that are way cool and can have many women that prefer to play soccer and watch porn , they all say that sex is overrated and the porn is way cooler and easier.So the conclusion is that the Porn is actually very harmful for the youngsters and it develops most of the ED(except for the really physiological ones) and other problems.

Any proofs?

Hello Chrono,

Back in the 50’s, speaking of male impotence was a taboo subject. Actually man started speaking freely of their penile problems ever since Viagra hit the market. So basically by the 90’s it was not something embarrassing anymore for now we have a cure for it. That’s why it would seem there were no E.D back in the days of our forefathers.

Anyways I do agree with you that sex and porn are very different and could have a negative impact on the youth. When, I first had sex I found it quite boring because I thought it would be like in the porn movies.

Cheers.

I agree that Porn movies MAY be bad for us…but I am thinking about other problems…PREMATURE EJACULATION! Recently I have figured out that all my problems with early ejaculation come from watching porn movies. It is not about ‘masturbating in hide’…it is about developing wrong mental patterns.

You need to masturbate…you play Porn movies and what? You look for the best scene..nice ass…hard fuck..girl screams and you shoot!

Since I do not watch Porn movies almost at all(only light striptease sometimes) my control over my arousal and ejaculation are much better!

I tell you guys-if you have problems with early ejaculation quit that ‘fake sex’ movies…unwind your mental patterns of ‘fast explosion’…do not watch how other people ‘do it’…just do it for yourself! :)

Yeah,I think watching porn makes you cum faster.

I don’t think it necessarily makes you come faster. I think that if you watch a lot of the hardcore shit, you can become desensitized to it all and it might be harder to get erections without it. I think porn can make you cum faster, but I use some softcore porn for edging, which makes me last longer. Lets face it, if you masturbate with porn compared to masturbating with no porn, you are probably going to want to cum faster. I think as long as you are not trying get off quickly or ‘masturbating in hide’ as disi put it, some kinds of porn aren’t necessarily a bad thing. I try to relax and have complete contol over my ejaculation when I edge, so it some cases I think that porn can be a useful tool for edging and lasting longer. I think it can definitely make you come faster though too.

It depends from person to person…one will find it harder to cum as you would need to have hard sex just like in porn..in other case(just like me) you will find it easier to cum fast thanks to porn. For example-I really like ass of girls…when I watch porn movies I prefer scenes where sex is made from behind….many times during watching porn I used to cum when I was watching ‘from behind’…often I was doing it ‘in hide’ so in order not to be caught I was moving the movie to the scene where I could get aroused fastest and cum quickly…I did it on purpose because I liked it…but later during sex with a girl whenever I saw her ass and f*** her from behind I could come in a minute! It was like a ‘mental button’…subconsciously I ‘learned’ to get aroused when watching ass or other parts of female body.

I see ass-> I get aroused more-> I cum

Some kind of mental pattern deep in subconscious. Now-if you watch porn and you do not cum…you just watch it just for watching…you even do not have big erection..that is different. It is another form of ‘pattern’ but in opposite direction….you can become desensitized this way.

But when you are young and you watch porn you do not see such things and you are not aware of it happening! That is why in my opinion porn movies can be dangerous in some way…because we learn with them different patterns which we are not aware of. I am 100% sure that without watching porn at this point I would be much better lover and could last for 15-20 min in bed…

Right; it’s how you use it, not the thing itself.

However, the real danger of porn is that you will become blind if you look at it and you don’t go to confess to your priest right after.

Guys, what are you saying is contraddictory: if porn desensitize because you become adapted to sex-stimulus, than you can’t become an easy-cumer.

And: how you can cum if your penis isn’t erect?

Read what I wrote-it is easy…you just have to try ;) It all depends on how you associate things…things that you see, hear(her moaning) etc. There is no contradiction-just two different paths that you can go…But if you go too far in either of them it is BAD…either your have ED or Premature ejaculation….habbits….patterns…this is how our mind works and mind is responsible for orgasm or lack of it-not penis.

Of course you do not have to end up this way! If you watch porn not so often and you have better mental health..or your are older and more experienced…anyway-it does exist…you did not experience it which does not mean it does not work that way for other…You also have not been to the moon-it does not mean that nobody was there ;) Believe me-I know what I say…I have been there…

disi,

Second request for you to stop the “…” and use correct punctuation.

I pretty sure that playing soccer is what causes the problem :spin2:

Seriously, check out this thread porn detox challenge I started a while ago. It’s rock solid scientific evidence that watching porn is bad for you. I’m joking again but still you can see the changes we experience on our detoxification journey.

OK. I did not know it was forbidden :) I use it often as ‘pause’ between my thoughts. I will try to remember about that.

Totally True Chrono, The first time I had sex the first thought that has crossed my mind was “I do not thought was that” today I am trying to live without porn, but it’s been a pain in the ass, after 10 days looks like porn it’s calling me, I don’t know.

Hi everybody,

I am from Austria here it is all over the media that porn negatively affects the youth. Recently there has been a lot of neuro-research about it. A month ago I read that in Germany there has been installed a professorship for porn research.

Here is a good video summing things up a bit:
BBC exclusive. Teens Hooked On Porn