The power of a big dick

Yeah, You’re right. That could be a simple quasi-rules which can be connected with vertebrates in general. How much we are similar to other mammals- ask by yourself.

But one remains the same- confident man usually uses his advantages and hides his disabilities to get laid.

As mentioned, in casual sex a bigger dick (Be it through confidence or whatever) grants you power. And it’s something I’m all for. But my point is this; in our dealings related to procreation it has no impact. It’s the female that determines the conditions of the family, not us men. Seeing as men can supply themselves with everything they need barring sex, I’d say more power to ya if a bigger dick fills that need (no pun).

Not sure what you mean by the fat-skinny example, Marinera?

I can identify with some of what Whenwhatever relates in post #766. My story does have many differing points, however.

I seemed to have grown up in an entirely different world than many here. My youth was during the time before birth control pills among many other liberating things in out society. I was a 20+ virgin. I lost my virginity during my sophomore year in college, and it was not with someone that I was dating.

It was this time of year, and an older female acquaintance of mine fixed me up with a prostitute who was probably 5-10 years older than I was. I was nervous to say the least. She gave me a blowjob after breaking a chocolate covered cherry over my very erect cock, She made comments several times about my large size. I know that I was over 8 inches in length. I also knew at that time that I had much above average girth.

I was a biology major in a mid-west Big-10 college.. I had read the Kinsey Report as well as some of the early workings of Masters/Johnson.

Because of the workings of our society, and many of the taboos back then, I was extremely cautious when dating during high school.

My dad had also informed me that I was “well endowed.” Basically a “chip off the old block.”

I was also in a fraternity which had a very open bathroom/shower facilities. Many times comments were made directed at me endowment. I had the nick name of “pony.”

During junior high school and early high school summers several of the neighbor boys would go skinny dipping at a local Creek. I use to take teasing about my size then also.

During boot camp the shower facilities were very open. A long narrow area with shower heads in a row along one wall. I remember one night several of the other men in my barracks asked if I would go with them to one of the back rooms and “get it up” so that they could see my erect status. I definitely declined.

There are many other situation which I recall, but I will not enumerate here. I do know that these situations gave me a sense of empowerment because of my larger than average penile dimensions.

Two years ago my urologist was going to prescribe a vacuum pump/cylinder system to assist me with my ED problems. An appointment was made to meet with reps for the providing company. I was measured to determine the cylinder size needed to accommodate my erect unit. To make a long story short it was determined that the company did not have a cylinder to fit me.

Yesterday I had an appointment with the same urologist. He brought up the situation about the pump system. I thought about relating to him about the benefits which I have gained here at Thunder’s Place with Kegels and jelqing, but I did not even briefly mention that I was participating in PE here.

You see I do not even feel that I am any longer in need of the vacuum system. I have reaped benefits from the exercises and the knowledge gained here.

I do not relate this to be bragging, just to relate some of my experiences. I hope that this helps those here who I know are much younger than I am.

Next week is my birthday, and I am old enough to be either a father or a grandfather to many who have discovered this sight in their youth.

Information like this was extremely difficult to obtain in my younger years.

Use the information from here wisely and you will reap the benefits of a very long enjoyable sex life.

I am sure that many here think that sex becomes a thing of history as you reach your senior years.

To state an old saying, “Just because there is snow on the roof, does not mean there is no fire in the furnace.”

Re-read my post, than the above post of Tidio, and it should be pretty clear. I think Tidio got it, actually.

I wouldn’t be sure a big dick ‘grants you power’ in one night stand relations either. I don’t know where you live guys, but where I live a woman will make the decision to have sex or not with you before having seen your dick. When she see your dick, the game is pretty much over, if it’s clear what I mean.

Good conclusion.

Ok, and the final answer is, everybody is fucking somebody. but are you enjoying it , even if you are not getting fucked, your still getting fucked out of what you could be fucking, and if your not fucking what you want to be fucking your fucked. So either way your fucking. So the question is are you enjoying your fucking or are you enjoying being fucked? Ok , sorry for being so crude but i know very few people who are happy with their sex life and partner no matter what the reasoning was when they got together, this is where they are at now, fucked.

I can truly say that I was very happy in my first marriage. That one ended at her death. The second was a different story. That ended in my suing for divorce after just 4 years.

I can safely say woman put up with a lot more shit if you well endowed and know how to use it, this is from my past experience. It’s not all about dick size of course I mean you can’t be a total asshole and expect a woman will stay or want you back. But if your a good lover and have a pretty good personality and top it off with a nice sized cock you will be surprised how a woman will put up with you even when your not behaving very well. You will never get a woman to admit that shes crazy about your dick and how you make her feel with it, she will find other good things about you as long as you have those other things to find. It’s just like a guy finding one of those women that just rock your world in bed, those girls, with what I call super pussies, you seem to put up with a lot more crap from them don’t you. Hence the power of the dick and the power of the pussy.

I second literally everything you just said in this post, couldn’t agree more. Having a big dick and being great in bed can really sustain a relationship without much effort otherwise. Not that this is ideal, but it has definitely been my experience that those two things can really outweigh a lot of other flaws. But, you’re spot on about being an asshole. No matter how good the sex is, a woman will eventually get tired of you and move on. At least, this has been my experience.

Now thats a Fact.

I think for hetero guys (I can’t speak for gay guys) the power of a “big dick” is mostly in the imagination of the owner. Sure there are “size queens”, and having a big dick does improve your sexual potential to an extent, but for women it’s just one variable among many. It’s not like guys, who could get off on just seeing a big ass or fine pair of tits. The fantasy of wielding a huge phallus and a women worshiping it and fucking you because of it has to be false for the vast majority of women.

The reality according to my experience, as others here have said, is that it that sexual attractiveness to a women is multifaceted; looks, personality, grooming, charisma, power, etc. In terms of evolutionary psychology; which man is going to have the best chance to successfully protect your offspring after mating (no birth control)? A huge cocked loser or the chief of the tribe? So the chief is going to get laid a lot more, regardless of his cock. And it continues today.

I’m above average (now approx 8 BPEL x 5.5) and yes, I’m still going to PE. Why? For my own personal pleasure. But I don’t expect to become the next Wilt Chamberlain solely because of my dick.

PS> Some people might say that they have gotten laid more since their dick got bigger through PE, but could it be that your confidence increased? That since you have the drive to do long term PE that you also have the drive to be successful in other areas of life? If there a self filtering for other attractive personality traits in those that are successful in PE?

What game_theory said is so true. That’s what I love this place. Thoughtful and well written dissension.

Game Theory killed it.
A fantastic post Sir.

Bravo

Absolutely, at least beyond a certain size.

A guy with an average dick who knows how to fuck and and how to please a woman and got his shit together does not in any way stand back for a guy that’s more endowed.

Further, not every woman even likes a really big dick, especially when it becomes too long.

There are some phenomenally mentally retarded ideas being posted in this thread. Think outside of your self people, not to mention outside of your dick.

“Be humble and don’t stumble” - Justin Wilson

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