The power of a big dick

Me, too. Then my wife will REALLY wonder what the fuck I’m doing in there!

Yes, but only on her schedule. My responsibility is to bring home money, fix things around the house, and deliver orgasms when needed.

Are you?

Gentlemen. Women will rarely if ever throw you a bone regarding your cock size. The only thing that matters is if you get and stay hard. Our culture tells them they aren’t a nice woman if they crave a large penis. Be confident and know you are more than enough.

From my personal experience I can tell a slightly bigger than average size can contribute to unique pleasure for a woman under the right circumstances!

However, they will insist it isn’t necessarily better, just different.. Using a good technique and a good position will give them pleasure just as intense… Also, a big penis will mostly stimulate their eyes, while a bigger than 4” will be enough to stimulate their other part of the body that counts maybe a little more, at least enough to give them freaking awesome orgasms. A giant dick, if the woman can handle it, will contribute to their feeling of “up their throats/stomachs”, but will no provide any more pleasure than a lot of other things that can be achieved even with a lower than average penis.

Of course all of this is assuming both are “ordinary” people, anatomically speaking… there will be women with such a lose vagina that will need a big dick to get to feel anything, OR will need to tighten it somehow… but that’s very rare! Luckily for all of us there are ways of doing both… For one there exist PEing for those who really need it but there are also things these women can work on (such as kegels) that are a valid option!

As for gay men, I have no experience, but I imagine that just as women complain about anal with a big dick, it will also be more of a visual thing.

Blah, blah, blah!

Having a big dick makes you more relaxed and happy.

You know how guys think if only they could customize their dicks they’d be happier?

Its true. Don’t overthink. Let your penis be your favorite body part. Let others downplay the cock, as they hone their cunnilingous and miss out on PE.

Nice post. I’ve often shared with guys here that women usually won’t say anything about your dick, even if it’s very big (so you shouldn’t interpret silence as their being unimpressed). But I hadn’t thought of the explanation you give here.

Wow Guys, I can’t believe I found this thread and I am not alone! I hope this is not too much.
My wife is a very petite, thin, sexy looking Latina with a body of a twenty year old. She is as narcissistic, childish, and selfish as they come!

My old 4.6EG and 5.5BPEL package was barley doing the job. Yes, I tried to be romantic and I have tried many things to turn her on and do for her but with a person like that it is normally useless. It worked sometimes but it is difficult with her so I don’t really care anymore. I am tired of trying.

So, I have always been looking for a real way to increase my size. I did my homework and have been lurking here for some time now and when I brought home my first pump and tried to talk to her about it, well, no go. Yea, that was stupid. I just received criticism about how perverted and unnatural I was and she wanted it out of the house. Of course, it was ok for her to get her boob job done a couple years ago and cram un-natural plastic in her chest, right?

So I have kept it to myself, Jelqing, pumping, and sticking to my routine. It is easy because she has no interest in my life or what I do. I am now 6.25 BPEL and 5.3 EG. What an incredible feeling, after all these years, to hold that heavy miniature beer can in my hand, especially when it is pumped! Yes, I know. Most of you guys that have been doing PE are way bigger than me but for me it absolutely awesome that PE has worked and that I can still make further gains. The saddest part of it is that I can’t share that with my selfish wife.
She won’t admit it but there is absolutely no denying that she knows. Sex is way better for both of us. Well, the physical part anyway. In the first month she could tell the difference. I was fuller and a little longer and began to fill her up a little more. It went on like that for a number of weeks.
We use to have sex three to four times a week and I use to really chase her. But, after many bad moments in our marriage it is now once, maybe twice, a week. I don’t ask for it anymore. I don’t give it to her if she has been acting badly. If I want it I take it unless there is something really wrong like fighting or bad feelings. There are times I know she wants it but I do not let my sex drive get in the way. She will have to wait until she behaves better. I know that may sound bad but I am not going to let her control me with sex.

Especially now…

I had made some fast gains during a time when she had her period and we had an argument. We went over two weeks without sex. One night we were lying in bed and I put her hand on my package. After grabbing it and inspecting her man toy she began to work on herself. I made her wait as she tried desperately to hold off her orgasm by herself because she wanted me. She actually asked to PLEASE!! Do her! She came fast and twice!! Can you believe it? PLEASE from my narcissistic wife! But still no other recognition of my progress. PE has also help me last much longer by the way!

During the next several weeks I continued toward my current gains. And this kind of thing continued but she would not say a thing and of course she knows it is different. She even has put her hand on her stomach feeling me deeper inside her and has made comments like Owwww, easy!! What a feeling, physically and mentally, of actually initially stretching her open and keeping her filled up. Now I know what you bigger guys must experience.

Well, we had a couple of good weeks at my current gains and still nothing. I decided to take it another step further and have sex with me pumped. I slept on the couch that Friday night, as sometimes I do to watch TV and work without coming to bed and waking her up, and completed my normal PE routine. I set the alarm for 5:30 AM and began another long slow low pressure pumping session. Normally have been using my 1.75” tube but decided to use the 2” tube. It took me over an hour and I almost completely packed it. I stopped because I started to get a little fluid buildup and had just the right amount of a doughnut starting to fill out below the glans. When I was done, and after I regained a complete beer can erection, I was at 5.8EG and 6.6BPEL. Yes! I went to the bedroom and got her attention. Without missing a beat she grabbed her new monster toy. Still she said nothing but she was ready in about 2 minutes! I had to work to get it in her and stretched her like nothing before and still she said nothing! She was breathing hard, hand on her stomach, grabbing the sheets, moaning and not once but twice in a row and Still Nothing! I then got her from behind for a third round and this really got her good as she was groaning, making noises like I never heard from her before, and telling me it hurt when I went deep to fast and still nothing!

The only thing I got was later in the day was a smile as she grabbed her crotch and commented that she was sore. If that doesn’t say stubborn, I don’t know what does. She just won’t admit or talk about my gains or even tell me she likes it. I guess in her own way she did.

But it gets better…..

The other day she came across the tube I use in the shower and ticked off she asked me what that was for. WHAT?? Are you kidding me?? Now, I know my wife is somewhat naive about sex and toys, etc… being raised Catholic in a Latin country but please… I brought it home the first day and tried to explain what I was doing, after what we have been through for the last several months, and taking the biggest man tool you have ever had in your life, you ask me what this is for?? However, she put it back and has not questioned it again and she still does not know about my other tubes. Guys, you figure it out if you want. That is what
I am up against but I don’t care. I am proud I could really please her and me and of the gains I have made through study, trial and error, sticking to my routine, rest breaks and all.

As for size, I have been reading quite a lot on the internet about the size women really want, trying to decide what my target should be. I think about 7BPEL and 6EG is the approximate target. I think I can get there within a few more months. However, that pumped 5.8EG I gave my wife was incredible for both of us. I know she is smaller and I have been with many women but I can’t imagine giving the average woman much more than that. Especially after what I have read about what many woman have said. I sure would like to try out my new tool on some different woman though. I am thinking on a regular basis that would be too big for my wife. It was just exciting and new for her the first time but on a regular basis it would make her sore all the time. Who knows? Maybe she would like it like that all the time but she will never admit it.

Maybe I will continue to increase as much as I can and have sex with her only when I am pumped just to watch her groan and thrash around as her eyes rollback in her head as if she were possessed. She can stay sore all the time for all I care as a reminder of who brings home her precious money and keeps her happy in bed.

Pumping before sex is great. I’d get at least a 30 minutes pump session in, it will last several hours. It will let you use temporary gains while you are growing into them.

Congrats on the size, tremendous increase you have gained and I know it feels wonderful.

Thanks DJrobins. I could not have done any of it without this site. This is such a great place to talk intelligently about PE and men’s health in general. I have seen the support, mentoring, advise, and encouragement everyone has given to each other and especially from the senior members. I am highly impressed and grateful. No sales, no criticism, no judgments, and no jokes at other peoples expense. Just a genuine concern for other men’s physical and mental heath. I am 49 years old and never thought I could do something about the size of my manhood. I know this is not new for everyone here but WOW! It can be done! And it did not require expensive pills or operations that could cause other problems. No man ever needs to be taken in by false advertising again. I feel like telling the whole world. When a man can truly gain size in what most men consider to be a measure of their manhood, along comes confidence , relief, enjoyment, etc.. I don’t think the results can ever truly be measured with just a ruler. It must be a similar feeling when a woman gets breast implants only men are able to do it completely naturally. There is much information on this site and many intelligent and experienced people here but I hope to be able to give back what has already been given to me and more. Thanks!

Thanks for posting your experiences ElToro. I hope they brings confidence to others who are just starting PE.

DJrobins you are correct and thanks putting the bug in my ear. Since you mentioned it, I have been doing about a 30 minute low pressure pump before sex and this actually seems to be about an optimal time to get the girth and a little length before sex. I like my long 2 hour workout sessions and I am packing tubes faster every month so this actually works well for me and without any fluid buildup. Here is what I do now before planned sex with my wife. I always use a heating pad to get warmed up and a low pressure pump for about 15 minutes. This allows me to get warmed up and pack the bottom part of the tube for a perfect seal. Then, I go to take my shower. I have a cheaper, adult store 2” tube and pump with a gauge, I use only in the shower. I fill it with warm water, low pressure about 4g, and take a 15 minute shower. This is awesome! This really relaxes everything, skin, tissue, etc.. Before sex and really allows me to naturally fill my man tool with blood much more efficiently. It also feels, looks, and performs much better. Just a side note for anyone who may think this may be too much, my wife and I always take showers before going to bed so adding an extra 15 to 20 minutes or so to my nighttime bathroom routine is nothing compared to the results.

I can’t wait to be in your shoes..

My girlfriend tells me her ex was 9 inches but somewhat thin. She said she prefers my 6x5.. Just wait till I reach my 7x5.5 goal!

Nice girl.

Don’t PE for her though. Do it for yourself.

Imagine your girls reaction if you told her that your last girlfriend was perfect, had big tits and was tight as a ducks ass.

Not sure I want as much as 9”, but 8” will be great