The things you must NOT think when you do PE

When clamping: “The tighter the better!” and “Going black means I'm getting bigger!”

Lol, yeah, definately.

“Uh oh…”

“A bigger penis will make me a better lover.”

…………………..? :-k

It’s just my humble opinion. Penis size is 99% about us, about our ego, about our confidence and self-esteem, and 1% about our partners being able to have some more pleasure. And some of the times it just doesn’t happen.

“Blood spots on my shaft means I'm doing things right!”

Lol, quick and blunt, I like it.

But, you originally said “make you a better lover”, not using the word
“partners.”
I think that “loving” is a lot more than just poking in and out of someplace.

What about your avitar statement about love (which is a very good thought, by the way) ? I would have thought you wolud be more attuned to love than just self satisfaction.

Panos, remember that the title is what you must NOT think. :)

Wow! You are right! I guess I got sidetracked. Sorry folks!

Panos, pal, a bigger unit will never make anyone a better lover. I’m not looking for that either…

If you really love a woman, and if that woman loves you, nothing else matters. What I’m trying to say, and this is only my opinion, is that the whole process of enlarging the penis, is about us, men. We do that to feel better, to improve the quality of our lives. Should we focus so much on something that shouldn’t be so important? No! Is this a normal thing? Unfortunately yes. At least 75.500 people in the world (and we all know this number sky-rockets when we realise that most men are unhappy with their penis size, or would at least like to add a inch or two), feel somewhat frustrated, insecure. And don’t tell me they don’t. Don’t tell me you and I don’t. We do, that’s a fact, and some more than the others.

Dude, it’s not about women. Unless we’re talking about those who’ve had 500 partners, or 10 children, they really do not care that much about penis size. All they want is to have a man that will take care of them, that will tell them how much they’re loved, how much they are appreciated. Of course sex is very important in a relationship, but know what, IT’S NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING AT ALL. A relationship solely based on sex will never work. Unless we’re talking about p*mps and prostitutes, but that’s a very sad exception.

You can satisfy your woman with what you have, and you both may live a very happy life together, full of love, joy and happiness. Anyway, you may not feel ok when you look at yourself in the mirror. And that’s when you join the thunders forums.

I’m definitely more attuned to love than just self satisfaction. I don’t even masturbate! :chuckle:

My 2 cents.

And of course, another sentence to add to the list of things you should NOT think:

“I won't tell my wife, maybe she won't notice”

“I need to reach 6” of girth by so-and-so date; I better up my PE work.”

I fall into this trap constantly - I do some good work, think about my ex being with much bigger guys than me, drive myself insane internally, then start doing too much PE without taking rest days, gains cease completely. Patience is a virtue, I must remind myself always.

kazoo, buddy, you’re not less man than anyone with a larger penis. No way. Men tend to be minimized by women, one of our biggest fears is that they would love to be with someone else (sometimes with someone they have been in the past) just because of a larger penis. That’s not true. Totally not true. Would you prefer to be with a woman with a larger boobs rather than your gf or your wife, the love of your life? Of course not! You don’t even think about the other woman!

Damn, I wish I could find a way that would make you all feel good about this subject. Men are always afraid of rejection, that’s something that is always on our minds, even if we can’t even notice it.

A bigger penis won’t make us better men, won’t make us more valuable, and won’t make us any better than what we are.

kazoo, I’m very proud of you for bringing this subject. Thanks a lot, and keep the patience dude.

Big hug!

P.S.: No, I ain’t no Dr Phil !!! :chuckle:

Gotcha, man.
Actually I forgot what the actual subject of the thread was and went :xtop:
but, was brought back to reality by Nick33.

That day had me in a pretty dark mood :mad: and Iwas a bit distracted. It was the anniversary of my marriage, and although now divorced, caused by her family’s meddling and interference, I have never mentally accepted the decree and consider myself still married by civil and church laws. I’m okay now.

Regarding your last sentence….come on, you expect me to believe that? No wanking at all? :mwink:

No problem my friend! I just wanted to make myself clear! It’s dificult sometimes, english is not my native language!

Well, I’m sorry to hear about your story… but I’m pretty sure that you’re a very strong guy, and that will find a way to get out of this whole situation, and to find a way to be happy. You deserve it! You’re a very nice person, and I’m pretty sure that a lot of good things are about to happen to you in the future. Celebrate this life!

About the wanking stuff… it’s being pretty hard, mainly when I’m pumping, but yes, no masturbation at all!

Big hug and have a nice weekend!

“Damn, I'm out of lube… let me try this shampoo and see if this works…”

:rolling: