Thinking about telling my gf about PE

I think telling a Wife is one thing, but telling a girl friend is way to risky. I would never tell a girl friend, girl friends become ex’s way to easy and then the whole world knows you’re a yankee (yanky). My Wife is my best friend and she respects my privacy although she plays a big part of my PE exercises (she helps), but ex girl friends become vindictive. Wife yes, tell her, Girl Friend, no way.

I should say that she is my fiance’ and we live together and have lived together for about four years. So, yes, we are practically married.

She’s pretty open minded when it comes to sex, but I’ve never known her to watch porn.

I’ve only recently returned to PE, but I have made some newbie gains. In a short period of time I gained 1/2” on length and 1/4” on girth.

I’ve got to admit, I can’t shake this feeling that she would respond with an understanding that would ultimately turn into disapproval. I think she would tell me that she doesn’t think I need it and would probably also express her concern with me injuring myself. While she’s pretty open minded when it comes to sex, she’s genuinely a conservative individual.

What about a fiancee’?

I thing it is a bad idea for most people. Women dont want someone who doubts themselves. Thats my 2 cents

wads

Seeing your significant growth I bet she doesn’t have a problem.

I don’t want to go off topic but looking at your stats DP I’d love you to start a new thread explaining how you got so much consistent growth both in length and girth. I don’t think I have ever seen such a steady upward curve of growth in both directions.

Back on topic my g/f not only knows I PE she is also a Thunders member (although mostly an occasional lurker).

Dude, he gained over 2 inches in girth. That’s just crazy. It’s like his penis was Bruce Banner and he was struck with gamma rays and now pussy makes him angry.

Andgrowing, you say you think she is conservative and would ultimately disapprove, yet privacy is an issue and you have an urge to tell her. You have also had quite significant gains, and she hasn’t noticed? Or do you think she may have noticed but not acknowledged it?

If she has conservative moral views, one of your tasks may be to explain to her that PE is not masturbation, even though it looks much the same sometimes.

It sounds to me like you are willing to test her acceptance of you; and you need to decide whether you are willing for PE to be a “deal breaker” between you if she finds it unacceptable.

I say:
As long as you are comfortable with your self, and have enough self esteem to express it as such, then go for it. Women usually think that people who buy pumps, and practice the more mainstream of PE activities are people with low self esteem and a small dick. That’s a cool party joke in some areas of the world I guess, but that is very far from reality.

I don’t know what your relationship is like with her but as long as you feel like you can deal with her reactions then, I say go for it. If you think that she will become a vindictive ex, and you can’t deal with the talk afterwards, then don’t go for it.

I told a few girlfriends (girl friends, not partners) about PE. They would all ask how big I was, tell me that I was stupid for doing it at first, and then admire the idea, check back on progress, and then show general interest in the benefits of a program like this one. But I knew how to deal with their reactions, and how to phrase this activity of mine, in a mature, thought out way, leaving very little space for critique.

As long as you can be a man about it, you should be fine.

I would also like to know how you got such great gains. Especially in the girth department. I mean 2” IN GIRTH !! :)

I told my girlfriend about the kegeling excercise. I haven’t told her about my regular routine though. Though I will one day.

As soon as she notices an increase in size (if she ever does), then I will celebrate and tell her straight away. I have no problem with it and am comfortable with it. I think she will think that I think my dick is small, which isn’t such a good thing, but she will not think any less of me for it. And if she enjoys more size then she’ll probably encourage it.

Nic33

Its a no win situation. You are not doing it for her but yourself. If you tell her you start looking for reactions… if she likes the bigger boy then you start thinking…hmmm….would she like some other guy who is better hung? If she doesnt notice or doesnt care then you will think you wasted all your efforts. Obviously she is the kind of girl who doesnt just go for the super hung. Believe me those women really take the wind out of your sails. Why turn her into one. And believe me you dont want to think of her as one. She likes you the way you are, dont put ideas in her head.

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Wad

This is tricky since once she knows she WILL pay much more attention to your cock. When my wife first noticed a size increase she thought that I was taking a pill or something. Then when I told her about PE she was concerned why I would want to do it. Once she got over that, well, now she checks out my cock a lot more. She loves it during sex, but she bitches about it during oral, and also she has complained about the girth, and that overall my cock is getting too fat. If she had no clue what was going on I’d assume she’d just role with it. At times her not knowing would make things much easier. Since at first I gained more girth then length. By her telling me it was too fat I almost stopped what I was doing to please her, but instead I just kept doing my routine. She’s since grown to accommodate my cock, and my growth a lot better. But I have a really sexually open and cool wife. This could be a real problem for some guys. To have someone distract you from your PE is not cool.

That’s a very, very good point, wad. I like your thought process.

And now that I step back and think about it, you’re right. Why should I introduce her to a state of mind that “bigger is better”? I mean, she’s only 18. I’m the only guy she’s had sex with (though she’s given oral before. I know that much. I don’t know how many guys though.). She probably doesn’t really know any better. I don’t know what kind of reaction she would have either.

If I end up gaining a noticeable amount, like an inch length-wise and half an inch girth-wise, then I’ll tell her. If it’s just a little bit then I’ll just keep it to myself, and continue doing my routine over the next few years. Maybe by the time I’m 21 (I’m 19 now, 20 in a few months), I’ll have a bigger than average cock.

At your age…you probably will be larger than average…if you dont hurt yourself.

AS a matter of fact looks like you will soon pass average.

WAd

People who are comfortable with themselves are always more attractive. Confidence, money, dominance, humour, intelligence, power, wit and an average cock or the opposite of those things and a large cock. Which would a woman want more?

Wad