Thinking about telling my gf about PE

Nick, it seems to be going pretty well for you so far. I’m not much older than you and when I started PE, I was actually a little younger than you. I would just recommend to you that you not get over-involved with PE. I think it’s easier for someone our age to slip into that since we are not likely to have as mature of a world view as some of the older guys on the board. Even now I can tell a difference in myself in terms of my attitude towards PE. I’m much more relaxed towards it and its something that is a part of my life, not something that my life revolves around. I’m not really sure that you needed that advice but if so, there it is. Good luck.

Shrewdly figure out what the ramifications of disclosing PE to the girl in your life may do to her. Some women will not take kindly to the fact that you will be able to increase the size of your penis. Underneath the surface you may be seizing control of a power she thinks she held over you.
This isn’t a negative post and must not be construed so, it’s action reaction. You must gage and weight up your partners insecurities before your own(that is of course if you really like/love her).

JoD

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Seeing your significant growth I bet she doesn’t have a problem.

I don’t want to go off topic but looking at your stats DP I’d love you to start a new thread explaining how you got so much consistent growth both in length and girth. I don’t think I have ever seen such a steady upward curve of growth in both directions.

I can give you my routine outline:
15 minutes of warming up the pubic area
20 minutes of Jelqing 5 times a day
10 minutes of stretches 5 times a day
5 minute rest period in between
3-20 minutes hanging with 15 lbs
5 minute rest period
3-10 minutes with 20 lbs
2-10 minutes with 25 lbs

I leave the hanger on while I gop through my stretches, this is were I use the rope attached to the hook or door knob to get a SO, then a 90 degree stretch to the left and a 90 degree to the right. Then I step over the rope and stretch BTC. All these stretches take about 15 -20 minutes. Then I remove the hanger, then I wet Jelq for 5 minutes. Then I have a cool down with cold cloths for applied for 10 minutes. My schedule is 5 day on and 2 days off, this will be mixed up durring the week.

Another reason why I’d like to tell her is because I’d like to try my hand at hanging. Being that hanging is usually done 45 minutes at a time, it’d be tough to keep it a secret from her. I know it would be best to just do it after she leaves for work, but I get up in the morning and leave for the day before she does, and I get home at the end of the day after she does.

I know that’s not really good enough of a reason to tell her about PE, but it’s one of several.

Also, what would be a good question or set of questions I could ask her to get the feel for how she would feel about it without spilling the beans?

You dont want to hang when you start out from what I have heard.

You know to me that kinda sounds to me like saying…I would like to jack off infront of her or take a dump. There are things you just dont do infront of your girl. (Yes jack off if it is part off sex with her…but not if she is watching TV) She wont respect you hanging infront of her. Yes I know it is just my opinion.

Wad

I don’t want to hang in front of her. But, I’d have a tough time explaining to her what I’m doing in the bathroom for 20 minutes, three times a day. If she knew I were PEing, I could at least say I’m doing my “exercises.” Telling her would, at least, eliminate suspicion.

When and if my GF ever moves in she will already know (because I have set the stage for it) that I meditate for and hour and a half every day ALONE in my office.

My advise is do not tell her. You will look like an insecure looser in her eyes. Besides, in here eyes I will bet there is something more attractive about a born big cock vs. a man made big cock. And you can bet that her ex with the big cock did NOT have to do PE to get large.

Hmm, I told my ex, and my advice is this - if you’re doing it for practical, time-concerned issues, go ahead an tell her, but if you’re looking for support, bark up another tree.

Born big cock vs. man made big cock. I never thought of that before, but you’re probably right.

That’s exactly what it’s for, the practical, time -concerned issues. Considering my situation, I’m kind of backed into a corner.

Well, I told her. I wasn’t disappointed with her response. She didn’t understand why I felt the need to do it and equated it to the need I feel to build bigger muscles. However, she did understand that it was something that I wanted to do and was accepting of it. I think it went pretty well, all things considered.

I wish you and your girl the best of luck, in PE and out.

Thanks, Kazoo. I appreciate it.

I’ve read threads where girlfriend reactions just like this one happened. Just be wary that now that she knows this, she *might*/*could* use penis and size related comments to you as ways of trying to break you down (for example: during an argument). I’m not saying this will ever happen between you two- I’m just going on what I’ve read in other threads. Good luck!

Congrats on your gains. :)

Just curious: Have you shared your pics here?