Too big? (Cmon' ladies!)

Personally - I think I have said it before - there IS a point of diminishing return on size.

I really believe that if I should ever start gaining, and approach my taget size (7” X 5”), and my wife began to have a great deal of discomfort, I would drop back to a maintenance program.

If she began to “feel” like she “wanted” more, or maybe said that a bit bigger would be nice, even someone at a fairly advnced age can always shoot for more. There are guys older than I am on this board who have made pretty good gains - so …

Anyway - your partner should have some say over the manner in which sex is approached. For myself, it is a matter of vanity and a sense of need for me to have a larger dick - for her, I really believe that she would appreciate it - if I do not take it to an extreme.

However, it would be just my luck, that I DO start gaining, and she DOES notice it, and DEMANDS maximum growth. Then I’ll end up a PE junky and die with a cockring holding max inflation while I am pumping my balls into a frenzy - gads!
SHALOM
wan2Bbig/Alex

Hi all.

My wife has given birth to two great kids (I couldn’t live with out them!) and I believe that she is the same size as before. She also is the same weight as before. When she got back into the maternity ward, she breast fed the baby and then started doing crunches and kegels. No lie!! All the other mums looked at her like she was crazy or something, but it worked. She looks as good as before kids and her pussy is as tight.

Wan2BBig, this is my philosophy exactly. Its good to see there are other guys who empathise with their wife’s wishes. I thought it was just me!

I also agreed with the wife that as long as she was not uncomfortable with my size, that I’d continue with PE! When it’s too much, I’ll stop and do maintenance.

Thanks fer the reply flower_angel, and all the guys. I’m still doin PE on the sly, which does make it more difficult. But she hasn’t ever complained about pain, other than some discomfort at first for a minute until she gets warmed up. Sounds like I have room to grow. :D

Giving birth can and sometimes does affect vaginal tightness, but it sligthly affects vaginal depth if at all. It can though.

Hey man, if you get too big, just stop PEing. Trust me, it’s EASY to lose size simply by stopping.

I only recently got the “too big comment” when we went right in (no foreplay) and I hit her cervix twice in a row (ouch!). But you know, I learned from you guys about that so I’m a lot more careful now. I make sure she gets a lot of foreplay, but if she’s impatient, I’m especially careful as I go in. I have to plot my course to slide under the cervix. Once I’m in smoothly, her vagina will tent.

My wife is just as tight as she was before 2 babies. She never did kegels but she can strangle my cock with a deathgrip if she’s really in the groove (or if I am).

So- now that I hit 7-5 (5.25) she’s moaning a lot more. I can see she’s enjoying it more, but she hasn’t yet said anything about how big I am. My progress has been pretty gradual. I think she has a very deep one because even with my 7 BPEL (6.5 NBP) I’m not consistently reaching her CDS. If it’s a good position I do and she moans (then I push in deep and try to bump the CDS gently). I think I’ll have to hit 8” BPEL to really give her CDS a nice massage. She has a very high waist (crotch to hip distance) so I think she’s pretty deep. That’s cool because if I ever get my dream size of 9X6, It’ll look so awesome sliding that huge salami in and out all the way. Maybe it will challenge her to deepthroat me too seeing how little of my unit she’s covering then. LOL.

I think Phreak makes a good point.

My old intention was if I ever got to the point that my penis was to big for my Significant other or others I would just stop PE and hope it would shrink back a little.

My concern with that theory now (other than never getting close to that size) is that it seems some people see gains when they stop PE-ing for a while. What is everyones thoughts on this?

As far as telling your partner about kegeling be very careful.

-Stubbs

PS- why is it everytime I go to home depot I end up buying stuff for PE even if that wasn’t my intention :)

Oddly enough, the “tightest” women I’ve been with both had given birth. One of the “loosest” women I’d ever been with had only had intercourse a dozen times before I met her. Go figure!!!

I felt this was worth quoting again. My wife was ‘virgin tight’ for five years, then the first kid came an I thought, “hmmm, this is different.” Then the second kid came and I thought, “damn, this sucks.” Then the third kid came and I thought, “dude, wtf???”

Some of them don’t go back. I am gonna PE until i can fill the freakin thing back up if it takes me till im 50.

Stop having kids!!!! Lol, at this rate you won’t be able to feel anything.

Great thread, this really gives an insight into what is a good size for women, and what is’nt, you see too many threads with like 9x7 etc. And although that might be comfortable for some women, I think the majority may find it incomfortable (from what I’ve heard).

Personally, I am 7 6/8 x 5 1/8, and am waiting with my g/f for the first time, so I have no real idea. I have accepted my length is good, but as always it is more a cosmetic (read: ego) thing then neccessity. I am going to continue with my length only exercises until I’m a solid 8”, then go heavy on the girth, with 5 4/8 a goal. Hopefully this will be big enough to get a good reaction from any women.

Any opinions much appreciated.