Too big? (Cmon' ladies!)

Just hit my inital goal of 7” BPEL. I’m a bit over 5.5” around midshaft. I still want to be bigger, but I don’t want to get too big for my fiance. I always have to lube her up, and enter very slow until she gets used to it. But when she does get used to it I can hammer away without hurting her. Only a few positions she’ll complain that I’m going to deep.

I like the sound of 8x6, kind of seems like a consensus around here, but I don’t want to get too big and ruin my sex frequency! She doesn’t have any toys, so I’m not sure about introducing her to the easy answer of an 8x6 dildo. ;)

HEy..if you got an 8”cock…

you don’t have to use it all the way…

Or do you have to?

But I do like burying it to the hilt! Good feeling, even if it is with a smaller unit. :D

Yeah, your right about that.

I’m at 7” NBP or, 7.5 BP..

I intend to go voor 8 x 6 (yeah, the classic)
I’m at 5.6 ” in girth and it was 4.5 cm wide…

it’s now at 5 cm, after two weeks of PE..

hope everything gains so fast…

Hey mike_rach,

I’m in the same boat, just read my post “she noticed.”

I’ve decided to not “Pound” or “Deep Grind” on her. As Dino said to me, “You need to start having sex like a man with a big dick.”

After your fiance has a kid or two your current concerns will seem laughable.

I read your post Sean, great post too by the way. I guess I just may have to, at 7” being in the top 10% is cool, but being in the top 1% would be much cooler. :D

Hehhehheh, nobody has brought that up before, but it makes so much sense!

Us younger guys need to think long term. 8” might be perfect for now, but when you’re 30-40 years old, and the wife starts to have babies etc, we’ll need that extra inch. Might as well get it now, rather than later.

Ehm…

but then when she is 40 you’ll need a 10 “cock…

or we just wait for 20 years with PE and start in 2020…

Ok guys, babies don’t make women that big. I have had two and am not any bigger than I was before…maybe it’s luck but that area of the woman’s body is made for stretching…and going BACK! We are made up much like men are…some of us have big ones and others are small.

Mike, sex is much like that for me as it is with your fiance. My boyfriend has to go slow getting in but once in I enjoy him getting faster and so forth. I enjoy the snug fit though (and am pretty sure he does too). As long as it isn’t painfully uncomfortable for her, I say go for it!!

For those of you guys worried about “stretching” after babies…you can always suggest Kegel (sp) exercises for your ladies!

flower

Good point. Sizesurvey shows that 7.9 ” bp is at the 90 percentile level. So this means that 9 out of 100 guys are going to be 8 bp or more(this really helps explain how come so many women we hookup with have been nailed by big ones). Having an 8 bp ” dick doesn’t put you alone at all, not to mention there will be a few guys longer than that out of each 100. I’ve seriously changed my thinking to 9 bp or longer, just don’t know if I can reach that.

flower_angel

There are many married men who have different experience than you have had. Kegels should help though.

Women always say im tight even when they would like to have sex with 2 pint beer bottle.

They just cant admit being loose, its always guys problem.

Just a fact when you put your dick in a pussy you know what you are dealing with.

Women dont seem to get that their size is as apparrent as mens size when you feel it.

Im not alone I know it.

K,

I understand the point that you are making here, and I agree that many women do have a problem “admitting” they are lose. I am sure that many women don’t go back to the sizes they were before having children, I just don’t think I realized that many men experienced this problem, so I apologize if it was a bad assumption. I have honestly never spoken to another woman about her “size”. I never gave my size second thought until I was told about PE. I was curious about things women could do to improve their feeling where their partners were concerned and my boyfriend told me about Kegel exercises. I think that’s really cool. As “in tuned” to my body as I thought I was before coming to Thunders and before meeting my boyfriend I have learned a ton more about myself (body wise) and it was rather surprising.

But I would like to thank you guys for not getting upset for my responding and comments thus far. I too enjoy the feed back from you all, it gives me another view point.

flower