What are your Bulge Reactions - positive and negative

I started a thread on here a long time ago asking “Is a bulge offensive” There were many responses but I want to add 2 things….

1. The consensus was that the negative reactions come from guys. I have only had one negative reaction from a guy, and quite a few from girls.
2. What is your experience with bulge reactions? Positive and negative?

Now I do not intend to make you think that my bulge is an accident. I have a good bulge after years of PEing, but I do not like to leave it to chance. If I want to bulge I usually pump, wear a “stayer” (not a cock ring) and then most of the time I wear a head ring. If I do this, I am 7” to 8” long and about 6” +? around at the circ scar. The head ring could be a golf weight or something similar. My shaft is soft / pliable not hard. The head ring ensures the prominence of the head and keeps it hanging straight down due the weight. Looks 100% natural in clothes. Sitting is easier to bulge and sweats or gym shorts can make a really good standing bulge for workouts at the gym..

One of my favorite reactions…

I went to this bar that I had never been to before. Not many people at the bar. I had just got done lifting at the gym. I was wearing gray sweats and t-shirt short enough to show when I walked in. I was fully dressed as I said above and the head ring made my dick swing a little. The bar was slow, so when I walked in people turned and looked. I could tell they may have noticed. I ran my dick down along the left side of my sweats as I sat down. If I place the in-seem at my crotch I can get at least a 6” or 7” in length. I ordered a beer and said hi to the bartender. I looked over and there was a girl and 2 guys sitting a couple of chairs down. I could tell they noticed and could see it. Chattering and giggles - from both the guys and the girl. I didn’t flinch. I was a little disappointed because I heard one of the guys talking and I think he was gay.

A few minutes later, maybe another beer, the girl walks over to me. Older 35 to 40. Cute, but chubby with big tits. You know the bar type big mouth. She said high and then asked about my erection. I was like “WTF? I don’t have an erection. Just hanging out.” Obviously not the reaction I wanted. She went away and then I had another beer. More giggling. I was thinking of leaving, this is a bust. So I got up to take a piss. I get in front of the pretty open urinals take off my head ring and stayer and hold it from the base. My size stays about the same and in walks the gay guy. He looks at it, walks out and then tell the small crowd at the bar. Yep it is big! Some how, I knew to stay on guard for some reason and sure enough in walks the same girl to check it out for herself. I was like now you believe me? She walked out and confirmed it. I went back out and she kept talking to me all night. Not a keeper but fun time.

How about you?

I like when i’m walking and womans keep looking, you are looking to they eye and they looking down you. eheh.
I do not wear tight pants to avoid boring situations.
If you use a cock ring with your cock + balls and jeans pants it looks super funny womans looking it in metro.
Some womans smile after.

Witch head ring do you use?

Wow that’s quite the story there Steady! I know I’ve worn some tight jeans after a pumping session and have caught some looks.

Sometimes I wear a cock ring but I think that’s a double edged sword, it can make it look big when it has blood in it but if it gets soft it restricts the blood coming in thus making you seem smaller.

I use either a golf weight (almost too big around, it looks obscene) or I fashion one out of an eye bolt. It looks really natural and actually makes your head bigger around due to the circumference of the ring and longer due to the thickness of the ring as well as it weights it down while providing movement when you walk. So loose pants are good.

I don’t like tight pants, but when you sit with your dick down your pant leg, they get tight. If they are loose it looks natural and has some movement, especially in shorts or sweats.

At a swinger’s party here once drilling my then wife.. generally we were the first to start as I don’t understand “socialising” somewhere where we’re all there to fuck.,

Anyways, she’s cumming like a train and all of a sudden this guy literally sticks his nose right on her but cheek, ( doing her doggy ), looks, walks away and says something
to the vouyers behind us.. Not 10 mins later I must’ve had 4 women come up and schedule play later :)

Another time at a local nightclub where we hold monthly BDSM parties, this chick walks in and asks one of the bouncers who’s got the largest cock in the place, he points to me,
she walks up, gets on her knees and starts blowing me, ( I wear a leather kilt so easy access ).

I really need this, can you take a picture for me how it looks like.

+1

What the fuck kinda bars you all going to!

Damn. I thought stuff like that only happened in bible groups. Like, Hey, man, is that baby Jesus in your pants, or you just happy to see me?

I’m a middleweight on the bulge, but at the last Halloween party I attended, I went as Superman, my wife was Superwoman. I wore my tight pants, and my wife said I looked obscene. I said, What do you mean? She said, I dunno, just do something with ~that~. And she pointed at my crotch. I’m a 4.5x4.5 hanger, so not huge but not mini-me, either. Normal, I suppose, but I’m lean and short so that helps. Like your hot cousin, it’s all relative, right.

Anyway, I got some nods at the Halloween party, especially this one lady (neighbor, a realtor, and almost by definition realtors are sexy) who’s always finding some private time to talk with me. She pulled me off to the side and said she really liked my costume. I don’t think she meant the glasses and nametag, which were pretty much all there were to the “costume.”

Any-anyway. Never had anyone follow me to the damn head, and I’ve certainly never noticed another guy’s pecker, or talked about it, or went up and asked him about it, or followed him to the head to take a peek, or stabbed my nose into some guy’s wife’s buttcrack to take a sniff. But I saw one guy in college at the urinals, skinny redneck guy with a John Deer hat (love Texas) pull out a baby’s forearm, and I was stunned in my teens when my dad and brother and I, all working together digging dirt at the sand pit, took a communal piss and I realized my pop’s big-dick gene had skipped me and landed on my little brother.

And my wife caught my son getting a blowjob from his girlfriend. He’s 15. She said, That boy ain’t got NOTHING to worry about. So at least the gene landed on him, thank God. He’s a solid hanger, bet he’ll get some looks. When we go camping, he unbuckles his pants to take a piss, so I imagine the big-dick gene got him good.

- Saul

I don’t try to hide mine or to emphasize it in any way but it is obvious in my jeans (That’s all I wear). I get a lot of looks from women. Some can’t take there eyes off of it and my wife gets a bit defensive. That’s it. No one has ever asked me about it or tried to look at it. My wife told me that a couple of her friends and one of her clients asked her if I was big. I’m not sure what her answer was.

I like this, sit in side of woman and she will look, 100% sure. Womens have eye of eagles. kkkkkkkkkkk

Went swimming with a friend yesterday…pretty sure I heard a few comments (not from my friend since she is married, but other people at the pool), but then it is pretty impossible to not show things in a wet pair of boardshorts.

The funny thing is to me at least, anything they likely did see looked fairly small due to shrinkage, however I know from measuring before even shrunken I’m around the 4-4.25” visible mark, so I guess that still puts it above average for flaccid.

My bulge is much more prominent since ditching the boxer briefs and going for regular boxers. My unit tends to be pushed out when my balls are tight so there’s that too.

I’ve definitely gotten some looks from the wife. Other than that I haven’t noticed much.

She really wanted to see:

I just got done lifting and went to Wal-Mart to get some groceries. It was warm and I was still wearing my workout gear. The gray shorts are microfiber and really shows a good hang, including length with and the head.
I shopped and really had no reactions at all. Most women are looking at their phones too much these days. Also if they are alone they don’t react anyway.
I went to check out and there were two girls, 21 to 25 checking out. One was bagging and the other was paying. I unloaded my stuff on the conveyer and then kind of faced the one bagging. She noticed right away. She smile and then told her friend. She was quiet about it, but I could tell she told her. The one paying was nervous and just as she looked, I turned a little. I was playing hard to get. She finished paying and then as she left she took a quick look. She was nervous, so she turned quickly. I am not sure if she saw, but the other one looked again and said something to her as they left.
I paid for my stuff and I started walking to my car. A car came up behind me and then turned in front of my really slow. It was the girls. They both were staring and smiling really big. I thing she finally got to see. It has been a while since I have had a woman try that hard to see it. Funny.

They went above and beyond to catch a glimpse! That has to feel nice.

What’s your flaccid hang?