Ok. Now that we’ve had some fun at coolbill’s expense, let’s take a moment acknowledge that he actually has a good point.
Originally Posted by UpTo7
Grammar and spelling are not the same thing.
Well, yes and no.
FYI: grammar encompasses spelling, punctuation and rules regarding structure as well as general usage.
So, grammar is not spelling, but spelling is a subset of grammar. :leftie:
No one here is held to standards of perfect grammar. If that were the case a lot of this Web site would have to be scrapped.
What the Forum Guidelines set out to do is to encourage everyone to engage in their best effort at making their posts clear (and free of chat-speak abbreviations that are inconsistent and unclear).
It makes it easier for folks who’s first language isn’t English, it makes some of the translating efforts that go on here for our international members easier too. So, as we are all committed to making Thunder’s Place the best we can, let’s all, as members, do our best to make our posts as clear as possible. Everyone makes typos, some of us more than others. The point is to try our best not to.
tytn take note: you not u, are not r, etc. Check out the Forum Guidelines if you (or anyone else for that matter) are at all confused.
Thanks.
Now. There’s a lot of crap in this thread. Let me address some of it.
tytn, if you are as interested in clamping as you say, it’s pretty easy to do a search.
With regard to folks questioning you and your statistics, be aware that what you claim puts you in upper percentile of the upper percentile with regard to size.
Highly unusual. Possible - but highly unusual.
If you want to post pictures as proof, do so in the Link to bad forum (forumid 16) removed area of the forum. Create a thread there and upload ‘til your hearts content. If you have trouble doing that contact one of the moderators and one of us will help you.
Be advised, we get a lot folks who come on here with size claims that are more appropriate for running away and joining the circus, or perhaps a novelty porn site, instead of a site dedicated to helping people with size problems.
If your size is what you say it is as far as I’m concerned the only ‘problem’ you have is that you believe more is always better. Some people have already posted here in an attempt to question that paradigm. People with real life experience. You’d do well to consider their input.
Honestly? If you’re really that big and want bigger, I can only conclude that you have no experience having sex with a real live person. As someone mentioned a girth that big makes oral nearly impossible, and in truth it can make intercourse pretty difficult too - with most of the population (or at least those who are not professional sex workers).
Feel free to post your evidence. A word to the wise though, be ready for the haters. When you post statistics that are on the extreme upper end, people will tend to doubt.
With regard to this back and forth:
Originally Posted by Kjdeet
You know, I’ve always think that a man with big dick is the toughest guy in the world.
That is what makes a man truly a man.
If some bodybuilder comes to me and says ” look these muscles” I say back ” look this big dick”.
PE takes more work than bodybuilding, more motivation than bodybuilding but the prize is worth it in a long run.
Nonsense. On all counts. But more on that later.
Originally Posted by avantasia
So a man with a big dick is truly a man and another with a small dick is less of a man?. Mmm, I mean, the smaller the dick, the less men he is?.
Are you being serious or I am missing the sarcasm mode?
Originally Posted by Kjdeet
No sarcasm included.
Originally Posted by avantasia
Then you have some serious issues dude.
Originally Posted by marinera
That’s a over the line IMO, Ava. It is his opinion, right or wrong.
While I’d agree that marinera is right to challenge avantasia on this as a personal attack (we try not to criticize people personally and rather attempt to address our criticisms and disagreements of ideas as they are expressed - it makes things nicer that way), - that said, I’d also say that avantasia has a point, though perhaps clumsily made. I will try to clarify how I interpret it:
For most of us, one’s dick is only part of what makes you a man, and it is not the most important part. In fact, we can go so far as to say: an individual’s sexuality is not the most important part of the individual - whether man or woman, straight, gay or otherwise.
I’d say the general reaction to this statement of Kjdeet’s is therefore right on and unsurprising.
I would suggest to Kjdeet that he re-evaluate a bit. As great as it might be to be well endowed it is hardly the final measure of a man. Important? Yes.
All important? Uh, let’s hope not.
Originally Posted by Kjdeet
Didn’t mean to insult anybody, I’m sorry.
I’ll take your word for that.
Perhaps you too were trying to make a point somewhat clumsily.
While it’s true PE can be a challenging endeavor and I’d agree that it is not as clear-cut as, say, body-building. However I would not go so far as to make a sweeping judgment as to which is more difficult or rewarding. Like most things, what you get out of either one has to do with what you put in - and what you believe is more important has to do with what you value.
I’d also point out, on basic level, if a body builder shows off his muscles and you in turn show of your dick as a response… well, it occurs to me that might not turn out very well for you. Either he doesn’t like it and he uses those big muscles to mess you up or he likes it and you’re fucked.
Seems like something else to re-evaluate.
Regardless of what your intent was, I hope you can see that such a statement is somewhat offensive, or at least that you can see how it could be interpreted as such. Here at Thunder's we get men of all sizes and shapes. Many of whom are perfectly well accomplished in life. They come here because they are grappling with an issue that is deeply personal, and that can come with a lot of the baggage of insecurity.
So it’s best if we don’t make statements in judgement of each other on this score. Particularly if those judgments denigrate folks for being small.
This is a brotherhood here. We are trying to support our fellow members. Sometimes that support can be confrontational - a reality check, or calling someone’s bullshit, but we should always try to keep in mind that our statements have meaning and that they can be hurtful. We all need to think a bit before we post
With all that said, tytn are there any specific questions about clamping you have, or do you just want to talk about making your 8 - 9” X 7 dick bigger?
If it’s the latter I’d like to ask why? Who are you having sex with that needs bigger than that? Honestly?