Guys,
I realize that we’re not going to keep gaining indefinitely, but my “honeymoon period” was quite brief (< 1/2 year). After that it was very slow-going.
We all have different starting sizes, obviously, and different growth potential. As each of us nears his theoretical potential, the gains become tougher and tougher. This is true with all physical endeavors. In theory, it’s doubtful that anybody ever realizes 100% of their true genetic potential (some have certainly come close). But what happens is, the nearer we move towards our potential, the tougher gains become. We have to keep experimenting, tweaking so much, etc. Eventually, discouragement settles in or, in the case of an athlete, their best years are suddenly behind them.
If I had gained 1.5” my first year, but then only 0.5” my 2nd year, I sure would not consider myself a “hard gainer” - I would simply recognize that I was nearing my growth ceiling. My 1st 6 months of weight training, I averaged an extra 20 lbs per month on my bench press - and that was by doing some shit routine. Then, the next 3 months, about 17 lbs per month (I added 170 lbs to my bench in only 9-9.5 months). But the next 50 lbs took me 10 months (only 5 lbs per month) - and that was on a drastically improved routine. After that, I went on to add another 35 lbs total - in about 16 months (just over 2 lbs per month) - and that was with so much experimentation, special exercises, extreme dedication, etc.
PE is similar. Many guys, like myself, made some quick gains on moderate stretches & jelqs - every other day - for the first several months. Then nothing. Where we go from there depends on our approach - and our own genetic limits. Since we’re talking about such a relatively small part of our bodies, I think there is less margin for error with PE. You’re either working the willy too hard (traumatizing the tissues & perhaps hardening the tunica) or you’re just spinning your wheels (not reaching fatigue). Also, you might be training too frequently or not frequently enough. Or, you might not be training smartly (too much lig work with a very low LOT, or too much tunica work with a very high LOT). Etc., etc., etc.
I believe that a lot of how much we gain depends on our mental approach. Analyze your situation, gather feedback & pay attention to your body. Also, you have to have the courage/discipline to take strategic layoffs - and not just for 2 or 3 weeks. I believe that if we tenaciously apply this strategy (LOT-based training, monitoring gains, experimenting with training frequency, duration & intensity, strategic breaks of 2-4 months for deconditioning of tunica & connective tissues, etc.), I think we can maximize our gains and come as close as possible to our theoretical limits - given enough time with such an approach.