Been, If you check out some of my threads / posts, you’ll see I am/was definitely in the same boat. I started PE in December 2006, and by May of this year had seen no gains whatsoever. The only thing I was getting for my trouble was some weak erections (which I attribute to pumping, having added pumping to my routine in a desperate effort to make at least *temporary* gains!) Yes, I got a better flaccid hang (off and on) from PE…but erect? Nothing. It’s possible I was doing something wrong, not jelqing properly, etc. Well, I joined Thunders, read up, got some advice…and after almost another 2 months of some pretty damn intense PE, guess what? Still no gains. Then I took a break (about 3 weeks, I think), and resumed with the following routine, five days on and two days off.
5 minute warm wrap
10 minutes manual stretching (30 second stretches, all directions)
4 O-bends (10% erect, or thereabouts)
100-200 dry jelqs (sometimes having to break this up into 2 sessions due to time constraints, since I have trouble maintaining an erection during jelqing and have to constantly re-start)…
I’ve been doing that for maybe a little over a month…and it looks like I may have made a miniscule gain.
It used to be that my NBPEL was a meagre 5.5-5.75” depending on erection level; let’s say 5.75, but I’d have to *work it* to get it to measure that long, be really turned on, you know? A week ago I measured, and I was about 1/8” shy of 6”. A fluke, I figured, or maybe I need glasses. I mean, I wasn’t fudging, I wasn’t measuring at the verge of orgasm or pushing the ruler oh so subtly into my fat pad. It was measuring 5 and 7/8”, no doubt about it. But of course I still had doubts. Well… the other day I measured again, and got the same result.
Maybe that 1/8” inch is all I’ll ever gain, who knows? But I think the upshot here is, don’t give up. Take a break, and start again. (And maybe check out Mem’s rapid gain routine too? - I plan to try it at some point after I’m more conditioned). I’ve read posts from people on this site who have had a similar experience, and didn’t start gaining until fairly late. Better late than never, I say! And good luck to both of us! (well, all of us)