Why so many big guys?

Your dimensions won’t disappoint. That’s certainly considered noticably above average, and probably qualifies as an “8-9 incher” by women without their tape measure handy.

Watchout,
That makes sense. I started May 1st of this year and I started at the same size as you. I keep on wondering if I’m going to actually notice a difference when I gain. I’ve made some gains already, but I never seem to notice them when I look. It’s not until I measure that I actually can tell. I do notice flaccid looks a little larger, but I guess it all takes some time. A watched pot never cooks is the old addage I guess. Seeing something at 8x6 would definitely LOOK bigger when you’re starting at 5.5x 4.5.

I’m hoping that I can keep with this long enough to actually look in the mirror and SEE the size difference!

Seems that the first goals said here are often 8 bpel x 6. I know mine was.Then I started thinking about nbp is what is seen and used, so I changed to 9 bpel (8 nbp).

I understand that almost all men wish there dick were bigger. But it just really pisses me off is that a lot these guys don’t get it that they are blessed by being above average. It’s so easy for them to forget or simply ignore that while they are going for the perfect hung size, there are guys who are trying to become average. I absolutely hate it when I see pics of a newbie just starting here and he’s at my goal size. When I was reading this whole thread I was also pissed that almost everybody that listed his size is 7+ there were only 6 guys me included who started with less than 6 inches. So not only am I pissed that I have a small dick, its even worse that I’m in the minority. I’m so mad that there are only a small number of men who have a small dick and I just had to be one of them.

I really feel sorry for all the guys in the world who have less than 6 inches. I wish there was something that could be done to make sure that nobody has to suffer because he is below average. If I had a 6+ incher I would have never found Thunders because I wouldn’t have even looked. I would simply be content knowing that I was average. But being below average has led me here.

At least we’re gaining, right Maxtro?

Evolving wrote, among other interesting points:

“Fellatio ought to be about her wanting to tongue and kiss a cock like an ice cream cone rather than to necessarily put her whole mouth around the damn thing.”

Blow jobs are becoming more popular among the young. Surveys show that teenaged girls tend to see fellatio as “not sex.” Intercourse, though is “real sex.” If they are dis-inclined toward intercouse for whatever reasons, they will more likely give their boy friends/dates a blowjob. Clearly they are getting some sort of pleasure from this, whether they see it as sex or not.

I wonder in that context if they don’t just feel better having done a nice and perhaps to them obligatory thing for their men without risking pregnancy or the loss of their virginity.

Too, if you have daughters and also have a pretty up-front relationship with them regarding sexual issues, the question, “Are you sexually active?” can be answered safely in the negative by them since a blow job is not sex in their view.

What’s this about guys with bigger units bringing women to vaginal orgasms more easily?? Is this for real? I’ve lived most of my life at 6.5BP x 5.1 (small by my estimation—and I’m a grower to boot). Despite my perceived shortcomings, I have brought many women to vaginal orgasm.

By contrast, my college roommate (we’re going back 20 years now) who was 8+ by 6+ had a hell of a time getting women to come. Women were awed by his massive member, but that wouldn’t get them over the edge.

I honestly think it’s more a matter of foreplay, affection, and technique. Also, aim for the G spot!

And one more thing. The bigger the unit, the tighter the squeeze, and the faster the guy tends to come. Being a little smaller can keep you in the game longer. Eventually, the purring ensues …

Well about the ex boyfriends with big units, I think some penis’ just have a larger looking appearance. Some guys post 8 or 9” penis’ and I find it strange they don’t look bigger than they do, because I think I look the same or bigger sometimes. Maybe I have a fucked up complex or maybe my ruler isn’t accurate. I’m 7-1/4” x 5-1/4” and I’ve been mistaken for much bigger, but I also don’t correct them, so if this can happen to me, I’m sure it’s happend for others, and therefore I’m sure some of those large ex’s are just above average guys who just seem to look bigger.

Also I’ve heard girls say they like a 5.5 or 6 inch penis, because it hits their g-spot more when it’s not as deep. (although that’s what shallow thrusts can remedy.)

>I can see why the veterans who are huge would still be here, but what in the world is driving some of you naturally large guys to seek out pe?

Hi Jaji,

I started out at about 7 and I can sum it up in one word:

GREED :chuckle:

If you ever watched the movie “Wall Street” then you know that “Greed is Good” :)
In my case I was always shooting to perfect myself and make a girl go completely beserk and out of her mind with lust and passion for me.

I just read an interview with “Loni”, the Asian porn star who looks very much like my wife.. She was asked straight out about size and she said she would take shit for saying it but flat out said she prefered 6.5 inches of length but she did say she really liked thick cock… Redwood1981 is onto something I think…

RWG

Maxtro, You know I here where you are coming from mate, but don’t get mad, get even. Get hung!

As do I. But look on the bright side, at least there is something that they can do about it, if they really want to.

Oh yeah I also forgot to mention that some of the guys who posted 7.5 & 7.75” I think looked like some of biggest ones on the site. All I’m saying is you can’t always tell by looking, but maybe this is more of a picture thing.

Heaving read all the posts on this thread I was almost about to think that the “larger ones” must all be a bit crazy.

There are guys here who have 7.5” as start size. 19 cm! for all you metrics.

How do huge guys get the idea to search for a site like thunders on the net or to become interested in PE by advertising or anything else?

I mean, for the average guy - I am a member of that group - it is logical that when you read articles - where sizes are listed - , that these articles make you think “Man, I am average! I have to do sth to get out of that mainstream average club. I dont want to be average!”

But when I am above average? And for me, 7.5” is clearly above average. What would I think? I would not(!) think! Messages like these in magazines or wherever would boost my self-confidence. “I am above average! Hooray*****”

So we are really all different!?!?

And, what do these penis size stats say: They say that ~ 70% of all men have a size between 5.5 and 7”. So lets say that 15% are below and 15% above this range. It seems to me that on Thunders the “above” group is overrepresented compared to their absolute number (of posted messages). Now please do not misunderstand me. I dont want to insult anyoine or to make anyone leave this site. It is just my personal conclusion. But, I have also often asked myself the question “Why are a they so often seen on Thunders?” I think it is simply because the average or below group is a shy group and we wait until we gain significantly which can last very long.

And, nature is so inequitable, these large members often gain fast.

Agreed Redwood. I think one thing that can cause this is the fat pad. When a poster says he has 8 bp, but shows his nbp picture, then I’ll eyes may tend to only notice the nbp size, but having his bp measurement in mind we might think it doesn’t look as big as he stated. I’m not one to show a pic, but if I did I would push the fat pad back to make it look as big as possible in the pic. :)

Regular White Guy,

Your comments about Loni don’t surprise me. Forgive my use of racial stereotypes, but I believe many Asian women are more petite as a general rule than Black and Caucasian women and simply don’t have as much room inside them.

For these women, 6.5” in length is probably pushing their limit of comfort. My datapoint is my Mrs. ModestoMan, who is Asian and has an absolute vice grip for a pussy.

Interestingly, porn star Chloe has also said that she prefers average sized cocks (see “The Complete Guide to Anal Sex for Women”, by Tristan Toarmino). And as her fans know, Chloe is the queen of penetration.