Originally Posted by navarro
I’m just curious about this:Are you going to transfer this valuable knowledge to your boys when they grow up? (in case you have). Or will this be your own and very private secret until your death?
I’ve thought about this for ages, my wife currently does not approve despite what trauma I told her about as a late teen due to my thyroid condition. My thyroid condition screwed up my circulation for a long time during puberty causing my extremities to be cold much of the time. Therefore causing to have a much smaller than possible penis both hard and soft than I probably could have and should have had during puberty and a young adult. I had some guys laugh at me and a couple of girls.
This is let me tell you at any age especially a young age for a young lad is quite traumatic. I never want my son(s) (whenever I have one) to go through that.
Some of you might be saying, “Oh what’s wrong with your wife? Why is she lame or a party pooper?” Well I finally understood and have to agree with her. Neither of us want our son or daughter (when we have them) to grow up thinking that the only way they will get by in life is to “use” their body in what ever manner they have to.
My wife and I want our kids to value themselves as people first and not just pieces of meat.
I read an interview just recently from a very popular black pornstar (forget his name) who is endowed and in great shape, tall etc…. He was as what he likes about the porn industry and sex. His first reply was “To please women at all cost” in his work life and personal life.
He was asked when he lost his virginity. He replied “At 11 years old, by his 3 slightly older female cousins (Perhaps distant? Still wrong IMO) who tricked him and raped him all night long. When I was in my 20’s, I would have thought this was cool
like any other guy would. But now, I think this is awful as he probably grew up thinking that all he
was worth was sex and to please women.
Back to the point, will I tell my son(s) when he’s old enough about PE/pumping? If he came to
me and told me he felt insecure about his size or he was made fun of, I would first tell him not
to listen to other people and that it’s him as a person that counts first. If he was really concerned
about his size say at around 18yo, I might discretely tell him that there are some exercises that he
can do to help out the situation. I would try to get rid of his fear and anxiety as much as possible to
let him know that he is a person and that counts much more than what others think and keep reminding
him of this (same if my daughter wanted a boob job or butt implant).
This way the child won’t grow up thinking that all their worth is a big penis, nice body, big boobs/butt
etc… But I would try to be as helpful as possible. I know it’s a lot easier to do PE exercises than it
is for a woman to enhance her bosoms and butt so it’s kind of not fair to the ladies with all do respect.
I’d tell my daughter that she’ll find a man who appreciates all of her qualities, that she probably doesn’t
want a guy who only sees her butt.