Would you teach your Son?

andro’s take on it isn’t so bad, I guess.

Coming from the place of “maintaining a healthier you”, but then that assumes the kid (or parent for that matter) are reasonably healthy to begin with. There are other priorities regarding health and maintenance of the self that might be more important to work on.

But I do basically agree with west: That time is already full of body issues, social issues, family issues and much more. Adolescence is pretty tough these days.

This is a great observation: to tell someone he “may” need to do exercises “if” he thinks he's too small.

It is a loaded proposition, and in light of the bombardment of Enzyte commercials and the like, it would just reinforce that stuff and foster a sense of inadequacy.

Let people come to this stuff when they need to. Don’t project it on to them.

I have often thought it would make a nice 5 year wedding anniversary present for my son.

Your daughter in-law may start looking at you funny, though.

What do you mean, if I jelq my way to a big one, doesn’t it become hereditary :-) .

No I would not tell my son about it, perhaps spam him about thunders :-)

Again, we can create carve-outs for each and every possible exception- but once we’re done with that, we still have the majority that live in the bell of the curve- and that’s who I’m looking to.

Although I’d dispute that there are more important priorities than anything health related for children and adolescents.

The health and fitness habits we acquire before age 20-25 become our default patterns [barring ‘exceptional’ circumstance]. While 15 may seem young to be concerned with creating patterns that may help your son avoid ED at 50, as a society we at least pay lip service to creating health and fitness habits that may help that 15 year old avoid cardio-vascular disease at 50. [Of course we can see how well that’s working out for US]

Is it really that different? I maintain not and will continue to do so.

Personally I haven’t really been focusing on PE for size myself since I broke that 7.5 BPEL mark- while I still plan on restarting hanging in the near future, at the moment it’s all about pure dick health-

To suggest to anyone out of the blue that they need to PE is absurd- never mind to suggest it to one’s own adolescent son.
But, should that son ask about those ubiquitous Enzyte ads- that would present an opportunity to discuss general penile health in an age appropriate manner.

Personally I have mentioned TP to more than one friend, couched specifically as a health practice- which I genuinely believe it to be.

If anyone cares, the conversation usually kicks off regarding kegels.

I don’t have any kids, but if I ever do have a son and he inherits my lower side of average penis I would indirectly mention it. Especially if I knew he was having insecurity issues (like I did). I really believe that in todays super competitive enviornment we owe to our youth to give them all the tools necessary. A bigger dick, especially a bigger dick that was once smaller would obviously boost any mans confidence. Increased confidence can manifest into a better job, happier sexlife, less stress, overall sense of well being, the list goes on and on. Bottom line - life is just to darn short to live with a small one if you don’t have to.

I won’t. I don’t have children but if I had, I wouldn’t do that.

The famous “the bigger the better” when it comes to penis is not a fact. It’s just a matter of personal taste.

If you , as a father, introduce your son to PE without being asked by him chances are that in the future he will feel insecure because he assumed that he needs a bigger dick, that he needs to be some kind of John Holmes or Mandingo to satisfy a woman or another man.

Nobody needs a huge dick to enjoy sex, that’s bullshit. So, please, don’t do something that may cause insecurity to your children. The have plenty of time along his life to determine if they have any interest in dick size.

Believe it or not, the fact is that most men, despite the fact that will enjoy a bigger dick, don’t consider this issue so crucial to spend thousand of hours doing PE exercises.

For all those who said they wouldn’t tell their sons about PE, did you yourself have insecurities about your size around puberty. Since this is a site devoted to PE then I would assume so. Or maybe I’m just projecting because I was definitely insecure at that age. I remember as early as 14 I would lay in bed at night and literally pray to god for a bigger dick. I’d even try to pitch a deal to him that he could take a few inches of height from me if it would go to my dick.

Pathetic, I know. But insecurities about size would more likely come from society long before a conversation with their father. It’s ubiquitous these days. When I was in Jr. High that “Don’t want no short short man” song came out on MTVs Spring Break, then in high school Lil Kim was writing lyrics like “Seven inches, no less” just to name a few. I can’t even watch kids shows or movies without the occasional innuendo or implication that so and so is “compensating for something”(Shrek I think)

So yeah, I would tell my son if I had one. I see it as not being much worse than getting a kid braces, pinning their ears back, fixing a cleft lip, or when parents buy their daughters implants. And all of those things are strictly cosmetic where penis size is more functional. I’d rather do my best to inform them than have them risk time, money and injury on other things that don’t work. My main concern would be them thinking this would give them my blessing to go out and fuck anything that moved.

By the way, I wouldn’t buy my daughter implants. 1.) Because they’re expensive and 2.) Because if they ever had a problem with their breasts then they could fix that in a matter of days. PE is free but takes YEARS to get results.

Double standard. What’s good for him should be good for her.

Please, do tell your daughter her tits aren’t big enough. It’s no different than telling your son his dick is too small.

No I didn’t have penis size insecurities during or after puberty. My joining here was 100% for penis health and not for the purpose of making it bigger. However, I’ve made gains and not complaining. :)

I agree with you, this is a big concern for creating insecurities. It does seem to be getting worse than better.

I think the age rule for membership is perfect for this discussion. You have to be 18 years old or a young adult. Not a developing child/kid.

I would only tell him to check out thunders. He can make up his own mind, but I wouldn’t do this till he was around 16 most guys are having sex around that time. Any younger could misconstrued as some kind of sexual abuse.

This has been a concern of mine as well.

I personally would like to teach him about jelqing some how, but I would want to do it in a way that would not put any ideas in his head about him being too small or inadequate. It would have to be in the sense of it is healthy for the penis.

I certainly would not show him by me doing it in front of him or watch him do it, that just seems to weird.

Furthermore, my wife tolerates me PE endeavors, she would not tolerate me teaching him.

He is just starting puberty and it would be the perfect time.

I do feel it would help in his development of a healthy penis, I wish someone had instructed me or gave me some tips.

No one said anything about criticizing their kids endowments. I think my mistake was to group PE with cosmetic procedures. Adolescents with insecurities about acne, breasts, their nose, weight etc. know that there is a way to “fix” those things. See a dermatologist, cosmetic surgeon, eat right and exercise. The knowledge is accessible and known to be reliable. Their knowing about these solutions to their insecurities would lead them to approach their parents for help. Natural PE is much more underground and ridiculed by the mass media and doctors. Plus the only method they accept is pretty risky. Your son approaching you about wanting a bigger dick would be like going into a car dealership and asking for one with a perpetual motion engine that flies.

The problem I see about the “wait til he approaches me” strategy is that, of the guys who are insecure about their size, I doubt many would openly express that insecurity. I didn’t. As stated before, they don’t believe there’s a solution. Maybe offering info could cause insecurities, but I think the risk is minimal. If a secure person finds Thunder’s, I don’t think he’ll become insecure just from the knowledge that PE works.

I would of let my son know about, it doesn’t neccesarily need to be about size, you can tell him to keep your penis healthy . Anyone on here with a small penis knows damn well most likely those genes will pass on to your son .Now a days , kids growing up much faster then before , sex starting at a younger age .I will let my son know about condoms and will mention PE to him . It’s no harm better to get the problem fix early own then later. Like better to put braces on your kids OK teeth at an early age, now they can be more confident through out their school days which more confiendence does mean more succesful in school most times .

Anyways I didn’t have a close parent to get advice from , and it sucks, I starterd having insecurities ever since I was 13 , when I started dating . I didn’t have sex till 17 because my size kept me from showing my dick just any girl, especially how harsh school can be if word spread around. What better source Then the proven method of your father. I’m 20 at the moment and I have a half brother who’s 4 now. Once he hits 13 I will start talking to him about sex and PE especially in the times were are living in now .

If I would of added an inch back when I was 14 , I would of banged alot of hot girls and girlsfriend I had during those time , unfortunatly guys with bigger and more confidence got to them before me.

I found this site when I was 14. I’m 19 now, and I just wanted to say that I would have FREAKED if my dad told me about this stuff