Your own technique to "get it up"

Precisely. Some guys find it difficult to get hard and stay sufficiently hard for good jelqing. Maybe I’m just impatient as a newbie. Maybe it just takes time to “program in a Jelq response,” but can you remember doing anything in particular to cultivate that “Jelq response?”

Thanks for taking time to respond, iamaru.

Well, I’ve used most of the methods mentioned. I will say that, in a sex-specific scenario……if I’m having problems getting erect, I can usally kegel & clamp with my hand on the base, and get enough blood in so that it’s stiff enough to insert into the orifice. I’ll maintain the grip until the stimulation takes over and I get a full blown erection.

I believe the highly technical term for this kind of erection is a “stuffy.” :) Yep, it can do the trick. Now the question is how to do that in jelqing situations.

I can get a good stiff one using the head massage technique. Massage the head until a little blood flows in, make an ok grip just under the glans and massage in a small up and down motion. Can be done dry or wet, helps me keep a good erection in between jelqing sets.

Nothing that translates well to others I am afraid. I have some degree of conscious control over my parasympathetic nervous system, (temperature, heart rate/circulation, etc.) I just kept jelqing and mentally “pushed” for the feelings and responses that I associated with having a “heavy but not hard” penis.

Most guys have difficulty not getting wood when they start jelqing. When they post and ask they get plenty of responses. I try and always make a point of replying to anything even vaguely related to problems at the other extreme as often few reply to that.

If your PEing situation permits many guys view porn while jelqing to maintain a given level of erection. Sorry I can’t be of more help.

Heh, just the fact that you respond is an encouragement—at least to this newbie!
I know your method may not “translate well,” but do you practise yoga or biofeedback or something? I’ve tried biofeedback for a couple different things {stomach acid; neck cramps}, so I have a vague idea of what you’re talking about. Even though you feel you can’t fully articulate how you do it, I’m very interested in whatever you can explain re: developing some control over parasympathetic nerves. Hernia repair has left me with an entrapped ilioinguinal nerve, with accompanying pain and numbness in the pubic area. (wah wah wah) So while ideas to physically stimulate a chubby are helpful, the idea of integrating some control over parasympathetic nerves hits “close to home” shall we say. :)

You’ve made responses to “problems at the other extreme.” Sometimes I have to deal with that as well (especially if I’ve been edging during a PE session). So I’ll do a search on comments you’ve posted elsewhere.

Think of some nice girl with nice feet and that will always do the trick! :)

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I was just reading some of your other posts (at the “metrosexual mini forum”), thought I’d check out your signature “female foot fetish,” and then noticed you’d posted to this thread!
While I don’t use porn, I do fantasize about my wife—whether present or absent. She has many nice features (spiritual as well as physical), and her feet are one of them. Her toes are really cute, so when she wanted a nice toe ring, I bought her two solid gold ones. Can’t say that her toes give me a hardon, but then there are other features…. :)

Again, though, there are times when no amount of mental/visual stimulation helps. Hence the question of physical tricks for getting a good chubby for jelqing.

Back to you, supersexit… I mean supersizeit.

Josh,

Thanks for sharing that about your wife. My GF has cute feet too but I still fantasize about other women’s feet and she knows it. She has seen the whole stash of female feet that I have on my computer. She does not feel in any way threatened by it however when we are in the company of other women in their bare feet or sandals… I do my best not to gawk or stare at their feet out of total respect for my GF but she has caught me stealing a quick glance every now and then. :mwink:

And female feet give you a hardon? Whew! Guess you weren’t kidding. You seriously do have a foot fetish! Whatever rocks your sox. Or whatever sox your rocks? Foots your rocks? Fits your rocks? ANYWAY, it’s got to be less threatening to your GF than having a fetish for other things…

Yep! ;)

Totally! :buttrock: Have you not seen my "Female Feet" thread?
Female Feet
There you will be introduced to just about all the hardcore "foot fetish" brothers.
If you care to look through its pages…you will even find the one hell of a sexy pair of delicious feet 7:^) that belong to one of our own gracious and lovely female Mods… Sunshinekid.

Since I see this topic has recently come up again, here’s a couple things I’ve discovered after starting to include edging in my PE routine:

(1) When stroking/tugging to get an initial hard-on, it seems to help if the shaft is being pulled in the direction it normally takes when completely erect. I.e., if your complete erection ends up pointing out at 90 degrees from your body, then stroke/tug it at that angle. If it points upward at a 45 degree angle (like 10 or 11 o’clock in LOT terms), then stroke/tug at that angle. I don’t know why, but that seems to work for me. Maybe because that’s the optimal angle for the veins in the CC to become congested.

(2) Try pulling down on your ball sack while playing with willy. I’ve never tried a ball-stretcher (or a ring around the balls) but I wonder if that’s one reason for using them. For some reason, pulling down, especially on the front of the scrotum, seems to make any shaft play more intense and arousing.

A [physical] turn-on technique which works on me, once somewhat aroused, is if I firmly press my hand flat against my lower abdomen, just above the willy.

Often makes me wonder whether -as a mere male - I have something vaguely Gspot-like within?…

I sometimes have the same reaction, whether it’s my hand or my wife’s that’s doing the pressing. Must be a nerve complex there or something. Or it increases pressure on other internal erogeonous zones. Hmmm. Thanks for the reminder!

I call it “The Helicopter”. It sounds cool :D