Your own technique to "get it up"

:rolling: Good ole, RWG!

Josh, you won’t get this. It is a running joke with a lot of history “behind” it.

Have you taken flight yet? :)

Aw, come on, xl… let me in on the joke (other than the “behind” pun, which I like). Was there a thread on this?

To summarize, our friend RWG is a butt-man (like myself), and loves to stick the tree trunk he calls a penis (almost 8” girth at the base :eek: ) into the Hershey Highway. There are a lot of threads that refer to his fetish, just do a search on posts he has made with the word “anal” in them. :D

- When the penis is 50% erect, give it an hit on the upperside of the dick. So you will hear “pets”. If you are hearing that you are doing it right.

- Begin to stimulate you penis slowly with patience. Not focussing on getting an erection fast.

- Use handlotion.

- You have already seen the ballooning thread. I am convinced that it works. I did it also myself and mastered
a few things of it and had some special sensations.

- Read more into tantric sex, maybe even practicing it. It can you the way you experience sex.

- Become a pro kegallar by using a wet towel and then kegal.

- Dry jelqing from base up.

- Fluid Ginko Biloba will give you a better bloodflow. (Also good for keeping a good memory for middle aged men)

- Don’t forget to drink 2/3 liters water a day.

- If there is any weight to get rid of, loose it.

(if you add the things that may sound not important up you will get an edge also)

Last but most important.

- Learn to relax for the full 100%. Some kind of meditation kan help. Tai-Chi/Chineng Qigong. After my meditation session in the morning I usually get a nocturnal erection.

Thanks for the input, Anon. Hopefully others can benefit from it, too.
In the intervening months since I first posted this thread, I’ve noticed that some of what you suggest does indeed help… like taking enough time. It’s difficult to not want the “instant hard-on” I had when I was a teenager, but heh—that’s the reality of life. I have a few clarifying questions, though…

If I can get it to 50%, I can usually get it up to 80-100%. I’m more concerned about the times when I can’t get it much past 5% erect. But maybe this can help, then, too. However, what do you mean “pets?” Is this a Dutch expression? I’m confused, and I don’t think putting the word “pets” into an on-line translator will help! Do you mean kind of slapping the dick like when a nurse is looking for a vein to draw blood? Sometimes they’ll lightly slap inside the elbow (or wherever they are going to stick the needle) to make the veins pop out a little more.

Hmmmm. I know how to kegel, but how does one use a wet towel to become a “pro?”

I’m unfamiliar with Tai-Chi/Chineng Qigong. Is this part of tantric sex technique.
You say you get a nocturnal erection after you morning meditation session. Do you mean you get a spontaneous erection in the morning while you are awake, or that several hours later (that night) you are more likely to get a spontaneous erection while you sleep?

Answer at your own convenience. Thanks again!

The wet towel is draped over the erection, providing weight resistance which you kegel against.

I don’t use a wet towel I use a heat pad that weighs a pound or so. Just enough weight to make it an effort as you kegel.

Done regularly it helps improve erection quality.

Towards the end of my jelqing routine I usually end up stroking the underside of my cock with my free hand.

Pumping first helps “get it up” more than anything.

I kegel and that starts the erection going. If I hold it long enough once hard I can orgasm without ever touching my dick. Kind of fun sometimes

If it’s for sex, and I can’t seem to get a full erection, I have my wife rub her pussy on my face. Works every time for me.

This is a great method for getting it up!

You’re kidd’n! Without anything touching your dick AT ALL? I’m very curious what else is going on… I.e., is this after you haven’t had an orgasm for a while, are you fantasizing at the time, is there full ejaculation or can you do this multiple times, etc.? Do you do some manual edging first?

Think about my wife sucking my dick for starters

Is someone else touch it?

No one else touches it, I use this in place of masturbation sometimes.

I could do this daily but its not as fun because there is no physical stimulation from hands, other people, etc. I usually am watching porn when I do it but othertimes I just fantasize and I can get off with a kegel. I have done it a max of twice before I want to actually jack off. Using this technique I can also “dry” orgasm and have multiple orgasms.