Your Sharing PE Philosophy?

Anybody here have any conditions that must be met before they share their PE knowledge with others? I know many tell it freely (I’d still like to hear from you though), but for those who get an inside track and like the position of being ahead of the pack… what would get you to talk? For whatever reason I think voluntarily telling folks how to make their willy bigger would be counter productive to my efforts. It scares the daylights out of me actually. You see, I’m the paranoid type.

I could easily envision a near future where some bloke stumbles across the PE holy grail, blurts it out in some relevant public outlet (and the fool manages not to get paid either) and just like that, overnight, the cats out of the bag! Pandora’s box opened! The matter of being hung and the level of hungness is rendered a mere choice of the individual. No long experimentation and/or altering of methods needed, just one ring to rule them all, holy grail. The clock will reset to zero with a world of men with bigger willies - and the undesirable, awkward, and mediocre will have to seek plastic surgery of the face, stomach and buttocks to assist in the physical advantage department .. or be rich. Pretty much, we’d come full circle and be right back at square one in the serial poon chasing game. Everybody’s hung, so generally, fellas hit with the ugly stick and the rest of the misfits just might have to take a permanent place at the back of the line.

Scary stuff. I shuddered as I was typing it.

Given the above however, I think I would have a few conditions I’d find acceptable to share PE knowledge I acquired with others.

- I am paid very good money.

- The guy(s) I’m sharing it with is a miserable sod because he feels he has a small penis and has been actively seeking out PE and pleads for my help. (I think I’ll always be a softy for the proactive as I practice the seek and ye shall find mindset).

- Is a close male family member (preferably first born son (keep the goods in the family)). When I’m reincarnated back in the family blood line, hopefully the family secret is still being passed down and I wouldn’t have to start all over again in more ways than one (shudder).

- I am paid very good money

- My future wife stumbles upon me in the bathroom or any other room I was in (where I forgot to lock the f’n door!) and sees some odd mechanical monstrosity attached to my penis.

I’ve recently shared my PE efforts with a few of my very close friends. This was only because each of them basically told me that they ‘wished’ they could be bigger. And having enlarged myself over the last 4 and some years, and considering myself ‘big’, I told them about Thunder’s. Funny thing is, that none of them have pursued any serious efforts into it. Even if every man on the planet knew about PE, the average size would go up very little if any. Everybody knows about bodybuilding but you don’t see many muscular “in shape” men walking around. It’s all about will-power and discipline, which most men do not possess enough to follow through with PE.

-L4L

Good post.

PE can be very involved, true, but I think it’s only a matter of time before the lazy sob’s PE (i.e. holy grail) shows up and is blurted out. The only deterrent right now is the years having to play with your dick (possibly) using multiple methods and experimenting to see significant gains to most newbs. If enlargement ever became effortless in comparison to the current climate and became public, even though it applies now, I think we can forget comparing it to the dedicated work of body building. The flood gates have a good chance at splitting under that condition.

This is why I am concerned about chemical PE. If it turns out that fantastic gains are possible with simply an injection a day, everyone will start sporting a huge one.

large4life I couldn’t have formulated it better myself.

I wouldn’t worry. PE requires dedication. Everyone knows what it takes to look good, yet people get fatter and fatter. The dedication is what prevents most from pursuing it.

I agree with UberGoober.

Rather than giving my method out I’d be more worried about successfully convincing the world that manual PE works.

If there is a ‘secret’ to gains, I don’t know it and I’ve gained two inches…all through hard work, sweat, tears and dogged pig-headed persistance. I think you could outline an entire routine and even give the equipment out for free and the average guy still wouldn’t gain a single millimeter, since if they knew how much it took to make good gains they just wouldn’t bother.

I recently wrote out the best advice I could possibly give anybody and posted it to the main forum, but if there was a magic formula, holy grail or ultimate secret to PE I’m not sure I would share it (if it were shared with me), simply due to what the sharing of that information would mean and the hostility that leaking it would provoke, but it’s a ‘moot point’, since there is no magic short-cut.

I have told a few people about PE. Most try it once and then drop it (or it seems; I don’t really stay discussing dicks with my friends)

I tell people freely because it sucks to not be in the know when you want to be. Thunder’s is a free site and there is no secret handshake or iniation to join - just your will to be here, learn, give information. I honestly think Thunder’s is the greatest thing to happen to penile health/enlargment.

I agree with everything stated above. Most guys wont stick with a routine. It’s like anything else you want to be good at/excel in. You need to put in the effort, discipline, and time. Your cock won’t grow by beating off to porn and lamenting your cock size nor will it grow just by reading ABOUT PE. You have to do it.

So, yeah, I tell people (alot when I am drunk hehe) no matter what they do with the info. If more people know, then more people will try. If there are more people trying, then there is more reliable info to go around.

It’s win-win

Having studied martial arts all over the world with several great masters, I have been asked by students what are the real secrets the old men hide from us. I give the students the same reply as my teachers have always given me; every one of them to a man. And it truly is the secret. The only one.

Year in and year out, work at your basics. Never quit. Strive to be the best you can. There are no shortcuts. If you follow this advice, people will eventually start asking what your secret is.

Incidentally if I magically discovered the ‘holy grail’ of PE which gave massive, instant results for all men, I’d type it up here on Thunder’s, free, for anyone who wanted it. I bet most people can’t remember the name of the English guy who gave the internet to the world, without asking a penny. But we are all glad he did. You guys are all my brothers (and sisters). If I can give it for free, you can have it for the same price.

Good, thoughtful topic - but just for fun, let’s redirect a second. What if I had the secret that would, with modest effort, give every woman on this planet a tighter pussy. Would I give that knowledge away free? Damn straight I would, at least to every man and gal on Thunder’s. When I think about all of the “relationship” threads and posts I have read and I contemplate that much of the genuine effort at growing a bigger dick is taken on by so many guys on this forum so they can please their significant others (and in doing so please themselves), then I would be selfish as hell to hold back that info. Besides, women have an equal stake in this endeavor to, just like their men, get educated and put in a little effort to make it (the sex and the relationship that spins around the sex issue) so much better.

What’s so paradoxical about this slant is that the information is available for a woman to easily meet the man half way (or more), and a few do. Damn few, in my opinion. So, why aren’t we (men) doing a better job of educating the women on this issue and selling CT (cunt tightening) to all of these gals.

Just a thought.

Cheers :)

MrTiPS

PS - Next time you and the lady are doing it and you want to stir things up a bit, just pick your spot (timing, timing, timing) and say, “Oh sweetheart, you feel (or felt) just fantastic, just like a velvet glove - you’ve really been practicing your Kegels,” or words to that effect. If she hasn’t, she will - if she doesn’t know what the hell a Kegel is she’ll go find out and then start doing them. If she stews and frets in ignorance, don’t say anything more about it unless she asks - then just say that Kegels are an exercise that you do yourself to make sex better for both of you. See if she takes the bait. Women want to hear that their equipment gives pleasure to their partner just like we guys like to hear those magic words, “(gasp) Oh My God . . . :) “

Hmm, I think Zaneblue has been doing her best to do just this for all our ‘velvet-gloved’ ladies.

Hi LWH,

Indeed Zaneblue has. One wonders about that message being picked up and taken forward by the guys to their ladies as I suspect that the guys that are reticent about disclosing their own PE activities might be equally reticent about suggesting that the women do tightening exercises with what should be a somewhat comparable objective in mind. I applaud the guys that have disclosed their PE activites to their SO’s and more power to those SO’s that are helping/participating.

In my own situation, I didn’t know what the hell a Kegel was until my wife mentioned it as something she was doing a few years ago. I researched it - and that’s how I found out about Thunder’s (gotta like the SE’s). It’s a funny, funny world :) .

Cheers,

MrTiPS

If chemical PE is for real, very few people will jump on board, in my opinion. There is a major shortcoming: you have to stab your cock with a needle! Daily.

Now, if they can do “Chemical PE” in pill form, then the floodgates will open.

No offense to anyone but I think that if someone found the holy grail and gave it away for free, that would truly show what kind of a heart they had. Someone who would keep it to themselves, full well knowing what they had discovered, would be a very insecure and selfish person, and even having that edge over everyone wouldn’t be able to fix the base of the problem (this is the also the argument about the nature of PE… ie if you can’t learn to love yourself the way you are, no matter how big you are you still won’t love yourself). It wouldn’t be an easy thing, to give away the holy grail for free, but what it comes down to is: are you the type of person who helps those who are less fortunate than you, or do you convince yourself that only you are “deserving” of it?

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I could easily envision a near future where some bloke stumbles across the PE holy grail, blurts it out in some relevant public outlet (and the fool manages not to get paid either) and just like that, overnight, the cats out of the bag! Pandora’s box opened!

This is an age-old argument that usually goes something like, “if everyone became a millionaire who would collect the garbage?”

The reality is once the World (in general) knows and accepts something as fact (and we are a loooong way from that place with PE), you still only find that a tiny percentage of the population will choose to do anything about it. In respect of PE, this can come from ‘I don’t care’, I’m too lazy, ‘it won’t work for me’, ‘I don’t believe it’ (despite the evidence) and there will still be a big percentage who still don’t, for whatever reason, hear about it.

But just for a moment can you imagine what it would be like if every guy was out there stretching, jelqing, hanging, pumping, clamping and EXTending? For a start dinner party conversations would never be the same. Men would be all rushing home from the pub at 9 PM so they have time to do their PE; women would be clucking over coffee comparing notes about how much bigger their men were becoming (and how some of them were now TOO big!) and you would even have reality shows like Big Brother where male contestants were selected purely based on the size of their willies (oh, I forgot, that is happening already).