trouble staying flacid

Hi everyone, I’m having trouble staying flacid and keeping myself from getting a semi before or while I put on my wench. Any suggestions. I’d rather not masturbate first if I could get around that.

I have the same problem and most of the time masturbating before hand doesn’t help much. I’ve had a lot of trouble with this and if I am not completely “noodle limp” when I attach the Bib, my dick looks like I stuck it in a meat grinder after only a 15 minute session. This along with privacy/time issues are the main things that are holding me back from fully utilizing the BIB. About the only time I am able to get this limp is when I am really intoxicated. I know this is not a healthy or safe solution. I am afraid the loss of judgement and sensation would eventually lead to an injury. My best solution is to do a really hard cardio workout, take a hot shower, and then do my hanging. Also throwing in a good set of resistance kegels under the hot water seems to help. This is the routine I am going to adopt.

Kojack 10,

I had the same problem last year and today it come back. So instead of getting pissed I have said to myself that Todays hanging effects will be tonight. I hope to be sorted then.

I think a contributing factor in my inability to stay flacid has been caused because I have for the last 16 years been what I consider a chronic masturbator. I think what happens is that when I go to wrap my dick automatically thinks it is time to get engorged with blood because it is getting touched.

I have tried and am trying to limit my masturbation because I think it will help me get over my dick getting excited just by touch and feeling of my wrapping and method of holding my unit while I am wrapping.

Unfortunately for me at the moment masturbation has become a habit. Just something that I do to make me feel normal again. I am pissed off that I have not the inner strength to resist masturbating, it seems so childish that I can’t kick this habit I got.

Anyway I tried masturbating before hanging last year also but it did not help the problem. Seemed to only wear me out and mentally piss me off because then I would not want to hang. after tossing off.

Sorry I can’t contribute any more than this.

GMJ

I have no idea if this would work or not, but how about just wrapping, and staying wrapped for a few hours a day to allow your unit to become used to the feeling?

Perhaps after a while, you will become used to this, and will not engorge when you begin wrapping.

Bigger

Bigger,

I shall give this a go. Its a good idea. But what makes it interesting for me is that for example yesterday when I tried to wrap and hang in the mid afternoon I could not control the engorgement however later that night I was able to wrap and hang perfectly. I think for me it is a combination of my body clock and my unit becoming used to the attention applied to it at while wrapping.

I reckon that frequent masturbation is the real problem though. And even though it is hard for me to keep it in check I will beat it.

GMJ

Thanks for sharing guys, and thanks for droping by with some help Bib. I only masturbate about once a week, but I believe my that the thoughts that go through my mind at the beggining of a PE session get in my way. Large things penetrating the vagina drive me wild. So, taking action to finally be able to “respect” my own penis size chubs me up a little.

My size issue has had a drastic effect on my sexlife. I have very seldom placed myself in any of my fantasies in the last seven years. Also, if I happened to appear in one of my fantasies, I was always a spectator of something larger penetrating the woman such as another woman’s fist, dildo, or a well endowed guy’s penis. I looking forward to feeling worthy enough to excite myself with thoughts of myself participating. Oh, and I did gain all the knowledge that a man migth need about female anatomy, intimacy, and romance. I did attact the most important and easily improvable things about myself. My body still stands in my way.

Bib, do you still have any hangers available at this time? I need to tackle this. I have been putting off purchasing one from you.

I know it it a big no-no for a good flacid hang, but you could try taking some sort of a stimulant, or drink a whole bunch of coke before you PE. This constricts the blood vessels and usually leaves the penis less engorged with blood.

Kojack,

I have some hangers available, but the website is down right now. You might check back tomorrow.

Bigger

The website is back online now.

I believe that I will attempt to get used to wearing the wrapping as you mentioned Bib. Thanks.