Hello skitola. Please ask yourself WHY you are so desperately seeking fast gains. Then ask yourself what you really want more;
a) a dick that is approximately the size already got, but gives more reliable performance during the entire intercourse session with your lovely gf;
— or —
b) a slightly bigger dick that doesn’t work very well for intercourse but looks more impressive to the guys at the gym.If you choose alternative b), just continue what you are doing but be more persistent. Follow the advice provided in this thread and throughout Thundersplace so you are not causing irreparable damage to your penis.
If you choose alternative a) you must be much more careful with your penis, more importantly your mind, and most importantly you need to understand the connection between the two. Stop thinking you are inadequate when making love with your gf, and/or stop being afraid that she thinks you are. Be confident that girls are perfectly happy with that size (or smaller/bigger for that matter) if used with love by her loved one.
It does not hurt of course to acquire some lover skills extravaganza over time, but the more you can let go of your images of “sexual performance”, being “rock hard” etc, the more you will find that the problems gradually disappear. Quit thinking about whether or not your dick is hard enough. Think about her instead, her lovely body, her soft fragrance, drown in her eyes, do what lovers do. You will have a much better experience and your body will catch on.
PE may not be good for you in that it focusses your mind on your dick, and makes you keep that focus even when you are getting intimate with your gf. PE means Penis Enhancement, for many people it also carries the implicit notion that it is not sufficiently good in its present condition - “why else does he try to make it bigger?”, the mind thinks. That kind of thinking hurts the lovemaking machinery, it literally haunts you into the bedroom if you don’t watch out. If you are able to see through this mechanism you can actively break it.
On the other hand. with the right mind-set PE can be helpful to enhance physical aspects of the penile functioning; to reinforce the hydraulic plumbing, to fine-tune the programming of autonomous sensor systems, etc. Exercises like kegels can be very effective for erection quality and endurance, very low risk of injury if any. Careful jelqing can also be helpful if you avoid high erection levels and pressure against the dorsal nerve. Edging-ballooning helps maintaining a high yet controlled level of pleasure for longer, here the risks are higher but can be controlled with careful training practices.
All this can be very helpful and fun when making love but I think you really must understand how to control your mind to begin with, IMHO.
Best of luck!
Unicorn762! off course I choose a)
I don’t think that I’m inadequate when I fuck my girl. I really enjoy her superbody and everything.
My dick just loose erection without me thinking that it will.
I have always had this problem a little bit, but when I do PE it gets big. I mean the problem
gets really big.
But as you write, I really have one problem when I fuck. I need to be rockhard to be able to fuck.
When I look at porn there is a lot of guys that fucks with 90% erection or less. I don’t understand how
they can do that. If my dick not is 100% rockhard I don’t feel manly.
If I fuck my girl with a 80 to 90% erection she likes it, but when I fuck here with 100% rockhard erection
she goes absolutely wild. This does not help me so to speak.
I will cut down on my PE. I just don’t know how much to cut down yet and what exercises to do.
2005-07-01 - 7,5 x 5,5 Starting 2005-09-20 - 7,7 x 5,5 goal - 8,0 x 6,3
