Dear guys,
This is what I think is up about pumping and pe and stuff (about a 5 year pumper here and into hanging for about 2):
The first inch is easy
I think when you start pe for the first time, and say, have your normal 6” sized inch dick, and never did jelq before either (which is really just a strenuous form of masturbation), it is easy to get an extra 1”, no matter what form of pe you do.
I know I gained 1” from pumping alone and it took me about a year. PERMANENT GAIN, okay? (Both flaccid and erect.)
So, if you you start pe’ing with whatever — hanging, or jelq, or pumping — the first inch is gonna be easy. (Of course if you have an 8” or 10” to start with, then the first 2”, consequently, would be easy.)
So now i am 7” but to get another 1” is really hard and I’m having to combine a lot of different techniques and be really dedicated now. I really am beginning to wonder if I’m ever gonna be 8”. (I’m currently stalled at 7.25”.)
What I mean is you can’t expect to gain an inch from pumping and then gain another inch by hanging, as easily as the first inch you gained. Likewise, you can’t do jelq and gain an inch, and then think you’re gonna gain another inch through the miracle of pumping, right?
Okay, my second big idea: strenuous sex/masturbation = jelq
Also, I think that if your regular sex life (even just masturbating with yourself) is real strenuous over the years and you really pull and tug on your dick a lot (or your partner does), then you’re dick is gonna already by naturally enlarged, by what I would call “natural jelq,” or what you could also call “strenuous masturbation.”
You gotta figure that a lot of guys don’t really have a sex life that puts the same strenuous pressure on their dicks that serious, prolonged jelq does, i.e., one that tugs and pulls and naturally enlarges their penises. Probably most engage in gentle sex. I imagine most women like it this way too. But still a lot of guys probably do get really strenuous with their dicks, however, they just like it that way, and they’ve already enlarged their dick that 1”, before they even start their p.e. program.
(See, they’re the ones that are so disappointed by the p.e. process — i.e., their “first” inch is as difficult as my 2nd inch.)
One more idea that follows from my last observation
Another thing I think: guys that are “showers not growers” are these guys that have done this strenuous masturbation (“natural jelq”) over the years, and their large flaccid size is due to this strenuous manipulation of their dick. They’ve already gained their inch without any toys or gizmos or elaborate p.e. programs, right?
On the other hand, “growers not showers” are the kind of guy like me before I started doing p.e., who now show a larger flaccid size (yipeeee!) after our vigorous p.e. program, no matter what it is: jelq, pumping, hanging, etc.
In other words, most all guys would be growers not showers if they did not engage in p.e., either “natural p.e.” or p.e. involving toys, gizmos, or these elaborate jelq programs.
Just my two cents worth, mind you!
So, I’m really interested in this forum and these threads though, because I’m finding that elusive last inch to be really difficult, and I’ll need every last bit of ideas and advice from everybody, and since I love pumping, it’ll probably always be a part of my p.e. regimen.
And thanks you guys, for what I would definitely call $200 worth (at least!)
Bill (now in Boston)
P.S. I’ve noticed that a lot of time whatever post I make tends to kill a thread, maybe because of verbosity? I’m over that now, but if so, my apologies in advance. Just call me “thread poison.”