Possible to Lose Already Gained Size Or Just Poor EQ

Hi all

I wasn’t able to post this in the general penis enlargement forum, and it probably goes better there, so I’d be grateful if an admin could move it.

So like the title says, is it possible to lose gains, mainly erect length? I haven’t been PEing aggressively over the last several months, but still try to get at least a couple of pumping sessions every week and jelqing and stretching to my max in the shower every day.

I still look almost as big in the pump (not going to pump to as great a vacuum as I used to because it inevitably led to bleeding into the tube after a while).

The sex life with the wife hasn’t been great or very frequent and I just haven’t been as turned on. I’m on daily cialis for other reasons, so erections are always hard, but not necessarily vein busting. And they’ve subjectively shrunk from a peak over a year ago when even the wife was shocked at how much it had grown. But back then along with the regular PE I also was just coming out of an affair with someone who used to get me painfully rock hard several times a day, sometimes for hours. With the wife I’m never that turned on - and her goal is to get me to orgasm as fast as she can so she can get it over with.

Can’t measure my erection properly because I can never get properly hard with a ruler in hand, but if it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck… It’s just smaller. Stretched flaccid after a pumping session hasn’t come down, but takes a while to get there when I’m only manually stretching.

So I guess I’m asking if the tunica can shrink back even with maintenance workouts, or is it more likely that it’s just poor EQ keeping me from hitting my max size?

I think it is most likely EQ. Shrinkage is possible, but if you have been at a certain size for a few months, I don’t think it is likely. I have never experienced lost length, but I did once lose a quarter inch in girth. After maintaining a girth of five and a half for two weeks without pumping, I assumed it was permanent. But two weeks later was back to five and a quarter. It was exceptionally long lasting “temporary gains”. I got it right back though. It’s permanent now!

Thank you… It’s length I feel I’ve lost, but unlike your experience this has been over several months. I’m hesitant to pump regularly at the high pressures I used to because of injuries, so I’m wondering if it’s that or just the EQ (is it just me who finds this new automatic full form a little disconcerting?).

Pretty frustrating that I can’t ever get hard enough to objectively measure it so I know it’s not just in my head.

Hmm, yeah, and unfortunately, the more you let it cause you to worry, the more you get “measurement anxiety”, the tougher it will be to get a good, solid erect measurement. I say take a break, put it all out of your mind for a while. Anyone who has ever lost some size has gained it back quickly, and usually gotten a bit more as well. So, don’t worry about it. Rome wasn’t built in a day.

Yeah, definitely seems EQ related. Particularly if you’re a grower, EQ is a big factor on how large your unit can potentially become.

Totally a grower! Thanks for the inputs.

Thanks Raybbaby. That’s going to be hard but I’ll try.