Do improvements really start this fast?
I’m 43 and have been interested in PE my whole adult life. I had a flirtation with jelqing a few years ago, but I struggled with technique and wasn’t that dedicated.
I’ve been having problems with erection quality lately, no doubt related to the fact I am in about the worst shape of my life
So I decided to give it another shot, to pay close attention to form and do 2 on 1 off for a while and see how it feels. All I am doing so far is 10 minutes of jelqs and some stretching. I’m not counting reps, just focusing on the quality of them and stopping when my time is up.
At the end of the second day I decided to masturbate. It felt a bit big in my hands, which I expected, but extremely hard and vascular, which I did not expect. My veins almost felt like cables under the skin.
At the end of the third day I decided to see if I’d made enough of an improvement to make a difference in bed. I’ve been highly unsatisfied with my performance lately. I don’t last long. Sometimes I have trouble penetrating my wife. In fact, during a recent session she pushed me out (she kegels) and I could not get back in.
I climbed on top of her and instead guiding it in with my hands I just pushed my hips toward hers and I slid in without any trouble. I was met with a sensation I did not expect. I was deep inside stroking her cervix. I had forgotten that I used to get up in her cervix on the regular. That was years ago when I was in much better shape. Evidently she remembered it too because she started telling me how awesome my dick felt. She came and then I pushed her legs further apart and myself deeper inside. I went past her cervix, truly deep inside her for the first time since I don’t know when. My intent was just to get myself off at this point, but she was so turned on by my performance she wanted to come again. I had no trouble lasting until her second orgasm, which probably shocked me more than it did her.
Is this a placebo effect? I used to be that guy that played the long game until my partner came as many times as she wanted, but that was when I was in my twenties.
Can Jelqing really help this fast? Is the difference this time that I was intentional in my application? Did it help me last longer? I have not lasted that long that easily in years. I’m sure the size difference is negligible, but the difference in erection quality is huge after just two sessions.
