I’m new to PE. It was a cascading journey that began with a c-ring about five months ago. I began jelqing in November and pumping this month (December).
I received an automatic pump as a free gift with a P-Shot treatment. I came home and as instructed set out for my first 10 minute session. Things that I know now.
1. You are not aiming for a size. I thought that I needed to pump and pump, continuously adding pressure until I reached some arbitrary “max” size. No. You are aiming for a feeling whether you have a gauge or not because 10hg can feel different to different people. As you can imagine, I injured myself within that first week. Funny thing, I had read stories about guys ejaculating in the pump, and even my doctor said, “it’ll be like getting a blowjob”. When I finished (I hit the 10 minute mark), I was in pain and my member was pretty discolored, and I can remember thinking “this does not feel like a blowjob”.
2. Get to know your pump. Take it easy. If you, like me, did not get instruction on how to pump, then your first session should just be getting familiar with the entire exercise. Learning where to place the tube for best suction, how to hold the tube and pump comfortably, how to quickly access the pressure release and other controls to manage pressure.
3. Warm-up. I use a bath cloth to apply heat for 5 minutes before and after a pump session. I also give it a few dry jelqs to move blood around. It seems that this helps with elasticity.
4. Take your time. This is a long-term task. Incorporate it into your routine. I focus solely on how it feels during sessions. I like to keep an alternating tug, like a blowjob.
5. Don’t cut off circulation completely. A comfort pad that slipped over the open end of the tube was provided with my pump. When using it, and as I “grew”, I felt increasing amounts of discomfort but thought that it was supposed to feel that way. Seeing the discoloration on my foreskin, I stopped pumping and pulled back. I realized that the hole in the pad was too small and it was cutting off circulation. It took me a week to realize that no, pumping simply should not hurt.
At the end of week two now, I am healing and having much better pumping sessions. In fact my pumped girth is larger than what I had been getting. Hopefully over time I will cement those gains.