New here. Been self-conscious all my life - you’ll see why. Am 40+ years. Married.
Have been reading (as a lurker) over the last few months, then one of the moderators allowed me in (thanks!).
I’m still not sure how I can manage doing any of the exercises discreetly. I am 100% working from home, so that’s a good thing, but doing things like a warm press discreetly seems impossible for me. I work in a separate bedroom (with a attached bathroom) and am generally by myself during working hours. But arranging for hot water while I’m working seems fishy.
Therefore I wanted to try out some products that might work better for my situation.
I am in an "underdeveloped" country, so purchasing some standardized items is very hard here as compared to the Western world.
I did buy a cheap traction device which looks like this: https://www.ama … /dp/B0BPCBZG5Z/
But it is indiscreet. I can wear it during the day, but I have to sit in a slightly crouched position, which isn’t good for my back. I also hate that my penis head is uncovered and the urethra opening starts scraping against the inner underwear. Sigh.
I’m really looking for something discreet that I can place on and take off when needed - whether traction or a hanging device or something else altogether. If I order things from abroad, the national government customs officials might open and inspect the package and I might need to explain what the product is and what its for. That would be embarrassing. If it’s a something for some general purpose use, then I can still order it.
If I’m doing the traction technique, I also have questions on "when" I should be doing it. Should I masturbate in the morning (which I prefer), get that out of the system, and then after a "few hours" put on the traction device? This would prevent in-between erections.
I tried putting on the traction device in the night and ended up waking up in the middle of the night with a boner and pain as the erect penis was struggling against the rubber pipe of the traction device.
4.1: BPFL
2.1: NBPFL
5.7: BPEL
4: NBPEL
Yeah, that.
Also, I'm overweight with a BMI of ~30. I've recently started doing intermittent fasting and that's having very slow but very consistent results, so at least that is going good and I should lose a decent amount of weight in next 7-10 months.