Tomorrow Is 4 Year Anniversary Of PE Start. The Good, The Disappointing

Perhaps that’s true, but it isn’t like I can do anything about it, other than just not pump at all. I just rolled with it and saw where it took me. Everybody is different though, so your mileage may vary. If you don’t get good results doing what I do, I’d rather you find a better technique. It’d make me sad to see you get farther instead of closer to your goals.

Let’s just say I’m proud that this is my motherland, but I’m really dissappointed with the political unit representing it. Until I’m in position where I can actually do something to make my country a better place, I’d rather not exist as a Bulgarian if that makes sense.

Well, this is my third marriage. I’m 53. I’ve definitely picked the right one this time.

But one thing that always reigns true, in my experience, is once you’re married for awhile, the amount of sex decreases.

You are correct though, if neither one of us had to work, it would probably be every other day on average.

Believe me, I’m from U.S., our current government is a mother fucking DISGRACE!!

I’m ashamed to be an American right now. Fucking pathetic….

I think that really depends on what you’re after, and how you’re trying to get it.

My length tube I just fit fully erect, so there isn’t much girth-like expansion. In what I consider a reasonable amount of time for myself, I don’t donut. If I stay in for a good long while, my foreskin area/circ scar will start to try and pass my glans, producing a donut.

In my bigger tubes, with 1/8” and 1/4+” space around my shaft, the donut starts within a few minutes. I’m rarely in those tubes, for just that reason. Also, I rarely do girth work. You might try sleeving the problem area if your tube is big enough to allow it.

Other things:
I’m 37, on my second marriage, married for 12 years. Your sex frequency is about the same as mine. Once a week, sometimes twice a week. Vacations don’t really seem to make a difference for me though. I’d have her everyday, if she’d let me. Used to be that way. Her turn on’s have changed, and take a little more focus than just a simple ‘let’s go’ urge. In other words, I have to work harder for less result. Her needs are still the same, I just have to speak to them in a different language than I used to. It isn’t straightforward anymore. My libido is way higher than hers, and she knows it. There’s no real answer for it.

In my experience though, the real zesty ones that want it as often as we do, end up finding it, with or without us. So, I’m not complaining. I’m happy learning from each other and growing as a couple through the things that make us different. Those were the basis for initial attractions, and sadly those differences we used to love them for can become why we dislike them sometimes. Keep an open mind and listen to her. Seek understanding, before seeking to be understood.

No, a smaller tube won’t eliminate them, unfortunately. It can make them easier to avoid.

I don’t know much about the US politics but Biden or as they call him ‘Dementia Joe’ is a much worse pick than uncle Trump. I don’t know why they hate him so much, but I don’t think uncle Trump would have allowed things to get that bad if he was in charge.

I guarantee he wouldn’t.

Thanks for the insight, did you have more intercourse before getting married and how long did it take to decline to once a week ?
Do you have kids btw ? I’ve heard having kids can damage a sex life.
I’ve always wondered if it isn’t better not to get married.
So your woman doesn’t have the feeling that she’s completely secured you and always tries to earn your love.

Look at the stats: married heterosexual couples have the highest levels of sex.

Also, having kids has maybe slowed our sex, but I think it’s made it better! Going from quantity to quality. 3-4/wk to now 1-2/wk. Once this baby is sleeping through the night and off the tit, well equalize back up 2-3/wk.

I’d like to correct myself. I brought a blast from the past - edging with a cockring on on my rest day and I got edema this time. The ring (or rings) have to be tight enough though to have edema building up. I still don’t worry though. I had a “thick” feeling to my cock the whole day through, so it’s all good in my book.