Cold Glans, Numb Dick injury

Injured it 2 days ago. Yeh has shrunk alot when flaccid. Morning wood is only 40% and disappears in seconds

Please keep us updated on your progress. Just rest for the next few days.

No improvement at all. Scans show no bruising. Urologist says he can not help and referred me to another urologist

1 year and 4 months after the injury:

A lot has changed, and by now I’ve had time enough to discover that it is something that can never heal. Sensation is ok, as I already said in the past, I don’t have a clue of how it used to feel before, but it feels ok enough to me. The coldness is still there, it happens after ejaculating and when I’m very flaccid, but in some occasions it just doesn’t happen, well, I’m not complaining.

I’ve abandoned all kind of PE, that includes the Angion Method, that I’ve mentioned in other posts. Today I’m just working out and living with what I have.

Have you been masturbating? Do you find your symptoms get worse after sex or masturbation? Have you tried not touching your dick for months at a time? Do you have erectile dysfunction? Is your flaccid smaller and limp?

What do you mean by never healing? What is your main symptom that you are worried about? Coldness when flaccid? It could be a lot worse. It has been 10 months since my injury and sensation is pretty close to normal but I think the structure of my dick has permanently changed. Its shape is different when flaccid and it is much more difficult to get and maintain a good erection. It constantly goes soft during sex but this is probably mostly psychological and a little bit physiological at this point. Even cialis does not keep me hard during sex, that’s how fucked up I am. Not sure if the injury caused a venous leak because it is position dependent. Anyway, my gf is miserable and so am I. This has destroyed my life.

Oberyn did you try resting and not having sex or masturbating? That’s what I’m trying to do now. Everytime I have sex it feels like my penis becomes worse the next day. Like the flaccid becomes smaller. I don’t have numbness problems anymore but sometimes I have cold glans, and it’s hard for me to get a full, strong erection. Even if I get one it disappears quickly.

Yeah, I did. The symptoms I have right now are very weird. When I am alone and masturbating, it feels pretty much normal. EQ while standing etc is not as good and it is more difficult to maintain a powerful erection that does not bend like before the injury. The feeling no longer gets worse from masturbation, it has been stable like that for many months now. Orgasm feels normal.

However, when I am with my gf, it immediately starts to feel worse. I feel more of a burning sensation down there and it is even more difficult to maintain an erection (still much easier when not having sex yet). The pleasure sensation is reduced again. Even when I masturbate next to my gf, the feeling is a lot worse and it takes so long to come. When I finally come, it does not feel nearly as pleasurable as it should. It is as if my dick is simulating the actual nerve damage I used to have. My brain might be subconsciously tensing up some muscles or something as it associates sex with pain and negativity now. When I am alone again, my dick recovers to the pretty much ok but reduced EQ reliability state again within a day or two. I am aware that a lot of this must be psychological at this point but I have no way of controlling it. I have the same symptoms even when I think I am completely relaxed but with my gf. It almost feels like a cruel joke by a supernatural entity but it must be my mind that is now responsible for making it so much worse.

Oberyn nblade and dzani how are you all going now a month later?

How long do you go without ejaculating?

Do you still wake up with an erection from needing to piss?

The nerves in my urine track have changed and instead of my body allowing the urine to fill my dick, the urine is pinched off further up the track and I now no longer get a piss fat. It has lead to some sore bladder and kidneys a couple of times.

Anyone else with a dick injury experienced this?

I abstained from sex or masturbation for 3 weeks, then had sex on Friday. I only lasted like 1 minute. The few times I have sex, I last only 1-2 minutes now, so I have premature ejaculation. This could be from me not masturbating everyday anymore though. I still have erectile dysfunction and cold glans sometimes. I get morning wood, but it’s hard for me to get a rock hard erection during the day. I think I just need to rest for a few months, no masturbation or sex to let it heal.

Hey everyone, are you all still there? Hope to get some responses. I’m still injured. If you remember, I got injured 1 year ago by jelqing with a full erection. I had numbness and loss of sensation in the first month after the injury, but that healed. What hasn’t healed is, I still have erectile dysfunction, and it’s hard for me to kegal my flaccid dick or move it up and down sometimes. Sometimes I also have cold glans, which means not enough blood is getting there probably. I think what happened when jelqing erect was, I forced a lot of blood from the base to the tip of my penis, and that burst a nerve or vein or something. There was no pain at all for the injury. I don’t know what to do. Also, after the injury I have premature ejaculation. I finish in a minute or less. Before, I was able to have sex for 20-30 minutes. So I think this could be nerve damage or something causing me to finish quickly. I’m fucked up.

I haven’t masturbated since 9/15/2019. So I’m trying to abstain, hoping that it will heal me. I’m super sad and depressed. Every single day I think about killing myself. Sigh.

Hey, I had a drastic improvement a week ago (16 months after injury). I am suddenly able to feel the skin of my dick and balls more properly again. I could not hold an erection if my life depended on it just 2 weeks ago and now it gets and stays hard within seconds of sexual thought.
Other problems have suddenly corrected themselves as well, my dick maintains its more firm flaccid state and it is warmer. The tip is a darker shade of pink again. It was as if my dick had given up on repairing itself fully because I saw no progress for 8 months and then there was a sudden leap forward in progress.
Some kind of neural connection got restored. Apparently there is still hope left for us even long after our injuries! I was super depressed and suicidal like you… I hope you’ll recover!

I also truly hope this progress remains, my dick is close to normal now.

I really don’t want to be a buzz kill but I lost most progress again after being almost healed 16 months after injury. One morning of sex took it all away again. Sigh… At least I got to enjoy being normal for one week. I assume my pelvic floor clenched too much again, killing my nerves yet again. I hope you guys will fare better.

Please keep us updated. Wishing you the best.

Hey guys, any news? Hope you are healing well.