Erectile Dysfunction/Penis Not Sensitive

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Erectile dysfunction is a very serious issue. Many men suffer from this, but due to technology and information becoming more available, there are possible solutions. Viagra is storming the market and many people are more open to using it now. Naturally, this topic has been discussed on the forums many times. What are your experiences?

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No ED, but since PE’ing I notice that it takes me a lot longer to ejaculate. If my wife’s not in the mood, she can get impatient with me taking too long. I think it started at the same time I started jelqing and I notice I have less sensitivity. I have normal wood but long time to release. I’m a little worried about losing more sensitivity as a side effect of PE. Could be a function of my age — I’m 51. Seems weird and a little sudden. I take tongkat ali for testosterone boost, as well as some amino acids and vitamins.

Anyone else notice this?

Yes it is a definate side effect of PE for some people. I have suffered with it also, but I like it, Ive never been a fast finisher anyway, and this has just complicated matters more. But I honestly have no problem with not cumming even after hours of sex. Once you convince your wife that its not her, there should be no problems. Although thats easier said than done.

Advice has often been: Cut down / Stop masturbation, and some people have recommended the “Fleshlight” products. Although I’m not sure how this would help.

Cheers

trainr,

I remember when I thought that taking a long time to finish was a bad thing. This is of course until I started finishing moments after starting. Now I’m greatful that I can give a woman a long and wonderful workout. There’s a lot that can be said about stamina!

Of course, taking to long can be a problem as well. Sometimes the woman worries that she is not turning you on (I’ve had this getting blowjobs, as I could never ejaculate from a blowjob) or from sex that exausts you before you come. Also, if you’re having regular sex, taking forever can actually be negative because of the anticipation of such a long event.

Any solutions?

Ginko biloba makes dick more sensitive

Hollywood29 are you sure that Ginko Biloba makes the dick more sensitive and what do you base that upon? I am only asking out of interest because I need to make this unit more sensitive for some or other reason and as mentioned else my unit has not been as sensitive as it should for a long as I can remember and it is a problem. I am going to do some research with regard to this flesh-light because I remember someone once did give me advice relating to that and explain their reasoning for it and I will return and post my finding here. However if anyone has made any progress in this area please let me know because this is a bloody nightmare where as I can not blame my problem on PE I think it lies deeper than that.

Yes I’m sure

I want to bring this thread alive again. I noticed the same has happened to me. My gf was really frustrated with me when I wasn’t able to come in some hours (her frustration probably made things psychologically more difficult for me to come). It took 5 hours before I was able to. And I was limb quite some times in between. This is a major problem for me because after 5 hours, my balls really hurt from wanting to come, but not being able to. I’m thinking about quiting/easing on the jelqing.but please, someone convince me otherwise.

I’m not sure I can help there. If all this is actually causing your sex partner to become unhappy then perhaps it’s time to cease. It’d be one thing if there were a temporary issue as a result of your efforts, but if this is an ongoing problem I’d certainly stop. All crazy ego crap aside, several hours of non-stop stimulation for an orgasm isn’t doing either of you any good.

Imagine if it took five hours to get your woman to orgasm? Don’t tell me you wouldn’t be frustrated. Now, a woman who could orgasm for five hours, that’s a whole different thing :D !

Wait a second. Are you sure there was no drug/alcohol factor?

Delayed ejaculation is not easy to treat because the causes (certain drugs/medications, psychological, and organic) take some detective work. If this was a one-time event for you, don’t worry about it. If this happens frequently, you should get checked out by a good urologist.

There was no drug/alcohol. I was really happy with this site and my little gains the past month too. But ill give it another go to see if it was just a one time thing. We barely had a penetrative intercourse because I went limb after a few minutes. Most of it was foreplay/hands/oral. If next time is no different, I’m going to have to call it quits.

I have experienced the same sort of effect and It is sometimes embarrassing because you take so long to ejaculate but also you experience that ED effect as well. I found if you stop for a little while the results of it aren’t permanent but I also haven’t been doing this very long so maybe a more.

I found the same results held true when I was having sex multiple times a day in combination with masturbation lol. So as you can see it is overkill. But going a week or two without sex should bring back most feeling.

Avocet, has made a wise comment there and you know folk there are some of us with that problem too. I am so darn pissed off for the past two days I have had sex and like normal have not been able to finish off, its driving me bloody mad it really is. However I must admit something that this year thanks to Avocet8’s and Zaneblue’s wisdom I have been able to come through ” normal” manual stimulation, so although its taking a while progress has been made and I guess in this period of my life that is my challenge and I will make break through some time and will be able to write and give many men some advice who are similar situations. Thank you to Avocet 8 who has been instrumental to my understanding my condition Retarded Ejaculation, I have come once during sex and that was some time last year. I am busy reading through some literature and trying alternative method which may work but we will see folk and in due time I will start a thread dealing with this aspect. Challenges are here to stimulate growth.

Maybe its because of the constant handling of the penis.

Might be similar to masturbating all week and then your girlfriend comes over and you have a hard time finishing.

The sensitivity of the hand is different than the vagina. The hand is courser than the walls of the vagina, as well as
knowing just how to handle it with the hand over years of mstbting.

So with all of the jelging and pumping and hanging and mstrtbting the penis is used to a certain friction which the vagina doesn’t offer.

I have noticed sometimes if I cant get off through intercourse(I have been known to take sometimes a half an hour even before PEing)
and sometimes I cant with a condom on, I put it between the boobs and in about 3 minutes Im done. Thats because I am applying
manual pressure.

So I would bet money on if someone were to not do anything including mastrbting for lets just say a month, the fireworks would set off
real fast. So then maybe its just letting the penis rest for awhile to re-sensitize it. And using baby oil or some other cream.

The other theory could be that by growing the penis the nerves and blood vessels are stretched as well. So now maybe there aren’t
enough of them for the size or they have not fully caught up yet.

For me, the intensity and sensitivity are the same or better since PEing. But I will be watching for this and may be a reason I stop at some point.