Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

casperjones: stop being disrespectful of the people in here.

No shit psychological worrying can cause physical problems like not obtaining an erection, but when the hell has psychological issues caused a penis to turn numb, shrivel up and become firm when flaccid out of nowhere?
Do you people seriously think that everyone on here with firm flaccid just woke up one day with a thought in their heads “hmm what if my penis is firm while flaccid?” and then it became that way?

Most people on here who report firm flaccid didn’t even know it existed until they reported about it and then others said they have it too…

I understand that it’s important to point out that some people might just be scaring themselves, but why is the focus on that matter?
If thats the case it’ll resolve itself pretty soon…
But for the most of us this is real, and it doesn’t resolve it self and coming on here to find responses like “Make your own thread, don’t help this guy out” etc. is very very disrespectful.

The last thing a suicidal person wants to hear is that “Its all in your head”, it’s kind of like the confirmation “Ok, noone will ever be able to understand, believe or help me, I give up”.

I never said its in your head or anything like that. Read what I said, I carefully considered my words, I did notice that you have your own thread and you got help and support, I suggest you continue that thread if you genuinely want help and support. The ‘in my head’ part was only to illustrate my personal experience of doing this stuff since before my joining date. Quite a long time. The point I’m making is that if all the people with ‘the same problem’ (which of course it isn’t) chime in, this only helps build hysteria and doesn’t help you because your problems are no doubt very different. Not only that, but also how you CAUSED your problems are different and this could help others to not make the same mistake.

To know what is going on with someone we need ALL the details not other people chiming in with their different problems. If however, you are trying to help, then speak up about that but if you are just saying ‘Me too, me too, this stuff is as dangerous as hell, stop now’ then you aren’t helping anyone in this thread. The open nature of this forum would however probably allow you to make such a thread, but then you would really piss people off who ‘work’ here as it certainly wouldn’t be the case that you are seeking help.

Like I say, before this hysteria people got firm flaccids and they went away. Typical firm flaccid thread went like this: 1: ‘I have a firm flaccid’ 2:’Don’t worry mate it will be gone soon, try massage, hot water for a few days’ 1: ‘Okay gone now, thanks!’ Look back into the past of the forum to realise I’m right. Now it seems everyone jumps on the seriously injured bandwagon. If you wonder why the mods don’t seem too concerned with some thread it’s because they know this. For years and years and years and years a ‘firm flaccid’ simply wasn’t an issue.

However, is it possible someone got injured more than others? Yes it is. If that is your case, then I’m very sorry and genuinely hope you get better. You will also find people on this site very supportive and very knowledgeable especially if you provide all the details. Having medical problems often involves more than one thing. Helping you or helping the community won’t be achieved by scare-mongering however.

I have never been scare-mongering if you have read my replies, all I’ve done is try to help and get help as well as warn people.

That isn’t overhyping a situation, even if only 1 in 100 or less get hurt from this, it’s still a very serious matter.

Your dick isn’t your finger, it isn’t your leg, it’s the main reason for your existance…

Losing it will end in losing life, so you got to take it more serious than that, that’s all I’m saying…

If someone feels that it’s worth risking, then by all means do so.

I agree 100% with your caution but I disagree with your figures. Or to be more accurate, I neither agree nor disagree but I don’t accept their validity.

From yesterday:

And I’ve answered the third part three times and you know I have.

Anyway, you talk of “help”, Casper, but you’re the reason I will be taking a break from this thread. It’s bad enough having to live with the mental issues this problem has raised without someone like you constantly questioning my validity and showing not an ounce of sensitivity as you ask the same questions over and over whether they have already been answered or not.

You say you want to help but it’s quite obvious you and others are quite content to drive people with problems away.

And I particularly like the “I have no idea” quote. If you have “no idea” why the fu** are you demanding every last detail (and others that don’t exist yet) from me?

willy wonka,

In your mind is there any doubt whatsoever that your injury may not have been caused by the 20-30 mild jelqs? What I’m asking are 100% sure there was a cause and effect relationship between that one time mild jelqing and your injury?

A.) So others who know more than me can help B.) To understand the cause of what happened to potentially help others. C.) To make sure you are not a troll.

Follow up question, so it’s only been five days now that you have been taking the Cialis? Notice, the question said ‘still’, what about the anti-depressants?

I don’t want to come accross as ‘demanding’ every last detail but you seem not to care about some details that I think others might think are important. Anyway, enjoy your break, best of luck.

And I still hold to the belief that it’s better for others with similar problems to have or start their own threads. No problems are completely alike. You will be very surprised that if you adopt an open and honest attitude people will go way out of their way to help you. So rather than arguing or debating I suggest that if someone asks a question, particularly older members and mods that rather than complaining you give a quick and succinct answer, even if you may have to repeat yourself occasionally. End of the day you can write 5 sentences debating/defending etc. or half a sentence or even a few words giving a simple answer to a simple question.

WW, have you tried wearing a cock ring whilst the induced erection? Does it help?

No doubt whatsoever I’m afraid, Bohm.

The symptoms began as soon as I’d finished jelqing. It instantly felt numb and I remember feeling shocked at how much smaller it was when I looked in the mirror. It hasn’t looked the same since.

I didn’t see a urologist immediately because I was embarassed and felt “I didn’t do anything particularly rough with it, surely it will heal itself if I rest it.”

No.

Something to try maybe? I’m worried that may aggrivate the nerve issue though.

I think it can sheld some light on the question if the problem is vascular. I don’t think it can aggravate the nerve issue, just remember to wear the cock ring for no more than 10 minutes (there are no problems if it worn for 20 minutes normally, but in your case I would be over cautious).

Ask to your Doc if that’s ok if you have any doubts.

What light would it shed exactly?

If the cock ring helps, it means that the problem is in your penis being unable to hold blood.

May make a problem worse though…

If this was caused by jelqing, I’d be careful with the cock ring.

If this was caused by jelqing you should careful having erections, so resign to a flaccid penis. Is this where you want to go, Longing? I’m serious pondering what is your agenda.