Jelqing injury Can't get erection

If the situation gets noticeably worse at all tonight, I’m going to wake up my parents and tell them to take me to the emergency room. Truly sick and tired of this. Should I anyways? I really don’t want to wait all weekend to see a doctor.

They might tell you that there’s nothing they can do, or just advise you to leave it alone and take an anti inflammatory. Chances are they aren’t going to be too much of a help, unfortunately. If insurance will cover the visit, it wouldn’t do any harm, as long as the doctor who examines you isn’t really rough when he checks it out and aggravates things, which can happen.

Yeah that’s what I thought would probably happen so I didn’t. I’m just going to leave it alone like I did before.

If you think that feeding into a young man’s anxiety is a good thing well that is an opinion I don’t share. Has he gotten any better since the last day? Now he is going to wake his parents in the middle of the night to take him to the emergency room. Feeding his fear is not a good thing to me.

People with a penile injury are going to have anxiety no matter what. Your posts attempt to shame, belittle and demean them into being quiet about it and suffering in silence, which can make things worse. But at least they’ll be emotionally intimidated out of posting, so you won’t have to listen to it and it won’t be any skin off of your back.

What I did was provide some very simple, practical ways to avoid aggravating the injury, and defended this man from your vicious, passive aggressive attempts to incite everyone in the thread against him and shame him into silence. I’m sure he could have defended himself just fine, but he just injured his penis, he shouldn’t have to deal with that too.

He had been given great advice on this thread; let things rest, stop freaking out, and if you want to go to the doctor. What better advice could be given? Now did he take the advice?

Let’s look at the last 48 hours for this young man; he got injured which then went to a hard flaccid which in turn led to blood from his penis dripping into his scrotum which in turn became a penile fracture which may have led to PTSD all the while he could get erections and then he couldn’t etc. Now does that seem normal to you or freaked out?

My advice? Be a big boy, rest ( although I don’t think he will) go to a doctor ( which will say he’s fine and the guy won’t believe him) and then we’ve taken a young man and really screwed him up. Sorry I will not take part in hurting this kid.He’s all yours; try not to mess him up more than he already is!

You’ve already done a lot of damage, so you should take your own advice and leave this thread.

When someone gets injured from PE, you come on and try to smear them and call them crazy to shut them up and make other people ignore them, and then paint yourself as trying to help.

I don’t have PTSD, I was making a joke when I said that. I don’t have a penile fracture either. I know it’ll heal again, I’m not freaking out like I was before. I’m stressed and worried, but not like before. Talking to me and giving me advice won’t damage my psyche.

And lets not continue arguing on this thread.

Man I don’t want to argue. Help you get better? Yes! Young people freak out about every little thing now. You penis is a lot tougher than you think it is. Might you have injured it? Sure! Have I injured mine? Sure. What did I do. I just let it rest; I gave it time. Not two days. Hell it takes the body a week just to get rid of a simple black and blue so why not give it time.

My advice to you on an earlier post was to get off the computer, go out and enjoy yourself. Hang out with some mates; enjoy yourself. Many studies have shown the stress causes increased healing time so you are only hurting yourself more by thinking the way you have been.

Here’s my bottom line as I won’t post on this thread again. Let it alone, go do something, and within 2 weeks from today you’ll be fine. I’ll watch this thread and we’ll see.

I appreciate all of your advice as well, and I know you were trying to help when you said maybe less attention would be a good thing for me. But this isn’t in my head. I did actually re-open the injury just by getting an erection, it’s not in my head. I’m going to need to get anti-erection drugs from the doctor or something to get my penis to fully heal.

I don’t want to argue either, but I do want to defend people who are dealing with a penile injury and then made to feel like they are on the witness stand, which actually can do harm to a person and I’ve seen it on these kind of threads before.

You shouldn’t need to keep saying that it’s clear something is wrong, and you know something is wrong. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself like you are on trial.

Now that we stood up to jimmybob he is going to say that he cares and wants to help and all of that, but imagine if nobody stood up to him at all. This thread would have gotten very ugly and he would have done all that he could have to smear you and derail the thread. He is basically just sorry that he got caught.

Again, I don’t want to argue, but I’ve seen some pretty nasty things done to people posting about injuries and it’s hard for me to just sit there and watch it go down that road.

Anyway, you have already seen improvements, which is a very good sign.

I don’t think Jimmybob meant any harm. His earlier posts were all positive and reassuring and they made me feel a bit better when I was really feeling shitty. I kind of put myself in this situation of people not taking me seriously, I shouldn’t have freaked out like I did. Everyone who has posted on this thread has helped me whether it was with useful advice, or it was just mental support, and I really appreciate all of it. My situation seems to be getting better. My testicles aren’t hanging as low as they were, and there isn’t as much red discoloration on the left side of my scrotum either, and the mark below my glans isn’t as red.

If you don’t want to argue, then drop it. Continuing to push jimmybob’s buttons doesn’t make it look like you don’t want to argue.

Maybe you are a better person than I am and want to give people the benefit of the doubt, but I first got injured in January of 2011, and I have seen it all. I just needed to speak my peace, but I guess we can never know for sure what direction this thread may have gone. The main thing now is that you are seeing good signs.

Fair enough, I just needed to speak my peace. I’ve been through all of this so it is a sensitive issue.